IMPROVING COMMUNICATION SKILLS PROF. V. VISWANADHAM
SILENCE IS GOLDEN SPEECH IS SILVER
C = R WORDS HAVE  WONDERFUL POWER ENCOURAGE OR DISCOURAGE INSPIRE OR INSTIGATE DO AND UNDO MAKE AND UNMAKE HARM AND HEAL SO, THINK AND SPEAK ? OR, SPEAK AND THINK ?
W. A. T. C. H.   W  = WORDS A  = ACTIONS T  = THOUGHTS C  = CHARACTER H  = HEAD & HEART
THINK MORE THAN YOU TALK & TALK LESS THAN YOU LISTEN THINK > TALK  TALK < LISTEN Think >   listen >   talk
Communication Goals To change behavior To get action To ensure understanding To persuade To get and give Information
Why is  communication  important ? Inspires   confidence Builds   respect   Helps   make friends Reveals   your ability to others Develops   a distinct personality
Most common ways to communicate 70 % of our  communication efforts are: misunderstood  misinterpreted  rejected  distorted or not heard Speaking Visual Images Writing Body Language We need to improve our communication...  70%
COMMUNICATIONS CAN  BOTH ENHANCE & ENRICH RELATIONSHIPS BOTH AT WORK & AT HOME WHY NOT WE DO SOMETHING TO FURTHER IMPROVE OUR COMMUNICATIONS ?
UNIQUENESS OF HUMAN COMMUNICATION SKILLS &quot; YOUR SPEECH REVEALS YOUR CHARACTER &quot; SPEECH IS A MIRROR OF THE SOUL
PEOPLE   ARE  INFLUENCED, PROBLEMS   ARE  SOLVED, CHANGES   ARE  FACILITATED, EXCELLENT  RELATIONSHIPS   ARE  DEVELOPED, DESIRED  RESULTS   ARE  ACHIEVED,   AND SUCCESS   IS  ENSURED.   GET  MOTIVATED TO  IMPROVE YOUR  COMMUNICATION  SKILLS WITH EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS IMPROVE BOTH INTERNAL & EXTERNAL COMMUNICATION
COMMUNICATION PLAYS  A VITAL ROLE IN DISCOVERING  OURSELVES &  THE WORLD  AROUND US Our attitudes and beliefs, perceptions and prejudices,  the quality of our thinking & our values get conveyed in our communication
THE QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE IS THE QUALITY OF YOUR COMMUNICATION ~ BOTH WITH YOURSELF & OTHERS
ENCOURAGE YOURSELF &  OTHERS, TO  FURTHER IMPROVE COMMUNICATION  SKILLS
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION IS NOT JUST GETTING THE MESSAGE ACROSS BUT ITS  ACCEPTANCE   FROM ITS INTENDED RECEIVERS WHICH  CAUSES THE EXPECTED BEHAVIOUR FROM THE RECEIVERS OF THE MESSAGE ONLY THEN, THE RECEIVERS WILL BE WILLING TO  CONVERT THE COMMUNICATION  INTO ACTION SURELY, YOU WANT ACTION ~ IS IT NOT ?
