POSITIVE
SELF-TALK
 John Ellsworth, M.A.
 Sports Psychology Consultant




                                www.protexsports.com
Positive Self Talk – What is it?
       •       The internal dialog we have going
               on every day.
           –        60,000 thoughts / day
           –        Quality of dialog separates the good
                    performer from the peak performer

       •       It can either be helpful or harmful.
           –        Five ways we self-talk about performance
                •      I think I can…
                •      I hope I can…
                •      I believe I can…
                •      I know I can…
                •      I will make this happen




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Positive Self Talk – What is it?

         •       Is both instructional, and
                 motivational.
             –     Executing skills & strategies…
             –     Mental toughness, focus, & confidence…
             –     Keeping on track to achieve goals…


         •       How does it affect you?
             –     The subconscious is the control center
                   for all movement.
             –     Constantly being programmed by
                   thoughts, words, emotions we to tell it.
             –     Good input = in Good output



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Asset or Liability:
Self-Talk can be an asset or a liability
           • Helps the athlete to remain in the
             present - it’s an asset

           • Takes the athlete to dwell on the past,
             focus on unhealthy beliefs, or the
             future outcomes - it is a liability.

           • Which is it for you?




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Asset or Liability:
Self-Talk can be an asset or a liability

            •   Is your self-talk an asset
                or a liability?

                –   Take a mini self – assessment.

                –   Hear, see, and feel the self-dialog
                    in your last performance.




                                                 www.protexsports.com
Negative Self-Talk – DISRUPTS
AUTOMATICITY of performance
       Evaluates performance & engages
          the mind in derogatory self-
          labeling, & rating.

       Holding these patterns reinforces
          behavior to confirm these
          perceptions. Self-Fulfilling!

       Affects immediate performance, self-
           esteem.


                                       www.protexsports.com
Negative Self-Talk – DISRUPTS
AUTOMATICITY of performance
         Self-Esteem & Confidence begins and
              ends with self-talk.

         Self-Talk feeds the mind with data &
              feelings about performance.

         We gain Confidence - via task success.
            Positive Self-Talk strengthens the
            mind with “power” food.

         Best Performances - happen when?


                                           www.protexsports.com
Negative Self-Talk – DISRUPTS
AUTOMATICITY of performance
        If the goal is poor performance - negative
              talk works every time.

        If goal = Success – immerse yourself on
             the immediate “task” at hand.
             Incorporate performance enhancing
             process thoughts. Amazing things
             will happen!!




                                            www.protexsports.com
Planned Self-Talk – can enhance
    SKILL ACQUISITION &
         EXECUTION
          Goal: Reduce conscious control & promote
                automatic execution of the skill. (More) focus
                on desired feeling(s).

          Skill Learning – Self-talk is frequent & focused on
                 technique, mechanics, & execution.

          Mastery - Self-talk becomes shorter, less frequent, &
               shifts focus away from mechanics. Focusing
               on strategies, optimal feelings, & images is key
               consistent success.

          Key reminders – like “cue words” create images

          – See it - hear it - feel it - !



                                                        www.protexsports.com
Planned Self-Talk – can enhance
    SKILL ACQUISITION &
         EXECUTION

           •   Objective: Focus on
               success/achievement rather than
               physical mechanics/technique of
               the task.

           •   Confidence first, then Trust
               without conscious thought
               process on mechanics.


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Different Types of
Self Talk – There are 7
      1.   Self -Talk for Changing Bad Habits

      2.   Self -Talk for Attention Control

      3.   Self -Talk for Creating Affect or Mood

      4.   Self -Talk for Changing Affect or Mood

      5.   Self - Talk for Controlling Effort

      6.   Self – Talk for Building Self- Efficacy

      7.   Self-Talk for Increasing Adoption &
           Maintenance of Exercise Behavior


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Identifying Self-Talk
    •   Retrospection - looking back
        and contrasting good versus
        poor performances

    •   Imagery – rehearse / review
        past performances & note
        patterns in self-talk

    •   Self -Talk Log – track self-talk
        (Self-Talk Monitoring System)


                                    www.protexsports.com
Techniques for
Controlling Self-Talk

    1.   Thought Stoppage – awareness &
         use of trigger to STOP the thought

    2.   Countering – identify & build a
         case against the statements.
         Internal dialog that uses facts &
         reasons to refute the underlying
         belief.

    “No that’s not right, who says I
        can’t?

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Techniques for
Controlling Self-Talk
    3.   Reframing – Alternative frames of reference
         or different point of view. Acknowledge &
         use situation to ones best advantage.

    Negative: “I’m not feeling confident about my
         chances….
    Reframe: “ I’m looking forward to the
         challenge…

    Negative: “I’m feeling tense & anxious about the
         event today”
    Reframe: “I’m feeling excited and ready to rock
         and roll”
    Reframe: “I’m feeling like I have the butterflies
         flying in formation”


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Techniques for
Controlling Self-Talk

    4. Affirmations - Positive Self-
       Talk Statements
      –   Refocus the mind – “cue words”
      –   Repeat powerful words that get the attention
          of your internal computer (subconscious).
      –   Great preventive strategy - keeps the mind
          positive - No time for negative to creep in.
      –   Examples: Power & Speed, Perfect
          Rhythm, Glide & Stride, Smooth Delivery




                                              www.protexsports.com
Formula for Self-Talk Success

       5.       What Next?

            –     Training is a process. The destination will
                  be there. Enjoy the journey!
            –     The extra edge to reaching peak
                  performance results = mental strength!
            –     Homework assignment: Create three
                  positive affirmations for each event.
            –     It’s all about “how you say it”. The mind will
                  do what we tell it.

