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How do you feel
About your work ?
How can you be
Happier at work ?
12 Steps to Happiness (all backed by science)
Thank
Give
Help
Eat Well
Exercise
Rest
Experience
Hike
Meditate
Socialize
Aim
Smile
Worship
Smile
Aim
Socialize
“are you idiot ?”
“Bego banget sih !”
“gitu aja nggak tau !”

“stupid !”
“Kutu Kupret banget sih !”
“Sampah banget sih !”
“ih Cemen banget !”
“Aku tidak bisa”
“Ini tidak adil”
“Aku tidak punya waktu”
“Aku tersinggung”
“Kamu payah”
“Mereka hanya beruntung”
“Aku terlalu lelah”
“Mudah bagi kamu bilang begitu”
Incivility in our workplaces
www.menti.com 17 21 12
small uncivil actions can lead to
much BIGGER problems
aggression and violence
— An uncivility affected with performance
Incivility is disrespect or rudeness
80%
lost work time
66%
cut back their
efforts
12%
left their job
Impact of un-civility
25%
Worse
performance
45%
fewer ideas
Incivility is a toxic
And it’s contagious
Those who witnessed incivility
Break someone's nose
Smash someone's fingers
A1ack/torture/kill someone
Beat/crush a person to death
Sink a body in a river
Throw it through a window
Smash the experimenter's face
Place on the floor to stub people's toes
PAIN
Flirtatiousness
Disgust
Contempt
SURPRISE
PRIDE
EMBARASSMENT
ANGER
HAPPINESS
How Toxic Is Your Work Environment ?
http://bit.ly/civility-toxic
You seem to work in a toxic environment. Uncivil environments have a way of whi8ling away at your health and
performance — even if you’re not the target. Just working around incivility tends to take a toll. While you can’t control
your colleagues, make sure you take care of yourself. Fill your life with energizing supporCve people, learning
opportuniCes and meaningful work, and fun acCviCes outside of work. Exercise reduces stress and will increase your
energy. These acCons will help you bring a stronger, more vital self to work and help you become more immune to the
toxicity of incivility.
UNCIVIL WORK ENVIRONMENT (55 OR GREATER)
There’s definitely room for improvement. Working around incivility pulls people off track, and limits your — and the
organizaCon’s — potenCal. Be mindful of the toll. Are there ways for you to avoid uncivil colleagues? You might reduce
your dependence on uncivil colleagues by seeking advice, informaCon, and support from others. Look for ways to thrive
in other ways — inside and outside the workplace. Mindfulness and meditaCon pracCces should enhance focus,
parCcularly when dealing with the emoCons and stress that stems from incivility. Exercise may also help. Build
relaConships with energizing and supporCve people. Be a role model. Are there ways to encourage your colleagues to be
civil and foster a more posiCve environment?
MODERATELY UNCIVIL WORK ENVIRONMENT (28 - 54)
Consider yourself blessed. You’re among the lucky who work in a civil work environment. Colleagues tend to be
respecOul. You may have to deal with a few jerks and bad behavior from Cme to Cme. Develop norms for civility with
colleagues and hold one another accountable for them. Thank colleagues for their kindness, contribuCons and posiCve
behaviors. Civility pays. It increases your and others' performance and well-being.
CIVIL WORK ENVIRONMENT (1 - 27)
in other word being civil isn’t just about
motivating others, but its about you
what do people want most from their leaders ?
RESPECT
Being treated with respect was more important than recognition and appreciation
92%
More focused
56%
Healthier
1.1%
Greater
retention
55%
more engaged
Impact of RESPECTED
how can you lift people up and make people feel respected ?
So where do you start ?
thanking people sharing credit listening attentively
humbly asking questions acknowledging others smiling has an impact
civility lifts people, we’ll get people to give more and function at their best if we’re civil
The key is to be agile and mindful in each of these moments
7 Ways
Helping to thrive
Identify areas for growth
and actively pursue
development in
those areas
Looks for Opportunities to
innovate
Find meaning or
a sense of purpose
Turn to a mentor
and Coach
Seek positive relationship
inside and outside work
Take good care of yourself
by managing your energy
Focus on thriving
outside work
Effectively change habit
Focus with one habit in
one time
Small start
Write it down
Set a start date
Publish itHave a support system
Make time box
for challenge (30 days)
If it doesn’t challenge you,
it doesn’t change you.
Who do you want to be ?
What are you waiting for?

