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2. What thing that can get anybody into a
heap of trouble is having unrealistic
expectations.

3. It works like this.

4. You think you're going to get
something good.

5. Doesn't matter what.

6. But if something happens and you
DON'T get it, you're going to feel
cheated.

7. Now, if you think you might have one
more slice of pizza leftover from last
night, but really don't, that's not so
bad.

8. The trouble comes when you think you
are going to get something from
somebody else.

9. Most people set themselves up for
HUGE pains when they think they are
getting something they deserve, and it
doesn't show up.

10. Even if somebody tells you they are
giving you something for free, and
then they change their mind, you're
going to feel cheated.

11. There's no rhyme or reason to this, it's
just human nature.

12. And when there's sex or romance of
affection involved, it REALLY hurts.

13. Guy walks up to a girl, and he does
everything right.

14. She's even into him for a while,
friendly, flirty, touchy-feely, etc.

15. Then he number closes her, and gets
shut down.

16. In this situation, it is REALLY easy to
feel burned.

17. Like she played you for a chump.

18. Like she's off with her buddies
laughing all the free booze she
mooched off you.

19. And yes, this DOES happen.

20. Quite a bit.

21. But guess what?

22. Getting angry will ONLY make it worse.

23. Getting angry or hurt because of what
a girl DIDN'T give you will make you
much LESS attractive, not the other
way around.

24. This why any idea of "deserving"
should be absolutely ABSENT from
your mind whenever you're interacting
with the ladies.

25. No girl wants to end up with a guy that
she'll feel any sort of obligation to.

26. No guy wants that either.

27. Humans are hard wired to cherish our
freedom.

28. Our freedom of thought.

29. Whenever you try to put her in a box
where she SHOULD behave in a certain
way, you're basically trying to get her
to be your willing mind slave.

30. Nobody likes doing things because
they HAVE to.

31. We only want to do things because we
CHOOSE to.

32. So next time you're out and about,
think of how you could behave and
interact with her so she'll CHOOSE you,
rather than feel obligated by any
imaginary social pressure.

33. How do you do this?

34. Luckily, all humans are hard wired to
want what we think we can't have.

35. This is why being confident AND
slightly aloof is so powerful.

36. Talk to her, enjoy her, but also radiate
a slight vibe that says, "I like you, I
enjoy you, but if you suddenly
vanished from site, I'd recover pretty
quickly."

37. If she ever THINKS she has you, you're
done.

38. And any sign of neediness or
expectation of what she SHOULD do is
about a clear a sign as you can send
that she does indeed have you.

39. Avoid this at all costs.

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