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This document provides an overview of personal relationships including family relationships, friendships, and romantic relationships. It discusses key aspects of healthy relationships like mutual respect, compassion, empathy, understanding, acceptance, honesty, trust, good communication, consideration, compatibility, mutual enjoyment, personal integrity, and vulnerability. The document also covers different types of love according to ancient Greek philosophy including philia (affectionate love), pragma (enduring love), storge (familiar love), eros (romantic love), ludus (playful love), mania (obsessive love), philautia (self-love), and agape (selfless love). Finally, it discusses the 5 love languages according to relationship expert Gary Chapman: words

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QUARTER 2 MODULE 1: PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
Personal Relationship CONTENTS 1 Attraction, Love And Commitment 2 Being Responsible in a Healthy Relationship 3 QUARTER 2; MODULE 1: PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
LESSON 1: PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
Title refers to the association and close connections between people, formed by emotional bonds and interactions. These bonds often grow from and are formed by mutual experiences. PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
Title FAMILY RELATIONSHIP Family is defined as “two or more persons who are related by birth, marriage, or adoption, and who live together as one household.” It includes siblings and parents who may with you as you grow up, and relatives such as grandparents, aunts,uncles, and cousins who you may not see frequently. Family bond plays a vital role in person’s well-being since it may form other kinds of relationships such as friendships and romantic relationships. Having strong family relationships is ideal although it doesn’t happen always. There should be love and closeness. Parents and older relatives role is to guide discipline and support you when needed
Title Arguments, disagreements, moments of anger and hurt are normal in a family since you spend so much time together, and these are short-lived for families still love and care about each other. There is an increase of arguments and conflicts with parents when teenagers assert their independence and find their identity as adult. These shall pass after teenage years.
Title FRIENDSHIPS Friends are the people who we are not related to but who we choose to interact with. They are the people who we trust, respect, care about and feel that we can confide in and want to spend time with. A friendship is a reciprocal relationship. Both people must see each other as a friend for it to exist.
Title There are different degrees of friendship. You may find that you feel closer to some friends than others. This is perfectly normal. Some friends, especially if they have only been known for a short time or are not seen very often, may not be appropriate to confide in about personal issues or concerns. You may find that you feel more comfortable and able to confide in friends whom you have known for longer or spend more time with. Some people have many friends, while others may only have one or two. There is no right or wrong number of friends to have and everyone is different. Good friendships are mutually respectful, supportive and share common interests and ideas. It should be built on honesty, support and loyalty. Romantic contact or Being intimate physically is not appropriate in a friendship.
Title ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP A romantic relationship is when you feel very strongly attracted to the other person, both to their personality and, often, also physically and should be reciprocated by the other person in the relationship. A romantic relationship exists between a boyfriend and girlfriend (in a heterosexual relationship) or a boyfriend and boyfriend or girlfriend and girlfriend (in a homosexual relationship) or spouses (in a marriage) or life partners (in a civil partnership or long-term unmarried relationship). A romantic relationship is the closest form of relationship in which, the two people who are involved will often describe themselves as being attracted to each other and/or “in love”. They feel a strong connection and bond to each other that they do not feel with anyone else, even close friends. The bond is also exclusive and monogamous.
Title Romantic Relationship Arguments and disagreements occur in romantic relationships sometimes. Some relationships quickly become apparent that the two people involved are not compatible and do not want to spend their lives together, and so the relationship may end after only a few months. In other cases, both may be together for many years or may stay together for the rest of their lives.
Title Romantic Relationship Successful romantic relationships are built on love, trust, respect, support, acceptance, shared interests and a desire for the two people involved to share their lives together and end with marriage
LESSON 2: ATTRACTION, LOVE AND COMMITMENT
Title Attraction, Love And Affection According to Helen Fisher, attraction is primarily on physiology or certain hormones that get attracted to others and is the first stage during the changes of personality development which leads to closeness, love and commitment. But, disappointments in relationships occur usually because of the misunderstanding about the different ways of expressing their attraction, love and commitment. In the biological model of love as proposed by anthropologist Helen Fisher, love can start with any of these three feelings: lust, attraction and attachment depending on the person
Title Three Brain Systems of Love or Stages of Falling in Love 1. LUST refers to an urge or desire that motivates us to partake in sexual activity. 2. ATTRACTION is described as the love-struck phase. This is the stage when a person loses sleep and appetite over someone and become excited to someone while daydreaming of special person. It is part of lust because it involves focusing our attention to a particular person or desire. Many factors influence attraction.
