OHT 2.1

          Identifying Anxiety And Fear

๏ƒ˜ You feel anxious about going to school or work, and have
  difficulty doing your work.
๏ƒ˜ You feel negative about almost everything. Nothing is
  working for you
๏ƒ˜ You donโ€™t want to mix with friends or meet new people.
๏ƒ˜ You feel stressed and uptight a lot of the time.
๏ƒ˜ You feel like nobody understands you.
๏ƒ˜ You spend    hours   in   your   room   alone,   thinking   and
  worrying.


 Write down any feelings you have that have not been
mentioned above.


                           OHT 2.2

                     Noticing Anger


๏ฑ   Feel where you are feeling angry


๏ฑ   Write down how you feel in detail


๏ฑ   Tell the person face-to-face, in private.


๏ฑ   Convert your angry energy to something positive


๏ฑ   Let go the feeling of guilt if you have spoken honestly
๏ฑ   Remember to breathe.



                            OHT 2.3

                Empowering Yourself
                With Self-Awareness

ABCD Model                     What it means

Activating Events              What causes the feelings to arise

Beliefs                        The mental state at the time of
                               processing the event

Consequential feelings         The feelings created by my beliefs
Decisive Actions                 The action I because of my
                                 emotions.




                           OHT 2.4

 Case Study 1:
 Teck Ming does not really enjoy it when the Company goes on
 expeditions, or worse, conducts rappelling or Omega Descent
 activities. He hates expeditions for many reasons: the bugs, the
 heavy pack and the long, endless plodding. But these are tolerable
 when compared to activities conducted at height.

 He still clearly remembers the rapid beating of his heart, and the
 growing fear in his heart as he looked down from the third floor,
 during the Omega Descent in his Recruitsโ€™ Training Camp. In fact,
that gnawing feeling had begun when he saw the Officers setting up
the apparatus. He didnโ€™t really care if the others had made it, or that
it was safe and to this day, he canโ€™t understand why Mr Soon, was
shouting at him to leap.




                             OHT2.5




โ€œI gain strength, courage and confidence
                                 by
every experience in which I must stop
                 and
       look fear in the face.โ€
           Eleanor Roosevelt
OHT 2.6

          Facing your obstaclesโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆ

๏ฑ   Stop and get out to get fresh air and exercise or walk.

๏ฑ   Allow your positive energy to flow instead of focusing

    on

    negative happenings.

๏ฑ   Do one small thing at a time and be happy with that.

๏ฑ   Talk to someone you trust about your feelings and fears.

๏ฑ   Write a journal about how you feel; get it out on paper.
๏ฑ   List the problems whether they are life threatening or

    not



                            OHT2.7
Case Study 2:
Samuel often wonders about how good it will be if he could turn back
time. He looks back at his Primary School days longingly, a time of
his life when he even enjoyed school. Now, he feels he has to juggle
both schoolwork, CCA and hours of tuition.


He also feels that going to BB gives him needless stress. The
atmosphere is too tense, with too much shouting and negativity. The
Officers on parade hardly seem like the friendly sort on Recruitment
Day. Staying home on Saturdays doing nothing seems a far better
option.

Oht 2

  • 1.
    OHT 2.1 Identifying Anxiety And Fear ๏ƒ˜ You feel anxious about going to school or work, and have difficulty doing your work. ๏ƒ˜ You feel negative about almost everything. Nothing is working for you ๏ƒ˜ You donโ€™t want to mix with friends or meet new people. ๏ƒ˜ You feel stressed and uptight a lot of the time. ๏ƒ˜ You feel like nobody understands you. ๏ƒ˜ You spend hours in your room alone, thinking and worrying. Write down any feelings you have that have not been
  • 2.
    mentioned above. OHT 2.2 Noticing Anger ๏ฑ Feel where you are feeling angry ๏ฑ Write down how you feel in detail ๏ฑ Tell the person face-to-face, in private. ๏ฑ Convert your angry energy to something positive ๏ฑ Let go the feeling of guilt if you have spoken honestly
  • 3.
    ๏ฑ Remember to breathe. OHT 2.3 Empowering Yourself With Self-Awareness ABCD Model What it means Activating Events What causes the feelings to arise Beliefs The mental state at the time of processing the event Consequential feelings The feelings created by my beliefs
  • 4.
    Decisive Actions The action I because of my emotions. OHT 2.4 Case Study 1: Teck Ming does not really enjoy it when the Company goes on expeditions, or worse, conducts rappelling or Omega Descent activities. He hates expeditions for many reasons: the bugs, the heavy pack and the long, endless plodding. But these are tolerable when compared to activities conducted at height. He still clearly remembers the rapid beating of his heart, and the growing fear in his heart as he looked down from the third floor, during the Omega Descent in his Recruitsโ€™ Training Camp. In fact,
  • 5.
    that gnawing feelinghad begun when he saw the Officers setting up the apparatus. He didnโ€™t really care if the others had made it, or that it was safe and to this day, he canโ€™t understand why Mr Soon, was shouting at him to leap. OHT2.5 โ€œI gain strength, courage and confidence by
  • 6.
    every experience inwhich I must stop and look fear in the face.โ€ Eleanor Roosevelt
  • 7.
    OHT 2.6 Facing your obstaclesโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆ ๏ฑ Stop and get out to get fresh air and exercise or walk. ๏ฑ Allow your positive energy to flow instead of focusing on negative happenings. ๏ฑ Do one small thing at a time and be happy with that. ๏ฑ Talk to someone you trust about your feelings and fears. ๏ฑ Write a journal about how you feel; get it out on paper.
  • 8.
    ๏ฑ List the problems whether they are life threatening or not OHT2.7 Case Study 2: Samuel often wonders about how good it will be if he could turn back time. He looks back at his Primary School days longingly, a time of his life when he even enjoyed school. Now, he feels he has to juggle both schoolwork, CCA and hours of tuition. He also feels that going to BB gives him needless stress. The atmosphere is too tense, with too much shouting and negativity. The
  • 9.
    Officers on paradehardly seem like the friendly sort on Recruitment Day. Staying home on Saturdays doing nothing seems a far better option.