THE ABILITY TO LISTEN TO, OBSERVE  & INTERPRET ALL FORMS OF LANGUAGE IS ESSENTIAL FOR EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION [ NATURE'S GIFT + CONCENTRATION + INTELLIGENCE ]
Love is so caring… COMMUNICATION INCLUDES BODY LANGUAGE, TONALITY OF VOICE  & THE WORDS YOU USE. 55%   + 38%   + 7%   = 100%
Interrupting  to complete  others’ sentences Preparing  our response before  someone has completed speaking Multitasking while ‘listening’ Filtering content or meaning based on our opinion / prejudice about the speaker Common Communication Errors
1. MAKE SURE THAT    BODY LANGUAGE,   YOUR WORDS &   TONALITY  ARE CONGRUENT –   [ ALIGNED AND SENDING THE SAME MESSAGE ]   SOME  USEFUL  HINTS  FOR IMPROVING COMMUNICATION SKILLS :
2. MAINTAINING EYE CONTACT –  [ EXPRESSION OF YOUR INTEREST ]
3. IMPROVE YOUR VOICE CULTURE –  [ MAKE IT INTERESTING ]
4. BE POSITIVE, PRECISE AND CLEAR –  [ ~ “Don’t forget to complete the work by tomorrow.” ] [ ~ “Please remember to complete the work by tomorrow.” ]
5. GOOD LISTENING   SUPPLIES   THE BUILDING BLOCKS OF   GOOD UNDERSTANDING AND   GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS   ~ Listening is an active process involving : Ears – for verbal communication Eyes – for non-verbal communication Body – for gestures
6 .  WELL-TIMED PAUSES GIVE TIME FOR  EXPLANATION, EVALUATION & DEVELOPMENT OF THOUGHT  ~ Facial expressions reveal the difference between  a pregnant pause and an embarrassed silence
7. SUMMARISING  IS AN ESSENTIAL SKILL WHICH TAKES STOCK OF THE MAIN POINTS COVERED
8. EMPATHIZE   WITH THE RECEIVER OF THE MESSAGE   ~ put yourself in the other person’s position,  understand the other person’s perspective and then proceed to interact
9 .  COMMUNICATION   MUST APPEAL TO   BOTH MIND AND HEART  ~ appealing to mind requires facts, evidence and logic ~ appealing to the heart, more difficult,  requires ‘touching the soul’ -  based on mutually respected values
10. KEEP THE COMMUNICATION SIMPLE ~ say it in simple sentences, with no twists and turns ‘ communicate to express but not to impress’
11. TELL IT AND TELL IT AGAIN, IF NECESSARY ~ tell the point once –  then come back and hit it again, and again.
12. COMMUNICATE WITH CONFIDENCE    ~ communication exposes   your inner thoughts, feelings and sentiments.    Your confidence, or the lack of it, is getting transparently revealed.
13. PRACTICE THE ART OF COMMUNICATING ON PAPER ~ thinking on paper & saying on paper
14. COMMUNICATION IS IRREVERSIBLE  ~ communication cannot be reversed [ reversible processes – water and ice   irreversible processes – milk and coffee ] Only minimizing the hurt feelings is possible, but the damage has already been done. [ ~ forgive but not forget ] Be highly careful, thoughtful and purposeful
15. COMMUNICATION  IS MORE   A PEOPLE PROCESS THAN    A LANGUAGE PROCESS  ~ communication is a series of actions and reactions   communication influences our own and that of others’  behaviour    communication reflects the true personality of an  individual
16.   COMMUNICATION  CAN ALWAYS BE IMPROVED ~ practice, more practice and much more practice
17. COMMUNICATION AND FEEDBACK ~ feedback ensures that message has been received in the manner, that was originally intended
18. COMMUNICATION AND CLARITY
19. COMMUNICATION AND COMMITMENT
20. COMMUNICATION AND CHARACTER
Practice More Practice Much More Practice GOOD  PRACTICE REGULAR  PRACTICE INTENSE  PRACTICE
Understand that not everyone is like you. Try different ways of communicating with different personality types. Be aware of the  Values, Attitudes, Pressures & Prejudices of others; they may not be the same as yours.
COMMIT YOURSELF TO IMPROVE  YOUR COMMUNICATION  YOU WILL FIND THAT YOUR DESTINY  CAN BE  REWRITTEN
For the sake of record As on 5 th  July 2010 -  Prof. V. Viswanadham has uploaded live recordings of  more than  300  of his speeches to  www.archive.org .  ‘ Communication Skills’  - has been downloaded,  415  times. More than 150 Power Point Presentations, [ slides ] can be freely viewed at:  www.scribd.com   So far,  57,606  have viewed;  13,740  have downloaded. www.slideshare.net/viswanadham  -  One of the presentations, titled  Communication Skills , was viewed  7,598  times, and downloaded  1,082  times. Thank you dear friends for helping me to reach many more.
