1) Melvin has struggled with his weight and lack of confidence since primary school. He joined BB at his mother's suggestion but finds it difficult to fit in and lead others. He feels trapped because he has no one to confide in about how he feels. 2) Chris was used to being a natural leader but was surprised when he did not receive the promotions he expected. While others may not know how upset he is, the missed promotions damaged his self-image and confidence. 3) Both boys would benefit from focusing on their own values and maintaining a positive self-image, instead of basing their worth on external factors like promotions or what others think. Learning to set boundaries and care for themselves can