The document provides advice for men looking for a happy and attractive partner. It recommends making a list of what you're looking for in a partner and starting conversations with potential matches to test your social skills. With practice and experience talking to different women, your social skills and criteria for a partner will improve, eventually leading to the good problem of whether to continue improving yourself or commit to one woman long-term.

2. Most guys would love to find a happy
attractive girl to call their own.

3. And be the happy attractive guy the
girl calls her own.

4. Yet many guys run into all kinds of
trouble when figuring out how to
make that happen.

5. From a structural level, it's pretty
simple.

6. First, figure out what you're looking
for. Looks, personality, family
background, religion, politics, etc.

7. Make a list of deal-makers and deal-
breakers.

8. Once you've got a reasonable list, start
sorting.

9. How do you sort?

10. Talk to any girl you see who might fit
your criteria.

11. Of course, one of your criteria MUST
be that she be attracted to you, or else
what's the point?

12. Otherwise it'd be like trying to buy
something that you simply can't
afford.

13. Now, if you did this, a couple of
interesting things would happen.

14. You may start off realizing that your
game absolutely sucks.

15. Meaning that every single girl you talk
to looks like she's about to call the
cops.

16. Now, at this point, two things would
happen.

17. You COULD decide women are all
bitches, join your local MGTOW group
and start building models or
something.

18. OR you could decide to improve your
game.

19. How?

20. This is the beauty of human behavior.

21. You don't really need to know how.

22. All you need to know is what you did
didn't work. So all you've got to do is
do something different.

23. Start with different openers, or ice
breakers.

24. Change your clothes. Wear a different
cologne. Anything.

25. And pretty soon you'll start to notice
small improvements.

26. More and more girls will be interested
in you. And some will begin to meet
your criteria.

27. This is when something else pretty
cool happens.

28. The more skills you develop, the
tighter your criteria will be.

29. A guy who's never even kissed a girl
will have completely different criteria
than a guy that talks to and dates a
whole range of women.

30. As your experience, confidence, and
skill set grows, as will your criteria.

31. And pretty soon you'll come to a very
NICE problem to have.

32. Should you KEEP improving yourself, or
should you pick ONE girl and stick with
her?

33. Only you can answer that.

34. But it's certainly a nice problem to
have.

35. But you'll NEVER run into this problem
if you remove yourself from the game
completely.

36. How long should you spend going
through this process?

37. Well, think about the benefits.

38. A partner for life who will have your
back through thick and thin, and you
hers.

39. Don't rush the process.

40. Take your time.

41. Enjoy your life, enjoy your skills.

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