Title 1. Physical Attractiveness It is one of the primary determinants of romantic attraction. Most people prefer whom they consider physically attractive especially in the early stages of dating. 2. Proximity People tend to get attracted to people who are geographically closer to them. They are more likely to develop feelings of mutual familiarity with the people who live close to us or go to school with us and increased level of comfort when there is regular contact and no prior negative feelings. 3. Similarity People pick partners who we have similarities with such as social class, background, religious beliefs, age and education. The more attitudes and opinions two people share, especially when they are similar, the more they will want to do the same activities, and would create a strong bond between them. 4. Reciprocity People like others who like them back. People feel indebted when someone does something good for them and tend to reciprocate the action. The more we are liked by someone they equally like, the more we behave in ways that promote mutual feelings of liking. FACTORS OF ATTRACTION
Title 1. ATTACHMENT is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space. It is when long-lasting commitments are exchanged.
Title Robert Strenberg (1988) suggests that there are three main components of love. Love relationships vary and it depends on the presence or absence of each of these components. Three Components of Triangular Theory of Love INTIMACY is an intimate interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy. It is characterized by friendship, familiarity, or romantic love. It involves closeness, connectedness, and bondedness. PASSION is an intense emotion, a compelling enthusiasm or desire for something. COMMITMENT is the attitude of someone who works very hard to do or support something. It is an act deciding to consistently fulfil and live by agreements made with another person, entity, or cause, and where the values of integrity and respect serve as a guide to one’s behaviour and thinking. The easy ways to express your commitment to your relationships is to show love and loyalty, respect and appreciate others, convey honesty and trust, work as a team and compromise, and disagree agreeably.
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Title Text Text Text Love occurs not solely between romantic partners only. Humans can experience different types of love in various relationships, such as with romantic partners, friends, family and even strangers. Ancient Greeks studied love and denote each type by giving each one a Greek name. Lee (1973) offers a theory love styles which are derived from an analysis of writings about love through centuries.
Title LOVE PHILIA – Affectionate Love It is love that runs deep in true friendships. Love without romantic attraction and occurs between friends and family members. It is called brotherly love when both people share the same values and respect each other. Ways to show this love:  Engage in deep conversation with a friend.  Exchange beliefs and imperfections with close friends.  Be open and trustworthy  Be supportive in difficult times.
Title LOVE PRAGMA – Enduring Love It is a mature love that develops over time. It is committed, compassionate lovethat often grows as two partners continue to cherish and care for each other. Commitment and efforts are needed to reach “Pragma”. Instead of “falling in love”, you are “standing in love” with the partner by your side. Ways to show this love:  Continue to strengthen the bond of long term relationships  Seek and show effort with your partner.  Choose to work with your partner forever
Title LOVE STORGE – Familiar love It is naturally occurring love rooted in parents and children, as well as best friends. It’s an infinite love built upon acceptance and deep emotional connection. This love come easily and immediately in parent and child relationships. It flows between parents and children or childhood friends. Ways to show this love:  Sacrifice your time, self or personal pleasures.  Quickly forgive harmful actions.  Share memorable and impactful moments.  Show gratitude towards the people close to you.
LOVE EROS – Romantic Love It is named after the Greek god of fertily,Eros. It is the idea of sexual passion and desires. It is a personal infatuation and physical pleasure. It is a passionate love displayed through physical affection. Ways to show this love:  Admiring someone’s physical body  Engage in physical touch such as hugging and kissing but it is not appropriate for you yet.
Title Ways to show this love:  Spend time together to laugh and have fun  Exemplify child like behaviour together. LUDUS –Playful love Ludus means "game" or "play" in Latin. It is an Uncommittal Love. Flirting and beginning stages of intimate love. It is a child-like and flirtatious love found in the beginning. This type of love consists of teasing, playful motives and laughter between two people.
