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2. It's easy to miss the forest for the
trees, when it comes to meeting girls
and looking for Miss Right.

3. (Or Miss Right Now if that's your
thing.)

4. Long time ago I went skydiving. It was
the kind that required only about five
minutes of instruction before jumping
out of the plane.

5. We had an experienced jumper
strapped to our backs, which would
kind of hold our hand.

6. We got to pull the chute, but in case
we blacked out or puked, he'd be
there to make sure we didn't die.

7. One thing the guy told me right before
we jumped has stuck in my mind, as
it's very useful in many different areas.

8. "Don't look at a point on the ground.

9. You'll fixate on it and miss everything."

10. What he meant was that we were only
free falling for about a minute.

11. And if we looked way down below, and
saw a house or a car or something,
we'd tend to stare at it. If that
happened, our ride would be over and
we would have missed it.

12. I followed his advice and didn't look
down at all.

13. Just out onto the horizon.

14. (One of the most amazing experiences
of my life.)

15. When you're talking to girls (or
prospecting as they say in sales) it's
easy to "fixate" on one girl.

16. There's a whole world of girls out
there, but once you start talking to
one, and she seems to like you a bit,
it's very easy to lose the big picture.

17. Then suddenly she's turned from a
"prospect" into the only game in town.

18. Sink or swim.

19. Win or lose.

20. Live or die.

21. If this happens, it's almost guaranteed
you WON'T get her, unless she's
TOTALLY into you.

22. One thing that turns both girls AND
guys off is desperation.

23. Texting too much, calling too much,
hanging onto conversations too much.

24. If she's got a medium level of
attraction, this will kill it in a hurry.

25. Sure, there's certain "rules," like only
text three times a week, or only call
every other day, or whatever.

26. But if she's your ONLY option, these
rules are impossible to follow.

27. You'll drive yourself nuts.

28. The EASIEST way to make sure you
don't switch in to desperation mode is
to ALWAYS BE PROSPECTING.

29. Meaning you should always be talking
to girls, making them laugh, seeing if
they're personalities are as attractive
as their faces.

30. And always dating them if you're into
each other enough.

31. AND always being open about it.

32. One criteria that you MUST have is
that she should be into you AT LEAST
as much as you are into her.

33. And when you're going out with
several girls, and one of them starts
pressuring you for exclusivity, then it's
time to consider her.

34. But never before that.

35. This will make you more attractive,
and give you much more choice, which
will keep you out of the desperation
mind set.

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