            “The mind controls the body, and the mind
                  is unlimited” ~ Craig Townsend


                                                        www.protexsports.com

Positive Self Talk

  • 1.
    POSITIVE SELF-TALK John Ellsworth,M.A. Sports Psychology Consultant www.protexsports.com
  • 2.
    Positive Self Talk– What is it? • The internal dialog we have going on every day. – 60,000 thoughts / day – Quality of dialog separates the good performer from the peak performer • It can either be helpful or harmful. – Five ways we self-talk about performance • I think I can… • I hope I can… • I believe I can… • I know I can… • I will make this happen www.protexsports.com
  • 3.
    Positive Self Talk– What is it? • Is both instructional, and motivational. – Executing skills & strategies… – Mental toughness, focus, & confidence… – Keeping on track to achieve goals… • How does it affect you? – The subconscious is the control center for all movement. – Constantly being programmed by thoughts, words, emotions we to tell it. – Good input = in Good output www.protexsports.com
  • 4.
    Asset or Liability: Self-Talkcan be an asset or a liability • Helps the athlete to remain in the present - it’s an asset • Takes the athlete to dwell on the past, focus on unhealthy beliefs, or the future outcomes - it is a liability. • Which is it for you? www.protexsports.com
  • 5.
    Asset or Liability: Self-Talkcan be an asset or a liability • Is your self-talk an asset or a liability? – Take a mini self – assessment. – Hear, see, and feel the self-dialog in your last performance. www.protexsports.com
  • 6.
    Negative Self-Talk –DISRUPTS AUTOMATICITY of performance Evaluates performance & engages the mind in derogatory self- labeling, & rating. Holding these patterns reinforces behavior to confirm these perceptions. Self-Fulfilling! Affects immediate performance, self- esteem. www.protexsports.com
  • 7.
    Negative Self-Talk –DISRUPTS AUTOMATICITY of performance Self-Esteem & Confidence begins and ends with self-talk. Self-Talk feeds the mind with data & feelings about performance. We gain Confidence - via task success. Positive Self-Talk strengthens the mind with “power” food. Best Performances - happen when? www.protexsports.com
  • 8.
    Negative Self-Talk –DISRUPTS AUTOMATICITY of performance If the goal is poor performance - negative talk works every time. If goal = Success – immerse yourself on the immediate “task” at hand. Incorporate performance enhancing process thoughts. Amazing things will happen!! www.protexsports.com
  • 9.
    Planned Self-Talk –can enhance SKILL ACQUISITION & EXECUTION Goal: Reduce conscious control & promote automatic execution of the skill. (More) focus on desired feeling(s). Skill Learning – Self-talk is frequent & focused on technique, mechanics, & execution. Mastery - Self-talk becomes shorter, less frequent, & shifts focus away from mechanics. Focusing on strategies, optimal feelings, & images is key consistent success. Key reminders – like “cue words” create images – See it - hear it - feel it - ! www.protexsports.com
  • 10.
    Planned Self-Talk –can enhance SKILL ACQUISITION & EXECUTION • Objective: Focus on success/achievement rather than physical mechanics/technique of the task. • Confidence first, then Trust without conscious thought process on mechanics. www.protexsports.com
  • 11.
    Different Types of SelfTalk – There are 7 1. Self -Talk for Changing Bad Habits 2. Self -Talk for Attention Control 3. Self -Talk for Creating Affect or Mood 4. Self -Talk for Changing Affect or Mood 5. Self - Talk for Controlling Effort 6. Self – Talk for Building Self- Efficacy 7. Self-Talk for Increasing Adoption & Maintenance of Exercise Behavior www.protexsports.com
  • 12.
    Identifying Self-Talk • Retrospection - looking back and contrasting good versus poor performances • Imagery – rehearse / review past performances & note patterns in self-talk • Self -Talk Log – track self-talk (Self-Talk Monitoring System) www.protexsports.com
  • 13.
    Techniques for Controlling Self-Talk 1. Thought Stoppage – awareness & use of trigger to STOP the thought 2. Countering – identify & build a case against the statements. Internal dialog that uses facts & reasons to refute the underlying belief. “No that’s not right, who says I can’t? www.protexsports.com
  • 14.
    Techniques for Controlling Self-Talk 3. Reframing – Alternative frames of reference or different point of view. Acknowledge & use situation to ones best advantage. Negative: “I’m not feeling confident about my chances…. Reframe: “ I’m looking forward to the challenge… Negative: “I’m feeling tense & anxious about the event today” Reframe: “I’m feeling excited and ready to rock and roll” Reframe: “I’m feeling like I have the butterflies flying in formation” www.protexsports.com
  • 15.
    Techniques for Controlling Self-Talk 4. Affirmations - Positive Self- Talk Statements – Refocus the mind – “cue words” – Repeat powerful words that get the attention of your internal computer (subconscious). – Great preventive strategy - keeps the mind positive - No time for negative to creep in. – Examples: Power & Speed, Perfect Rhythm, Glide & Stride, Smooth Delivery www.protexsports.com
  • 16.
    Formula for Self-TalkSuccess 5. What Next? – Training is a process. The destination will be there. Enjoy the journey! – The extra edge to reaching peak performance results = mental strength! – Homework assignment: Create three positive affirmations for each event. – It’s all about “how you say it”. The mind will do what we tell it. “The mind controls the body, and the mind is unlimited” ~ Craig Townsend www.protexsports.com