Non
Communication
Verbal
Uses
convey emotion
define relationship
provide feedback
reinforce verbal messages
regulate communication
interpersonal
communication
NVC
haptics
paralanguage
proximity
appearance
haptics
affection
familiarity
sympathy
care
concern
power/control
Paralanguage
• all aspects of the voice:
tone
pitch
speed
volume
p.a.u.s.e.s
he/si/ta/tions/
How close are we?
• Intimate Distance (touching to 45cm)
- bf/gf; husband/wife
• Personal Distance (45cm to 1.2m)
- friends/family members
• Social Distance (1.2m to 3.6m)
- colleagues/co-workers
• Public Distance (3.7m to 4.5m)
- teachers/public speakers
. . . p r o x i m i t y
appearance
color
clothing
hairdo
tattoo
accessories
group
Homework: Jealousy
• How does jealousy affect
relationship?
• When is jealousy good? When is it
bad?
• When was the last time you were
jealous of somebody?

Non verbal communication