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1. Welcome To My
Personality
Development
Assessment.
Done by
Joe Simon
D2
A.H.T.M
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2. ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
I would like to express my sincere gratitude to
Mr. Murali Nair, the personality development
trainer of Frankfinn Institute Of Airhostess
Training, Trichur for providing me with enough
information and guidance to complete this
assessment on Personality Development. This
assessment bears everything regarding one‟s
personality as well as my own personality. Last
but not the least I wish to avail myself of this
opportunity and express a sense of gratitude
and love to my friends for their help and
support.
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3. INTRODUCTION
What is Personality Development?
Personality is the sum total of our outer
personality and inner qualities. Personality is as
important as bread and water for a human, Thus
it has to be developed. Personality Development
is an improvement in all spheres of an
individual‟s life, be it with friends, in the office
or in any other environment. This assessment
shows the analysis of one‟s personality.
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5. 1. Observe the well assimilated personality in
the movie by giving examples from the movie.
• Our Wangdu, Aamir Khan is the
assimilated personality in the movies “3 IDIOTS”
and I have enough reasons to support the my
statement.
•A well assimilated person is a person who has
confidence, responsibility, honest, diligent, good
attitude and hard worker.
•Aamir Khan proves himself to be one by
motivating his best friends in the movie( Raju
and Farhan) by never letting them back down
and to face their challenges with the motto “ All
is Well”.
•He tries to build up other‟s confidence in such a
way that they also reach the road of success
and live happily.
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6. 2. What are the negative and positive conditioning
you observed in the movie?
There are different types of conditioning
seen in the society. There are people who are
negatively conditioned where as there people with
positive conditioning too. Negative conditioning just
by the term negative leads to destruction of the
person.
In the movie “3 IDIOTS” there are many
characters showing negative conditioning.
Characters like Prof.Virus, Chathur, Lobo, Raju,
Farhan are negatively conditioned because in the
movie Prof.Virus shows his arrogant behavior to his
students, he doesn‟t allow them to specialize or
learn a subject but rather makes them mug up the
books they have and the ones getting high grades
are considered to be saved else destroyed, a very
stupid attitude.
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7. Chathur Ram lingam was of course a nerd but he
underestimated his college mates a lot so that he could
lose competition and become the no.1 at college.We can
observer in the movie that during the exam days he puts
porn magazines underneath his collegemate‟s doors so
that they will loose their concentration in studies and
thus loose competition.
Raju is a really good person but he is negatively
conditioned due to his lack of focus and courage .At the
different instances of the movie we can observe how
much he is scared of being successful in his life.
Farhan is also another good person but he is also
negatively conditioned due to his lack of confidence
and focus.He loves photography but ultimately wastes a
lot of time on engineering just because of his obsessed
parents.
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8. Lobo was a boy with a lot of intelligence and intrest in
engineering but he lacked a lot of confidence and
motivation which ended him up in suicide.He was
heartbroken when Prof.Virus ignored his machine and
communicated with his father that he would not be
passing out that year. Lobo could not take it up which
eventually made him to say “ I QUIT „‟ and then hand
himself in his own hostel room.
There are even persons who are positively
conditioned in the movie. They are Wangdu,Millimeter
and Pia. Wangdu (Aamir Khan) is a very confident,
hardworking, motivating and inspiring youth who is
always passionate about machines and thus he end
up in discovering different things and becomes a
famous scientist achieving 400 patents.
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9. Millimeter is the simple boy in the movie who does
simple jobs to earn a living. He was a very
passionate boy who had dreams to study in a good
school but unfortunately due to personal
circumstances he couldn‟t attend but later on we
could see that he ends up with Wangdu and
changes completely.
Pia, Prof.Virus‟s daughter, a medical student
is also positively conditioned because of her
attitude of being open and conversing her desires
openly. She never hesitated to throw away the 4lakh
rupees watch on to the face of Suhas, a terrible
money lover.
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10. 3. Which character in the movie you observed that needs
improvement in his/her personality and how one can
develop the same?
According to me Chathur Ramalingam is the
character in the movie that needs improvement in his
personality because he is a very self-possessed
person and all he thinks is that all the others are
idiots and he is the most superior person to others.
