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FIRO B The Fundamental Interpersonal Relationships-Behavior
FIRO  B ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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Fundamental Interpersonal Relations Orientation –Behavior (FIRO B) INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION Expressed toward others I join other people, and  I include others I take charge, and I influence people I get close and personal with people Wanted from others I want other people to include me I want others to lead me or give me direction I want  people to get close and personal with me
Bagaimana saya ? ,[object Object],[object Object]
HOW do I score my Firo B ? LOW  SCORE -  HIGH SCORE  -  AVERAGE  SCORE  - 
INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION EXPRESSED   WANTED EXPRESSED WANTED EXPRESSED WANTED ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY 1 1-2-3 28 1-2 30 1-2-3 2 1-2-3-4 4 1-2 29 1-2 3 1-2-3-4 31 1-2 33 1-2-3 6 1-2-3-4 8 1-2 32 1-2 5 1-2-3-4 34 1-2 36 1-2 10 1-2-3 12 1 35 5-6 7 1-2-3 37 1 41 1-2-3-4 14 1-2-3 17 1-2 38 1-2 9 1-2 39 1 44 1-2-3 18 1-2-3 19 4-5-6 40 5-6 11 1-2 42 1-2 47 1-2-3 20 1-2-3 21 1-2 43 1 13 1-2 45 1-2 50 1-2 22 1-2-3-4 23 1-2 46 5-6 15 1 48 1-2 53 1-2 24 1-2-3 25 4-5-6 49 1-2 16 1 51 1-2 54 1-2 26 1-2-3 27 1-2 5 5-6 SCORE SCORE SCORE SCORE SCORE SCORE EI   WI   EC   WC   EA   WA      INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION EXPRESSED behavior       TOTAL  E WANTED behavior       TOTAL W         TOTAL TOTAL TOTAL SOCIAL INTERACTION  INDEX INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION
SCORING ? INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION Expressed Behavior toward others Wanted Behavior From others TOTAL E TOTAL  W TOTAL  INCLUSION TOTAL CONTROL TOTAL AFFECTION SOCIAL INTERACTION INDEX 18 17 35 14 8 13 7  6 5 7 2 8
Bagaimana analisanya  ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Bagaimana membaca Perilaku Marco dalam ber relasi dengan orang lain ? Marco  Inclusion Control Affection Row Total Expr ( e) 4 9 2 Want ( w) 6 4 8 Column Total 10 13 9
AVERAGE FIRO B Scores and Ranges ROW TOTALS Column Total 9 to 15 11,9 5 to 11 8,5 6 to 12 8,9 20 to 38 29,3 INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION Expressed toward others 4  To  7 5,4 2 to 5 3,9 3 to 6 4,1 Wanted from others 5 to 8 6,5 3 to 6 4,6 3 to 6 4,6 9 to 18 13,4 11 to 20 15,9
Examples Bagaimana ? A Inclusion Control Affection Expr ( e) 6 8 6 Want ( w) 7 2 8
Application Saya Dia  Suka melibatkan  orang lain  Suka dilibatkan  orang lain COMPATIBLE Suka  Mengendalikan orang lain  Suka dikendalikan orang lain COMPATIBLE Suka  Berakrab akrab Dgn org lain Suka di Akrab akrab in Oleh orang lain COMPATIBLE Relasi