Non Toxic Team with Mastering Civility

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    How do youfeel About your work ?
  • 4.
    How can yoube Happier at work ?
  • 9.
    12 Steps toHappiness (all backed by science) Thank Give Help Eat Well Exercise Rest Experience Hike Meditate Socialize Aim Smile Worship Smile Aim Socialize
  • 10.
    “are you idiot?” “Bego banget sih !” “gitu aja nggak tau !”
 “stupid !” “Kutu Kupret banget sih !” “Sampah banget sih !” “ih Cemen banget !”
  • 11.
    “Aku tidak bisa” “Initidak adil” “Aku tidak punya waktu” “Aku tersinggung” “Kamu payah” “Mereka hanya beruntung” “Aku terlalu lelah” “Mudah bagi kamu bilang begitu”
  • 12.
    Incivility in ourworkplaces www.menti.com 17 21 12
  • 14.
    small uncivil actionscan lead to much BIGGER problems aggression and violence — An uncivility affected with performance
  • 15.
  • 16.
    80% lost work time 66% cutback their efforts 12% left their job Impact of un-civility 25% Worse performance 45% fewer ideas
  • 17.
    Incivility is atoxic And it’s contagious
  • 18.
    Those who witnessedincivility Break someone's nose Smash someone's fingers A1ack/torture/kill someone Beat/crush a person to death Sink a body in a river Throw it through a window Smash the experimenter's face Place on the floor to stub people's toes
  • 19.
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    How Toxic IsYour Work Environment ? http://bit.ly/civility-toxic
  • 27.
    You seem towork in a toxic environment. Uncivil environments have a way of whi8ling away at your health and performance — even if you’re not the target. Just working around incivility tends to take a toll. While you can’t control your colleagues, make sure you take care of yourself. Fill your life with energizing supporCve people, learning opportuniCes and meaningful work, and fun acCviCes outside of work. Exercise reduces stress and will increase your energy. These acCons will help you bring a stronger, more vital self to work and help you become more immune to the toxicity of incivility. UNCIVIL WORK ENVIRONMENT (55 OR GREATER) There’s definitely room for improvement. Working around incivility pulls people off track, and limits your — and the organizaCon’s — potenCal. Be mindful of the toll. Are there ways for you to avoid uncivil colleagues? You might reduce your dependence on uncivil colleagues by seeking advice, informaCon, and support from others. Look for ways to thrive in other ways — inside and outside the workplace. Mindfulness and meditaCon pracCces should enhance focus, parCcularly when dealing with the emoCons and stress that stems from incivility. Exercise may also help. Build relaConships with energizing and supporCve people. Be a role model. Are there ways to encourage your colleagues to be civil and foster a more posiCve environment? MODERATELY UNCIVIL WORK ENVIRONMENT (28 - 54) Consider yourself blessed. You’re among the lucky who work in a civil work environment. Colleagues tend to be respecOul. You may have to deal with a few jerks and bad behavior from Cme to Cme. Develop norms for civility with colleagues and hold one another accountable for them. Thank colleagues for their kindness, contribuCons and posiCve behaviors. Civility pays. It increases your and others' performance and well-being. CIVIL WORK ENVIRONMENT (1 - 27)
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    in other wordbeing civil isn’t just about motivating others, but its about you
  • 31.
    what do peoplewant most from their leaders ? RESPECT Being treated with respect was more important than recognition and appreciation
  • 32.
  • 33.
    how can youlift people up and make people feel respected ? So where do you start ? thanking people sharing credit listening attentively humbly asking questions acknowledging others smiling has an impact
  • 34.
    civility lifts people,we’ll get people to give more and function at their best if we’re civil The key is to be agile and mindful in each of these moments
  • 35.
  • 36.
    Helping to thrive Identifyareas for growth and actively pursue development in those areas Looks for Opportunities to innovate Find meaning or a sense of purpose Turn to a mentor and Coach Seek positive relationship inside and outside work Take good care of yourself by managing your energy Focus on thriving outside work
  • 37.
    Effectively change habit Focuswith one habit in one time Small start Write it down Set a start date Publish itHave a support system Make time box for challenge (30 days)
  • 38.
    If it doesn’tchallenge you, it doesn’t change you.
  • 39.
    Who do youwant to be ?
  • 40.
    What are youwaiting for?