He is over- confident. He should change his present
character by building up a sense of likeness to
others, control his confidence and also respect
others too. One can develop these qualities if he/she
tries to understand that nobody is without caliber and
talents. If he/she understands this factor surely they
would realize in which track they were and will mend
their ways to a better routine where others will not get
hurt.
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12. 1. Talk about the GOAL ACHIEVING SKILLS you observed in
the movie.
Goal Achieving skills really matter in a person.
In other words life without goal achieving attitude
will surely direct oneself to destruction. The goal
achieving skills which I observed in the movie was
of Wangdu who always kept his passion alive. His
passion was machines. He loved to research his
study .He neither believed in the plane text-book
study of the colleges nor he believed in the grading
system. To him the greatest desire was to discover
something of his own. This way he kept his aims
high. His goals were always kept straight which
was always near to him to achieve. During the end
of the movie we could observe the he even did a
child birth using a simple vacuum cleaner, he had a
set a goal in his mind that he will do it and he did it.
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13. He even passed out his engineering with rank no.1
and ended being a very famous scientist who did
wonderful inventions. He kept following his
goals/aims and he had attained over 400 patents for
his inventions and became really a great scientist. He
also had a passion for becoming a teacher which was
his another goal and he did capture what he wanted,
he ended being a successful teacher of his own
school where his students were exposed to machines
and nature and let them learn their way. That‟s what
life is all about we need to specify our goals and work
towards attaining those goal just like the way Aamir
Khan did in the movie 3 IDIOTS.
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14. 2.Talk about the better Time Manager in the movie. What
sort of time management skills he/she was opting?
The better time manager whom I observed in
the movie was Prof.Virus who was very stern on his
timings of his day. He maintained a very good time
management. To talk about his time management
skills he never wasted times buttoning his shirt
instead he wore a zip attached shirt which could save
his precious time. Also tying a tie takes quite
sometime so instead spending time tying a tie he
wore a hook attached tie which he just needed to
hook under his collar thus he saved more time
during his dress up. He also kept specific time for his
shave. He avoided separate time for his afternoon
nap and shave. He followed a 7 minute power nap in
which he would take a short nap during which his
peon would come in to shave his facial hair. He also
spent this time to listen to opera music.
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15. 3. Talk about your own experience in which you behave
as a Good Time/GOAL manager.
When I was studying my twelfth grade back
in school I always stood front to lead others. This
attitude helped me very much in becoming The Red
House captain for the final year at school. Being a
house captain is of course a prestige but there is a
goal to be attained which would lead the whole
house to shine ,yes it is to win in both Sports Day
and the Youth Festival. Of course days moved fast
and here was the day of the Sports Day. I had to
manage my team in the best way so that I could
proudly take up the trophy and make my house
proud. My goal to take up the trophy was a success
since I was able to manage everyone and motivate
everyone to participate in the sports programs.
I was really proud of myself for achieving that goal.
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16. After taking up that trophy next was the final event of
the academic year and also my school life, the youth
festival where the youth of the school present their
energetic performances in front of the audience. This
time it wasn‟t a trophy but a prestigious shield. Once
again I set my goals to make my house win that shield.
Many were shy to participate but after a lot of hard work
I was able to make majority of my house member to
participate and present their skills in the best way as
possible. The results came out, Red house scored more
marks because more members of my team performed
really well and made the group outstanding. Even I
performed in many programs to add up the overall
grade. Red house once again came out in flying colors
winning the shield and marking the name .I thus
finished my school life with these two great victories
because of the goal management I tried doing and to
succeed by attaining those goals.
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18. 1. Discuss leadership qualities in the movie.
I could observe a great leader in this movie
who had all the leadership qualities which a leader
should poses and that leader was Wangdu. The
different leadership qualities which Wangdu
possessed were :
 Setting Objectives
 Organizing and Planning
 Decision Making
 Integrity and Honesty
 Enthusiasm
 Ambition
 Intelligence
 Emotional Stability
 Empathy
 Human Relations And People Skills
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19. Objectivity
Motivating skills
Technical Skills
Communication Skills
Social Skills
The above leadership qualities are the
qualities which a leader should have within in
order to lead a group or mass. Wangdu had all
the possible qualities in himself which helped
his best friends to achieve their goals .
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20. 2. How you can develop the same?
