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1. Mind Control For
Approach Anxiety

2. Most guys feel a certain amount of
approach anxiety when even
THINKING about going over and
talking to a girl.

3. You could be sitting there with your
buddies, and they point out a group of
girls that YOU should go and talk to.
Just thinking about it may send you
into an anxiety brain freeze.

4. This is perfectly natural.

5. The trick is to train your brain so you
don't automatically respond in your
naturally programmed way.

6. Humans are hard wired with all kinds
of automatic responses.

7. These were helpful in our ancient days
as hunters and gatherers, but they
aren't so useful any more.

8. For example, if you stuff your pie hole
every time you had an opportunity,
you'd be pretty obese.

9. If caveman DIDN'T do this, they'd die
of starvation.

10. Approach anxiety is another leftover
instinct from our caveman days.

11. Back in those days, there were only a
couple hundred people TOTAL in our
tribe. We spent our entire lives with
these people.

12. Which meant that there were MAYBE
ten or twenty girls to choose from, and
ten or twenty guys who were going
after those ten or twenty girls.

13. Everybody else was either too old, too
young, or already hitched.

14. So in those days, it was absolutely
CRUCIAL that you approach correctly,
or you were in deep trouble.

15. These days, not so much. In fact, you
could walk up to ten cuties TODAY, fail
miserably, and NOBODY would know.

16. If you tried that the caveman days
you'd be one lonely dude.

17. So the first trick is to simply accept
that EVERYBODY is hard wired to feel
approach anxiety.

18. There's NOTHING wrong with you. It's
COMPLETELY normal.

19. So, how do you fix it?

20. Think of it like you'd think of planning
a diet.

21. If you wanted to get a six pack, you'd
decide ahead of time which kinds of
food you'd eat, right? And when you'd
eat, right?

22. So if you were walking down the street
and you passed a burger joint, you'd
tell yourself, with your conscious mind,
"Hmm. That smells good, but it's not
on my diet plan, so I can't eat it."

23. You would overcome your irrational
instincts with rational planning.

24. To the extent you could stick to your
plan, you'd get your six pack.

25. You can approach girls the same way.

26. Plan ahead of time which girls you'd
like to date, just like you plan your six
pack meal plan.

27. Figure out what kind of personalities
they need to have.

28. What kind of education, religion,
politics, etc.

29. So when you do this, you'll see girls
and NOT KNOW if she qualifies or not.

30. So when you think about approaching
her, you'll be curious rather than
anxious.

31. The first couple of times may be
difficult.

32. But the more you do this, the more
you'll realize that not a lot of girls
meet your criteria.

33. Once you get that deep feeling from
experience that "good looks aren't
enough" you'll be home free.

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