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Behaviors that could
be hurting your career
by Peter Trombetti
Oficio Group
You waste people’s time
• You’re late to meetings constantly
• You aren’t prepared
This says that you really don’t care about other
people’s schedule or feelings and they will definitely
notice. Consider those around you when scheduling
meetings and fulfilling work orders.
You ignore those below your
“level”
• You don’t make conversation with employees
below your position
• You suck up, only to those that can further your
career
No one like someone that thinks they are better than
everyone else. Those people you ignore may become
peers, employees or one day even bosses. It will help
you in the long run to be nice to everyone.
You ask for too much
• You can’t figure things out for yourself
• You ask more than once
• You try to guilt someone into helping you
• You don’t offer help back
People don’t want to help someone that doesn’t try to
help themselves. They also don’t want to help
someone who doesn’t offer help back.
You ask questions to show
off
• You ask questions you already know the answer
too
• You interrupt or don’t let them answer so you can
show off
No one likes a showoff. And they especially don’t like
a showoff who pretend to care about their feelings.
Ask questions and be genuinely interested in what
others have to say.
You’re favorite line is “Do you
know who I am?”
• No one wants to be around someone who thinks
they are too important to be there
• Even if you are important - Acting like makes you
you look entitled
Walking into a room and acting like you’re too good to
be there or that you deserve special attention is a
quick way to no longer get an invite.
You push your opinions
• You try to make everyone know where you stand
• You want everyone to know the things you are
doing in your life
• You’re the one always offering advice… even
when they don’t ask for it
The quickest way to end a conversation is to act like a
know-it-all. Always remember to keep your opinions to
yourself unless they ask for it.

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Peter Trombetti - Behaviors that could be hurting your career

  • 1. Behaviors that could be hurting your career by Peter Trombetti Oficio Group
  • 2. You waste people’s time • You’re late to meetings constantly • You aren’t prepared This says that you really don’t care about other people’s schedule or feelings and they will definitely notice. Consider those around you when scheduling meetings and fulfilling work orders.
  • 3. You ignore those below your “level” • You don’t make conversation with employees below your position • You suck up, only to those that can further your career No one like someone that thinks they are better than everyone else. Those people you ignore may become peers, employees or one day even bosses. It will help you in the long run to be nice to everyone.
  • 4. You ask for too much • You can’t figure things out for yourself • You ask more than once • You try to guilt someone into helping you • You don’t offer help back People don’t want to help someone that doesn’t try to help themselves. They also don’t want to help someone who doesn’t offer help back.
  • 5. You ask questions to show off • You ask questions you already know the answer too • You interrupt or don’t let them answer so you can show off No one likes a showoff. And they especially don’t like a showoff who pretend to care about their feelings. Ask questions and be genuinely interested in what others have to say.
  • 6. You’re favorite line is “Do you know who I am?” • No one wants to be around someone who thinks they are too important to be there • Even if you are important - Acting like makes you you look entitled Walking into a room and acting like you’re too good to be there or that you deserve special attention is a quick way to no longer get an invite.
  • 7. You push your opinions • You try to make everyone know where you stand • You want everyone to know the things you are doing in your life • You’re the one always offering advice… even when they don’t ask for it The quickest way to end a conversation is to act like a know-it-all. Always remember to keep your opinions to yourself unless they ask for it.