In case  YOU   liked this speech and  presentation ~ for listening to  more speeches and for viewing  more presentations, Please Visit: Visit: http:// www.archive.org and Search for  Prof. V. Viswanadham ~ please download and then kindly listen. thank you
In case  YOU   liked this presentation ~ for viewing more presentations, on various topics,  Please Visit: Please visit :  www.scribd.com   and  search for  Viswam.vangapally4581 and / or  www.slideshare.net/viswanadham In case YOU want to give  some feedback / contact me : Prof. V. Viswanadham [email_address] ~ [040 – 2722 3383] A BIG THANK YOU FOR YOUR PATIENT LISTENING
Thank you once again

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    IMPROVING COMMUNICATION SKILLSPROF. V. VISWANADHAM
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    SILENCE IS GOLDENSPEECH IS SILVER
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    C = RWORDS HAVE WONDERFUL POWER ENCOURAGE OR DISCOURAGE INSPIRE OR INSTIGATE DO AND UNDO MAKE AND UNMAKE HARM AND HEAL SO, THINK AND SPEAK ? OR, SPEAK AND THINK ?
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    W. A. T.C. H. W = WORDS A = ACTIONS T = THOUGHTS C = CHARACTER H = HEAD & HEART
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    THINK MORE THANYOU TALK & TALK LESS THAN YOU LISTEN THINK > TALK TALK < LISTEN Think > listen > talk
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    Communication Goals Tochange behavior To get action To ensure understanding To persuade To get and give Information
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    Why is communication important ? Inspires confidence Builds respect Helps make friends Reveals your ability to others Develops a distinct personality
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    Most common waysto communicate 70 % of our communication efforts are: misunderstood misinterpreted rejected distorted or not heard Speaking Visual Images Writing Body Language We need to improve our communication... 70%
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    COMMUNICATIONS CAN BOTH ENHANCE & ENRICH RELATIONSHIPS BOTH AT WORK & AT HOME WHY NOT WE DO SOMETHING TO FURTHER IMPROVE OUR COMMUNICATIONS ?
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    UNIQUENESS OF HUMANCOMMUNICATION SKILLS &quot; YOUR SPEECH REVEALS YOUR CHARACTER &quot; SPEECH IS A MIRROR OF THE SOUL
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    PEOPLE ARE INFLUENCED, PROBLEMS ARE SOLVED, CHANGES ARE FACILITATED, EXCELLENT RELATIONSHIPS ARE DEVELOPED, DESIRED RESULTS ARE ACHIEVED, AND SUCCESS IS ENSURED. GET MOTIVATED TO IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS WITH EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS IMPROVE BOTH INTERNAL & EXTERNAL COMMUNICATION
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    COMMUNICATION PLAYS A VITAL ROLE IN DISCOVERING OURSELVES & THE WORLD AROUND US Our attitudes and beliefs, perceptions and prejudices, the quality of our thinking & our values get conveyed in our communication
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    THE QUALITY OFYOUR LIFE IS THE QUALITY OF YOUR COMMUNICATION ~ BOTH WITH YOURSELF & OTHERS
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    ENCOURAGE YOURSELF & OTHERS, TO FURTHER IMPROVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS
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    EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION ISNOT JUST GETTING THE MESSAGE ACROSS BUT ITS ACCEPTANCE FROM ITS INTENDED RECEIVERS WHICH CAUSES THE EXPECTED BEHAVIOUR FROM THE RECEIVERS OF THE MESSAGE ONLY THEN, THE RECEIVERS WILL BE WILLING TO CONVERT THE COMMUNICATION INTO ACTION SURELY, YOU WANT ACTION ~ IS IT NOT ?
