There are three main ego states or roles that people can play in transactions according to transactional analysis: parent, adult, and child. The parent role can be either nurturing or controlling. The adult role is rational and assertive. The child role can be natural, adapted, or like a "little professor." Transactions between people can take three forms: complementary (between matching roles), crossed (between mismatched roles), or ulterior (hidden motives).
5. There are two forms of parent we can play.
1.The Nurturing Parent
2.The Controlling (or critical) Parent
PARENT
6. The adult in us is the ‘grown up’ rational person who
talks reasonably and assertively, neither trying to
control nor reacting aggressively towards others. The
adult is comfortable with themselves and is, for
many of us, our ‘ideal self’.
ADULT
7. There are three types of child we can play.
1.The Natural child
2.Little professor
3. Adaptive child
CHILD
CHILD
9. Depending on the ego states of the persons involved in
transactions, there may be three types of transactions:
1. Complementary transactions:
• Adult-adult transaction
• Adult –parent transactions
• Adult-child transactions
• Parent-parent transactions
• Parent –adult transactions