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2. Why are little kids so cute?

3. One reason is they are totally
innocent. When they express
themselves, they have no ulterior
motive, like many adults.

4. They also don't have a lot of fears, like
many adults.

5. We grown-ups tend to get an impulse
to say something, but then we imagine
all kinds of horrible things that might
happen, so we back pedal a bit, in our
minds.

6. Then we say something that's less than
100% congruent.

7. Kids, on the other hand, are pure
congruence.

8. They're not like, "Part of me wants to
run over and see what that red shiny
thing is, but another part is still kind of
tired out from this morning."

9. They see something they want, and go
after it.

10. I used to know this guy in college.
Always smiling, always making people
laugh.

11. Always making some lighthearted joke
about any particular situation.

12. Never putting anybody else down,
except when it was perfectly clear it
was a good-natured joke.

13. Always with over the top facial
expressions and gestures.

14. And ALWAYS surrounded by girls.

15. This guy was the total opposite of the
typical "player" type you see on TV or
in the movies.

16. This was a guy you just enjoyed being
around.

17. If there was a party, and you knew this
guy was going to be there, you wanted
to go.

18. This is what happens when you carry
that child like congruence into
adulthood.

19. You have that congruence, but also the
responsibility of being an adult.

20. You don't censor yourself because
you're afraid how people will respond,
you only censor yourself because you
honestly don't like saying mean things
about other people.

21. But the funny thing is once you spend
just a little bit of time expressing
yourself like this, all those negatives
ideas in your mind about others tends
to vanish.

22. Since whenever you show up, people
are always so happy to see you, you
suddenly think of everybody in at their
best.

23. It's like you project this bubble out
around that everybody is happy to be
in.

24. Of course, this isn't magic.

25. You still need to think and act and plan
ahead, and be careful how you use
your energy and resources.

26. But it sure makes life a lot more fun.

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