COMPATIBILITY ? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Examples of Two FIRO B scores MANAGER Inclusion Control Affection Row Total Expr ( e) 9 9 1 19 Want ( w) 8 4 3 15 Column Total 17 13 4 34 SUBORDINATES Inclusion Control Affection Row Total Expr ( e) 3 8 6 17 Want ( w) 2 2 8 12 Column Total 5 10 14 29
Analysis ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],ME       OTHERS  Linda versus Anton !  Manager’s e – Subordinate’s w! + ! Subordinate’s e – Manager’s w ! ( Manager’s e – Manager’s w) + ( Subordinate’s e – Subordinate’s w) ! Manager’s e + Manager’s w ! - ! Subordinate’s  e + Subordinate’s  w! ! = Nilai mutlak  (ABSOLUTE)
Analysis ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],!  Manager’s e – Subordinate’s w! + ! Subordinate’s e – Manager’s w ! ( Manager’s e – Manager’s w) + ( Subordinate’s e – Subordinate’s w) ! Manager’s e + Manager’s w ! - ! Subordinate’s  e + Subordinate’s  w! ! = Nilai mutlak !9 -2!  +  ! 3 – 8!  = 12  For inclusion ( 9 – 4) + (8 – 2)  = + 11 For Control ! 1 + 3 ! - ! 6 + 8! =  10 ( absolute value) --   for affection
Incompatibility Scores for a hypothetical Manager and a subordinates TOTAL Incompatibility ( absolute values) 75 Inclusion Control Affection Reciprocal 12 11 10 Originator 2 11 -4 Interchange 12 3 10
Artinya ? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Improve your interpersonal relation ? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
EGO  STATE/ status ego Suatu kumpulan dari cara cara seseorang mengekspresikan dirinya dalam berinteraksi dengan orang lain yrb/sbm/itb/2008 Prof ERIC  BERNIE
KONSEP ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],yrb/sbm/itb/2008
3 EGO STATE ( status ego) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],yrb/sbm/itb/2008 Kritik Menasihati Rasional, why ? Fun    alamiah : Natural Child Nakal -   Berontak : Rebellious Child Penurut -   Yes, mommy, Yes sir   : Adaptive Child
Seorang atasan bertanya pada bawahannya   Atasan : Mana laporan yang kemarin saya minta ? yrb/sbm/itb/2008 O D A ATASAN  BAWAHAN O D A Bawahan : Lho, kan sudah saya taruh dimeja bapak, koq    enggak dilihat sih pak ?  Ego state mana yang bicara ini ? Disebut Transaksi Silang
Seorang atasan bertanya pada bawahannya   Atasan  :  Mana laporan yang kemarin saya minta ? yrb/sbm/itb/2008 O D A ATASAN  BAWAHAN O D A Bawahan : Sudah saya taruh dimeja bapak, mungkin terselip pak, mari saya bantu cari, maaf lho pak  Ego state mana yang bicara ini ? Disebut Transaksi Paralel
Seorang credit officer dan calon nasabah  Nasabah : Jadi bagaimana pak, kira kira kredit kami  ada peluang ?  yrb/sbm/itb/2008 O D A Nasabah  BAWAHAN O D A Officer : Tenang lah pak, tapi bapak  mengertikan ?  Ego state mana yang bicara ini ? Disebut Ulterior Transaction (tersembunyi) Nasabah :  Bereslah itu pak, jangan kwatir ….