Title LOVE Ways to avoid this love:  Recognize obsessive or possessive behaviour before acting upon it.  Focus on yourself more than another person.  Put trust into your relationships MANIA –Obsessive Love Obsessiveness or madness over a love partner is mania. It leads to unwanted jealousy or possessiveness.
Title LOVE PHILAUTIA –Self Love It is having a healthy “self-compassion” love towards one’s self. It is when you recognize your self-worth and don’t ignore your personal needs. Self-love begins with acknowledging your responsibility for your well-being. THE BAD SIDE Hubris (/ˈhjuːbrɪs/; from Ancient Greek ὕβρις (húbris) 'pride, insolence, outrage'), or less frequently hybris (/ˈhaɪbrɪs/), describes a personality quality of extreme or excessive pride or dangerous overconfidence, often in combination with (or synonymous with) arrogance
Title LOVE Ways to avoid this love:  Respect, accept ad appreciate yourself.  Create environment that nurtures your well- being.  Take care of yourself like a parent would care for a child  Spend time around people who supports you.
Title LOVE AGAPE –Selfless Love, Unconditional Love It is an empathetic attitude of love for everyone and anyone. It is the highest love to offer. It is given without any expectations of receiving anything in return. It is considered as unconditional love. Agape is a girl's name of Greek origin, meaning “love,” “affection,” and “esteem.” Agape is an incredibly prevalent word in Christianity and refers to the fatherly love of God for humans and their reciprocity
LOVE  Dedicate your life to improve the lives of others.  Stay conscious of your actions for the good of humankind.  Offer your time and charity to someone in need.  Express unconditional love in any situation
Title LOVE LANGUAGE 1. Words of Affirmation “Actions don’t always speak louder than word”. Unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Wanting to hear “I love you” or other positive compliments you’re your partner. And if you don’t hear it, then you might feel unloved. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You wanted to hear kind and encouraging words that build you up.
Title Love Language 2. Acts of Service Doing nice things for other people and anything you do to ease the burden of the other person are “acts of service.” Whether it’s changing someone’s oil, cleaning the house, or giving a back rub, doing things to help make the other person happy is what this one is about. Helping with homework can be an expression of love to you. The words you wanted to hear is “Let me do it for you”.
Title Love Language 3. Receiving Gifts You value giving and receiving gifts and some do not. So, if you measure your partner’s love by how many gifts you are given, then your love language is “receiving gifts.” Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of the gifts wanted on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. A missed birthday or a thoughtless gift would be disastrous.
Title Love Language 4. Quality Time You measure the quality of love by how much time the other people want to spend with you. If you don’t get enough “together time,” then you might feel unloved. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there – with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks standby makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be hurtful.
Title Love Language 5. Physical Touch A person whose primary language is physical touch is not very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hand and thoughtful touches on the arm can show excitement, concern, care and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety and love to you.
LESSON 3: BEING RESPONSIBLE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
Title Important Aspects for Healthy Relationships Adapted from Woititz, J. , Adult Children of Alcoholics Mutual Respect Do I treat the other person as if he/she is of value? Compassion Do I have genuine concern for the issues that cause the other person concern? Empathy To what degree am I able to allow myself to be open to what he/she feels? Understanding Do I try to understand the other peson, what they say or do? Acceptance Can I feel I am okay the way I am? Do I accept him/her as he/she is? Honesty Is the relationship built on truthfulness, or are there games involved? Trust To what degree am I willing to let the other person know private aspects of my thoughts, feelings, and life? Good Communication Can we talk freely about issues that are important to the relationships? Do we know how to talk so we each are understood and sharing is safe? Consideration Am I mindful of the other person’s needs as well as my own? Compatibility To what extent do we like and value the same things? Mutual Enjoyment In areas of disagreement, are we able to agree or disagree? Personal Integrity Am I able to maintain my beliefs and sense of self as well as offer my time and attention to the relationship? Vulnerability To what degree can I let down my barriers and allow the other person to see my perceived weaknesses, without fear of negative reactions from them?
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