Developing the above qualities is never a hectic
task. I can develop those qualities if I try. I will try to
participate in activities in which I would volunteer to
become the leader and lead the whole group for the
successful completion of the activity. This way I would
be able to slowly understand what lacks in me to turn
out as a good leader by comparing myself with the
qualities mentioned and then slowly I would be able to
correct myself and give my character a total transition. I
would also try to take initiative on some objective and
try to make all my team members to co-operate and
contribute towards the initiative. I believe that by setting
crystal goals, selecting the people carefully to attain the
goal and using interpersonal skills combined with
encouraging communication to motivate the goal
activities will surely make me a good leader.
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21. 3. During your class activity do you find any leader , what
sort of Leadership qualities you observed?
During my different class activities I was able
to find a girl named Reshma who was a good and
impressive leader for her team since she doesn‟t
belong to my batch. The leadership qualities I could
see in her was that she kept fixed objectives, she has a
sense of enthusiasm in what ever activity she
undertakes. She maintains a good her members thus
building up good people skills and also her honesty
makes her prove as a good leader. She also posses
communication skills which is medium and yet to be
improved but she tries to communicate with her team
members in the best way as possible and maintains a
sense of respect with each other.
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23. 1. Analyze Johari Window in the movie by giving example.
Open Self Blind Self
Known to you and known to Unknown to you but known to
others. others.
Hidden Self Unknown Self
Known to you but unknown to
others.
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24. The Johari Window represents the four different kinds
of selves persons can have. The different selves are
open self, blind self, hidden self and unknown self.
Having an open self is the best one can have.
In the movie Wangdu was seen to have an open self , he
kept nothing hidden. He moved along in a happy and
straight track. He talked upfront to his best friend and
also his Professor who was always ruthless to him.
Wangdu became successful because he always
maintained a very good open self.
Farhan is a very good example about a person having a
hidden self. He was very reserved about his talents. He
never loved engineering but due to his parent‟s order he
had to attend an engineering college. In his hidden self
he had a very good talent and that was photography. No
one knew it until Wangdu found out his secret talent and
made Farhan realize that following a passion is more
important then following an order from his parents.
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25. Raju Rastogi is a character in the movie who has a
blind self. He loves engineering but he is scared of his
life due to the burdens he has on his shoulders and
thus he doesn‟t shine in his academics but at the end
due to Wangdu‟s inspiration he gets a job in a very
good company. He never knew that he could make it
this high, he was totally blind about it when others like
Wangdu had to come up to him and let him know of
his caliber.
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26. 2. What sort of Ego States you observed in the movie.
There are different type of Ego states followed
by all the characters throughout the movie. The
different ego states are as follows:
Parent
Adult
Child
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27. Everyone follows certain types of ego states. In the
movie I could observe the same condition . Professor
Virus kept having a parent ego as well as an adult ego
because he kept giving orders and instructions to his
seekers and made them do things strictly but at the end
we could see him literally cry like a child thus we were
able to observe his child ego.
Whereas Wangdu spoke from a parent ego and also
from a child ego. He was a more or less like a parent to
his best friends Farhan and Raju because Wangdu kept
motivating them and instructing them what to do and
what not to do.
Raju Rastogi always spoke from an adult ego because
he was really obsessed by his parental burdens which
really worried him a lot. But even Raju at times begin to
behave from a child ego.
Farhan was a cheerful lad who spoke from and child
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28. Pia is another chief character in this movie who does
talk from an adult ego because she does a lot to
convince Wangdu that she loves him and cares for
him .She also turned out to be in a child ego during
various instances of the movie.
One thing we can observe from all these
characters is that all possess a child ego that means
everyone operates often from a child ego state
because a child ego has the liberty of fun loving and
carefree behavior while being aware that adults and
parents are watching over the behavior.
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29. 3. Whom do you think have an open self personality in the
movie? Talk about his/her open self qualities.
I think Wangdu has an excellent open self
personality in the movie. When a person knows ones
own personality and is willing to share ideas, thoughts,
feelings and values with others , that person is called an
OPEN SELF personality.
These are his different open self qualities which I could
observe :
Objective Decision.
Saying „HELLO‟ first.
Sharing of dreams, desires, hobbies and ambition.
Helping others
Being on time.
Being Pro-Active at all times
Smiling.
