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Supervision for the Gentle in Spirit
By
Holly Elissa Bruno
supervision
for the gentle in
WHICH SUPERVISION SHOULD I USE?
REFLECTIVE
Employee is mature enough to
examine her own behavior
Employee does not blame
others for her shortcomings
Employee listens well
Employee demonstrates ability
to grow and change
DIRECTIVE
• Employee cannot reflect on her
strengths and weaknesses
• Employee blames others
• Employee finds excuses
• Employee lacks maturity and the
desire/capacity to learn and
grow
• Employee unable to walk in
other’s shoes
Five principles of effective confrontation
1. Focus on behavior, not personality
2. Be factual and concrete
3. Know what you stand for: Keep your eyes on that prize
4. Don’t get “hooked” into power struggles: Q-TIP
5. Expect adults to take responsibility for themselves.
Five steps to effective
confrontation
1. Name inappropriate behavior
2. State what is expected
3. Ask: “What will you do to correct this?”
4. PERSIST until a solution is identified and agreed upon
5. Make a clear plan for follow-up, including notification of
consequences if behavior does not change.
What helps restore us to sanity?
Physically
• Step away from trigger
• Take deep breaths
• Go outside
• Take a work break
• Eat fruit (glucose to brain)
• Picture person in
underwear
Mentally
• Acknowledge the hijack
• Count to 10
• Pray or Meditate
• Recite a mantra
• Help someone else
• Ask “How important is it?”
• Listen to your gut
• Laugh

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Highlights of Holly Elissa Bruno's - Supervision for the Gentle in Spirit

  • 1. Highlights of Supervision for the Gentle in Spirit By Holly Elissa Bruno
  • 3. WHICH SUPERVISION SHOULD I USE? REFLECTIVE Employee is mature enough to examine her own behavior Employee does not blame others for her shortcomings Employee listens well Employee demonstrates ability to grow and change DIRECTIVE • Employee cannot reflect on her strengths and weaknesses • Employee blames others • Employee finds excuses • Employee lacks maturity and the desire/capacity to learn and grow • Employee unable to walk in other’s shoes
  • 4. Five principles of effective confrontation 1. Focus on behavior, not personality 2. Be factual and concrete 3. Know what you stand for: Keep your eyes on that prize 4. Don’t get “hooked” into power struggles: Q-TIP 5. Expect adults to take responsibility for themselves.
  • 5.
  • 6. Five steps to effective confrontation 1. Name inappropriate behavior 2. State what is expected 3. Ask: “What will you do to correct this?” 4. PERSIST until a solution is identified and agreed upon 5. Make a clear plan for follow-up, including notification of consequences if behavior does not change.
  • 7. What helps restore us to sanity? Physically • Step away from trigger • Take deep breaths • Go outside • Take a work break • Eat fruit (glucose to brain) • Picture person in underwear Mentally • Acknowledge the hijack • Count to 10 • Pray or Meditate • Recite a mantra • Help someone else • Ask “How important is it?” • Listen to your gut • Laugh