The document discusses how to learn from experiences, both good and bad. It argues that people who thrive see bad experiences as opportunities to learn and grow, rather than merely surviving them. Facing difficulties with a growth mindset and utilizing emotions effectively can help turn negative situations into positives from which we gain valuable lessons. How we cope with life as it is, not as we think it should be, defines our character and ability to overcome challenges.

1. BREAKYOUR
Mind
POPCORNED BY DEY DOS
OPEN

2. Your
LEADHOSTS

3. DEYDOS
AMALIAGHIBAN

4. How do you break
your mind open?
BY BEING OPEN TO LEARN FROM EVERY
SINGLE EXPERIENCE YOU LIVE

5. What stops you from
learning from every
single experience?
MY OWN BELIEFS ABOUT WHAT
GOOD & BAD EXPERIENCES ARE
AND HOW THEY AFFECT ME

6. Never let your printer
know that you are in a
hurry…
PRINTERS CAN SMELL
YOUR FEAR!
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7. How do you
usually respond to
“bad” experiences?
anger Ÿ detachment Ÿ ignore it
EVERY TIME WE ENCOUNTER A BAD
EXPERIENCE,
WE GET TO KNOW OURSELVES BETTER

8. Is change a
“bad”
experience?

9. SOME FACTS ABOUT
BAD EXPERIENCES
! Everybody has them
! No one likes them
! Few turn them into positives
! Normally later…

10. What separates people
who thrive from those who
merely survive?
HOW THEY FACE
THE PAIN OF THEIR
BAD EXPERIENCES

11. PAIN
SUFFERING

12. It is all about PAIN

13. Pain prompt us to face
who we have become and
where we are.
WHAT WE DO WITH THAT
EXPERIENCE DEFINES WHO WE
CONSTANTLY BECOME

14. THE PAIN OF
INEXPERIENCE
THE PAIN OF
INCOMPETENCE
THE PAIN OF
DISAPPOINTMENT
THE PAIN OF
CONFLICT

15. THE PAIN OF
CHANGE
THE PAIN OF
REGRET
THE PAIN OF
HARD DECISIONS
THE PAIN OF
DISCIPLINE

16. THE PAIN OF
THE NEW
THE PAIN OF
NOT BEING Nº 1
THE PAIN OF
LEAVING
THE PAIN OF
RESPONSIBILITY

17. What could all these
painful experiences
teach us?

18. LET DISCOMFORT BE A
CATALYST FOR OUR
DEVELOPMENT
Blame…

19. NOPAIN
NOGAIN

20. 1. EMBRACE A
GROWTH MINDSET
To a large degree in life we
get what we expect.
Why would I want to
expect the worst?

21. 2. EMBRACE AND UTILIZE
YOUR EMOTIONS
Use the energy that comes from
strong emotions and adrenaline to
solve problems and learn lessons.
How can I smartly
utilize my emotional
energy?

22. 3. EMBRACE THE VALUE OF
BAD EXPERIENCES
Facing them is inevitable, learning
is optional, and we normally learn
long after they happen.
Why would I wait for
after?

23. 4. EMBRACE CHANGES LEARNED THROUGH
BAD EXPERIENCES
We either face the hard
feelings and embrace change
or we try to escape.
Why would I choose the
pain of regret over the
pain of discipline?

24. 5. EMBRACE OWNERSHIP FOR
YOUR OWN LIFE
Circumstances don’t define us, what
we do in the face of them does.
Why would I give
such power to the
circumstances?

25. No matter what you have
gone through in this role so
far – or what you are
currently going through
– you have the opportunity
to grow from it.

26. It’s sometime very hard
and difficult to see the
opportunities…
BUT THEY ARE
THERE!

28. Even if you can’t see them…
THEY ARE
THERE!

29. It’s not just about being
willing to believe and look
for them, but to pursue them
with discipline.
THEN
IT GETS EASIER
EVERY TIME!

30. Life is not the way it’s
supposed to be.
It’s the way it is.
The way you cope with it is
what makes the difference.
virginiasatir

31. My @XP is not the way
it’s supposed to be.
It’s the way it is.
The way I cope with it is
what makes the difference.
THERE IT IS WHERE THE
LEADER IN ME EMERGES

32. Am I ready to look for
opportunities in
everything that comes in
the way of my @XP?
AM I WILLING TO START
AT NSC 2014?