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2. In many action type movies, you've got
two powerful guys.

3. A good guy, and a bad guy. Often
times, the general story is the good
guy and the bad guy are on a collision
course, and the main climax is when
they fight each other.

4. Remember in The Empire Strikes Back?

5. Yoda told Luke he couldn't be a true
Jedi unless he faced Vader in the cave.

6. Of course, Vader turned out to be his
Father, which had all kinds of deep
mysterious meanings in and off itself.

7. But the main reason so many action
movies, (which are primarily marketed
to guys) have this same structure is all
guys must face their biggest fears
before they move on to the second
half of their lives.

8. The first half, the childhood half, is
when they are dependent on others.

9. The second half, the adult half, is when
they become fully functioning adults.

10. This main battle of "good vs. evil"
MUST happen in your life if you are to
achieve true greatness.

11. And when we're talking about creating
wonderful relationships with attractive
women, that fear is pretty obvious.

12. Not just approach anxiety, but what
you might call "expression anxiety."

13. You like her, and you've got to give her
a chance to see if she likes you.

14. Since girls's attraction is much more
dependent on personality, you've GOT
to let her see the REAL YOU.

15. And for most guys, this is absolutely
terrifying. If she sees and understands
the real you, and rejects you, then
NOTHING on Earth feels worse.

16. This is why guys spend all kinds of time
on forums, seminars, reading books
and other products.

17. Following gurus around, going on boot
camps.

18. It's all designed to keep you from
facing your fears.

19. But face your fears you must.

20. Because on the other side is brilliance.

21. The good news is you don't have to
face your fears all at once.

22. Since from the initial approach, to the
time you make a commitment to your
new partner, there's going to be a LOT
of stuff to work through.

23. Take your time.

24. Take it slow.

25. There's no rush.

26. Hopefully, you're still building your life,
no matter HOW old you are.

27. But you absolutely must accept that
facing your fears is a necessary part of
creating a positive relationship with a
woman.

28. How do you do that?

29. Like I said, start small.

30. Eye contact. Smile.

31. A few words.

32. Introduce yourself.

33. Extend the conversation.

34. Ask for contact number.

35. Go on dates. Etc.

36. Just work on one level, until it's easy,
and keep moving up.

37. If you keep moving forward, and
simply accept that everything that
happens will make you stronger, you
will not fail.

38. Forget gurus, forget men's
movements, forget finger pointing. Get
going today, your future is waiting.
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