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    THE ABILITY TOLISTEN TO, OBSERVE & INTERPRET ALL FORMS OF LANGUAGE IS ESSENTIAL FOR EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION [ NATURE'S GIFT + CONCENTRATION + INTELLIGENCE ]
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    Love is socaring… COMMUNICATION INCLUDES BODY LANGUAGE, TONALITY OF VOICE & THE WORDS YOU USE. 55% + 38% + 7% = 100%
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    Interrupting tocomplete others’ sentences Preparing our response before someone has completed speaking Multitasking while ‘listening’ Filtering content or meaning based on our opinion / prejudice about the speaker Common Communication Errors
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    1. MAKE SURETHAT BODY LANGUAGE, YOUR WORDS & TONALITY ARE CONGRUENT – [ ALIGNED AND SENDING THE SAME MESSAGE ] SOME USEFUL HINTS FOR IMPROVING COMMUNICATION SKILLS :
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    2. MAINTAINING EYECONTACT – [ EXPRESSION OF YOUR INTEREST ]
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    3. IMPROVE YOURVOICE CULTURE – [ MAKE IT INTERESTING ]
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    4. BE POSITIVE,PRECISE AND CLEAR – [ ~ “Don’t forget to complete the work by tomorrow.” ] [ ~ “Please remember to complete the work by tomorrow.” ]
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    5. GOOD LISTENING SUPPLIES THE BUILDING BLOCKS OF GOOD UNDERSTANDING AND GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS ~ Listening is an active process involving : Ears – for verbal communication Eyes – for non-verbal communication Body – for gestures
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    6 . WELL-TIMED PAUSES GIVE TIME FOR EXPLANATION, EVALUATION & DEVELOPMENT OF THOUGHT ~ Facial expressions reveal the difference between a pregnant pause and an embarrassed silence
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    7. SUMMARISING IS AN ESSENTIAL SKILL WHICH TAKES STOCK OF THE MAIN POINTS COVERED
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    8. EMPATHIZE WITH THE RECEIVER OF THE MESSAGE ~ put yourself in the other person’s position, understand the other person’s perspective and then proceed to interact
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    9 . COMMUNICATION MUST APPEAL TO BOTH MIND AND HEART ~ appealing to mind requires facts, evidence and logic ~ appealing to the heart, more difficult, requires ‘touching the soul’ - based on mutually respected values
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    10. KEEP THECOMMUNICATION SIMPLE ~ say it in simple sentences, with no twists and turns ‘ communicate to express but not to impress’
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    11. TELL ITAND TELL IT AGAIN, IF NECESSARY ~ tell the point once – then come back and hit it again, and again.
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    12. COMMUNICATE WITHCONFIDENCE ~ communication exposes your inner thoughts, feelings and sentiments. Your confidence, or the lack of it, is getting transparently revealed.
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    13. PRACTICE THEART OF COMMUNICATING ON PAPER ~ thinking on paper & saying on paper
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    14. COMMUNICATION ISIRREVERSIBLE ~ communication cannot be reversed [ reversible processes – water and ice irreversible processes – milk and coffee ] Only minimizing the hurt feelings is possible, but the damage has already been done. [ ~ forgive but not forget ] Be highly careful, thoughtful and purposeful
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    15. COMMUNICATION IS MORE A PEOPLE PROCESS THAN A LANGUAGE PROCESS ~ communication is a series of actions and reactions communication influences our own and that of others’ behaviour communication reflects the true personality of an individual
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    16. COMMUNICATION CAN ALWAYS BE IMPROVED ~ practice, more practice and much more practice
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    17. COMMUNICATION ANDFEEDBACK ~ feedback ensures that message has been received in the manner, that was originally intended
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    Practice More PracticeMuch More Practice GOOD PRACTICE REGULAR PRACTICE INTENSE PRACTICE
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    Understand that noteveryone is like you. Try different ways of communicating with different personality types. Be aware of the Values, Attitudes, Pressures & Prejudices of others; they may not be the same as yours.
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    COMMIT YOURSELF TOIMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION YOU WILL FIND THAT YOUR DESTINY CAN BE REWRITTEN
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    For the sakeof record As on 5 th July 2010 - Prof. V. Viswanadham has uploaded live recordings of more than 300 of his speeches to www.archive.org . ‘ Communication Skills’ - has been downloaded, 415 times. More than 150 Power Point Presentations, [ slides ] can be freely viewed at: www.scribd.com So far, 57,606 have viewed; 13,740 have downloaded. www.slideshare.net/viswanadham - One of the presentations, titled Communication Skills , was viewed 7,598 times, and downloaded 1,082 times. Thank you dear friends for helping me to reach many more.
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    In case YOU liked this speech and presentation ~ for listening to more speeches and for viewing more presentations, Please Visit: Visit: http:// www.archive.org and Search for Prof. V. Viswanadham ~ please download and then kindly listen. thank you
  • 45.
    In case YOU liked this presentation ~ for viewing more presentations, on various topics, Please Visit: Please visit : www.scribd.com and search for Viswam.vangapally4581 and / or www.slideshare.net/viswanadham In case YOU want to give some feedback / contact me : Prof. V. Viswanadham [email_address] ~ [040 – 2722 3383] A BIG THANK YOU FOR YOUR PATIENT LISTENING
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