Lecture on Public Speaking and Building Rapport

1. SPEAKING
AND
RAPPORT

2.  Speaking to a live audience in a
structured, deliberate manner in
order to inform, influence, or
entertain.
PUBLIC SPEAKING

3.  It is the result of fears faced and
erased, trial and error and
tireless practice, on and off
stage.
PUBLIC SPEAKING

4.  It is a chance to tell others about
what you learned.
PUBLIC SPEAKING

5. Jerry Seinfeld said that “according
to most studies, peoples’ number
one fear is public speaking. Number
two is death…”
PUBLIC SPEAKING

6. “…Does that sound right? This
means to the average person, if
you go to a funeral, you’re better
off in the casket than doing the
eulogy.”
PUBLIC SPEAKING

7. WHY?

8. Everyone stares at you and
expects something from you.
BEING THE CENTER OF ATTENTION.

9. Sometimes you think people
judge you because that is how
you think about them. People are
friendly.
AFRAID OF BEING JUDGED.

10. TIPS

11. “A lot of people start talking right
away, and it’s out of nerves. That
communicates a little bit of
insecurity and fear.” -Sinek
Don’t talk right away.

12. Audience appreciates “a speaker
that gives them value, that
teaches them something new,
that inspires them…”
Show up to give.

13. “It’s like you’re having a
conversation with your audience.
You’re not speaking at them, you’re
speaking with them.”
Make eye contact with audience
members one by one.

14. When you get nervous, it’s not just
your heart beat that quickens. Your
words also tend to speed up.
Remember that the more you rush,
the more you turn them (audience)
off.
Speak unusually slowly.

15. “Dismiss the people furrowing their
brows, crossing their arms or shaking
their heads ‘no’. If you find the
audience members who are positively
interacting with you, you’ll be more
confident and relaxed…”
Focus on your supporters.

16. “When you do, it really has
miraculous impact in helping you
change your attitude to what you’re
about to do.”
Turn nervousness into excitement.

17. We don’t just listen to other people,
we also listen to the voice within
us.
Listen and think before you speak.

18. Reading and watching help. It
teach and let us experience new
things that we can apply and use.
Prepare through reading and watching.

19. It generally defines as “ a friendly
relationship among people; a
relationship of people who shares
interests or feelings.”
RAPPORT

20. It starts with a small talk or a simple
conversation that serves as ice
breaker.
RAPPORT

21. It starts with a small talk or a simple
conversation that serves as ice
breaker.
RAPPORT

22. It is a process and series of knowing
common interests through asking
questions, answering of question, and
asking another question and so on.
RAPPORT

23. The game is entitled human bingo.
ACTIVITY