Keeping „Small Successes‟ on going.
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31. 1. Which FACTOR you observed in the movie which you
think is responsible for development of one‟s
personality?
The movie did provide me with many factors
which is responsible for development of one‟s
personality but out of which the most heart
capturing factor which I observed was the level of
confidence shown by Aamir Khan in 3IDIOTS.
Confidence indeed plays a very big role in one‟s
life because confidence boosts our energy and
makes us achieve what we want if we have a good
attitude towards making the specific goal true.
Aamir Khan tried a lot to never give up so that
even his best friends become successful and
never get lost in solitaire. This „never give up‟
attitude came in him because of the height of
confidence he has in himself. He shared his
confidence with his buddies making them also
succeed at the end of the movie. I believe that
confidence changes a man completely, root to tip.
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32. Confidence along with good attitude, personality and
good communication skills surely add up one self.
We should learn to mentally put our self into a state
of confidence, feeling certain of success even when
our knowledge suggests we should expect to
fail. But we should also keep one thing in our mind
and that is that we should be careful not to over rely
on confidence to save us by using it as an excuse to
procrastinate on preparation. If we are able to avoid
this then surely the ball is in our court all we need to
do is to kick the ball into the net.
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33. 2. Which character in the movie you resemble more or with
whom you want to resemble justify by giving examples from
the movie? State the changes you would have to bring in you
to be that.
I resemble more of Wangdu because he is a
great leader and motivator in the movie and I think even
I do that day to day in Frankfinn Institute , Trichur. I
really adore Wangdu‟s way of leading others even
though I am not exactly same like him since everyone
are different but we can surely share the same
qualities. I dedicate myself a lot to what ever events or
initiative I undertake because according to me a leader
is a person who fixes objectives and makes sure his
team members make it a success. Wangdu tries a lot to
make Raju and Farhan achieve their goal .He warns
them about the danger of life if they don‟t follow they
passion in the best way because passion plays a great
role in one‟s life. Wangdu is full of energy and excited
to do any work and I think even I have that quality in
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34. Wangdu shows his concern to his team members (
Raju and Farhan) when they had almost gave up their
life to fate. Well Wangdu has many other technical
qualities in himself which helped him more to achieve
his goals which I attain a little, So I need to work on
that aspect. Perhaps a little more attentive toward my
future career and its orientation and am sure ill attain
what I really needed to become in life and thus be
proud of myself .
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35. 3. Make a positive action plan for continuous enhancement in
your personality.
The main factors which I will add to the positive
action plan for the continuous enhancement in my
personality would be confidence because I believe
that without good level of confidence nothing can be
achieved in my life. Confidence surely spices one‟s
personality to a great extend. I will maintain a better
attitude to everyone and thus attain a sense of
happiness from everyone. I will brighten up my aims
which I have to attain in my life and also specific
plans to make that attainment successful. Aiming
too high means I am less likely to meet my target –
so maybe I need to set goals that
divide up the big task and deal with these one at a
time. It is important to make a realistic
assessment about how I am going to achieve my
goals.
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36. There is a famous saying “ Rome was not built in a
day” I truly abide with this saying because while
planning for our goal achievement we would meet
up with different kinds of obstacles so I have to not
let my self back down before those obstacles but
should move on till I achieve it. I believe this is a
great perspective about personality. So when things
go wrong ,I will learn from my mistakes and the
mistakes of others. I will Never think that I know
best all the time, and acknowledge that sometimes I
do. I should always think that its possible to learn
something new. I will keep leading a group or team
and try getting success out of the team thus
enhancing my leadership qualities which is also
important for a good personality.
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38. 1. Design an action plan for achieving a goal in your life.
The greatest goal achievement in my life which
I am looking for to is to work in an aviation industry
and turn out successful there. So in order to
maintain that success in that industry I need to
prepare myself to many changes so that I can suit
my self in this industry. I need to be a person who
utilizes time in a very efficient way because time is
money. Also in an industry leadership qualities are
also very important so I would work that more.
Confident as said before is also a requirement. I will
work on making my confidence move on a good
pace. Last but not the least communication skill is
the most important factor I will keep on brushing it
up. With this action plan I am sure that I can be a
great asset to the aviation industry.
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39. 2. Evaluate your own time management style.
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