Dalam dunia kerja ? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],yrb/sbm/itb/2008
Lesson learn ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],yrb/sbm/itb/2008

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  • 5. Fundamental Interpersonal Relations Orientation –Behavior (FIRO B) INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION Expressed toward others I join other people, and I include others I take charge, and I influence people I get close and personal with people Wanted from others I want other people to include me I want others to lead me or give me direction I want people to get close and personal with me
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  • 8. INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION EXPRESSED   WANTED EXPRESSED WANTED EXPRESSED WANTED ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY ITEM KEY 1 1-2-3 28 1-2 30 1-2-3 2 1-2-3-4 4 1-2 29 1-2 3 1-2-3-4 31 1-2 33 1-2-3 6 1-2-3-4 8 1-2 32 1-2 5 1-2-3-4 34 1-2 36 1-2 10 1-2-3 12 1 35 5-6 7 1-2-3 37 1 41 1-2-3-4 14 1-2-3 17 1-2 38 1-2 9 1-2 39 1 44 1-2-3 18 1-2-3 19 4-5-6 40 5-6 11 1-2 42 1-2 47 1-2-3 20 1-2-3 21 1-2 43 1 13 1-2 45 1-2 50 1-2 22 1-2-3-4 23 1-2 46 5-6 15 1 48 1-2 53 1-2 24 1-2-3 25 4-5-6 49 1-2 16 1 51 1-2 54 1-2 26 1-2-3 27 1-2 5 5-6 SCORE SCORE SCORE SCORE SCORE SCORE EI   WI   EC   WC   EA   WA     INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION EXPRESSED behavior       TOTAL E WANTED behavior       TOTAL W         TOTAL TOTAL TOTAL SOCIAL INTERACTION INDEX INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION
  • 9. SCORING ? INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION Expressed Behavior toward others Wanted Behavior From others TOTAL E TOTAL W TOTAL INCLUSION TOTAL CONTROL TOTAL AFFECTION SOCIAL INTERACTION INDEX 18 17 35 14 8 13 7 6 5 7 2 8
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  • 11. AVERAGE FIRO B Scores and Ranges ROW TOTALS Column Total 9 to 15 11,9 5 to 11 8,5 6 to 12 8,9 20 to 38 29,3 INCLUSION CONTROL AFFECTION Expressed toward others 4 To 7 5,4 2 to 5 3,9 3 to 6 4,1 Wanted from others 5 to 8 6,5 3 to 6 4,6 3 to 6 4,6 9 to 18 13,4 11 to 20 15,9
  • 12. Examples Bagaimana ? A Inclusion Control Affection Expr ( e) 6 8 6 Want ( w) 7 2 8
  • 13. Application Saya Dia Suka melibatkan orang lain Suka dilibatkan orang lain COMPATIBLE Suka Mengendalikan orang lain Suka dikendalikan orang lain COMPATIBLE Suka Berakrab akrab Dgn org lain Suka di Akrab akrab in Oleh orang lain COMPATIBLE Relasi
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  • 15. Examples of Two FIRO B scores MANAGER Inclusion Control Affection Row Total Expr ( e) 9 9 1 19 Want ( w) 8 4 3 15 Column Total 17 13 4 34 SUBORDINATES Inclusion Control Affection Row Total Expr ( e) 3 8 6 17 Want ( w) 2 2 8 12 Column Total 5 10 14 29
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  • 18. Incompatibility Scores for a hypothetical Manager and a subordinates TOTAL Incompatibility ( absolute values) 75 Inclusion Control Affection Reciprocal 12 11 10 Originator 2 11 -4 Interchange 12 3 10
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  • 21. EGO STATE/ status ego Suatu kumpulan dari cara cara seseorang mengekspresikan dirinya dalam berinteraksi dengan orang lain yrb/sbm/itb/2008 Prof ERIC BERNIE
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  • 24. Seorang atasan bertanya pada bawahannya Atasan : Mana laporan yang kemarin saya minta ? yrb/sbm/itb/2008 O D A ATASAN BAWAHAN O D A Bawahan : Lho, kan sudah saya taruh dimeja bapak, koq enggak dilihat sih pak ? Ego state mana yang bicara ini ? Disebut Transaksi Silang
  • 25. Seorang atasan bertanya pada bawahannya Atasan : Mana laporan yang kemarin saya minta ? yrb/sbm/itb/2008 O D A ATASAN BAWAHAN O D A Bawahan : Sudah saya taruh dimeja bapak, mungkin terselip pak, mari saya bantu cari, maaf lho pak Ego state mana yang bicara ini ? Disebut Transaksi Paralel
  • 26. Seorang credit officer dan calon nasabah Nasabah : Jadi bagaimana pak, kira kira kredit kami ada peluang ? yrb/sbm/itb/2008 O D A Nasabah BAWAHAN O D A Officer : Tenang lah pak, tapi bapak mengertikan ? Ego state mana yang bicara ini ? Disebut Ulterior Transaction (tersembunyi) Nasabah : Bereslah itu pak, jangan kwatir ….
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