Why
 We
Fail?
1. Lack of Persistence

More people fail not because they lack
knowledge or talent but because they quit.
The total secret of success lies in two words,
persistence and resistance. Persist in what
                  resistance
must be done and resist what ought not to be
done.
When problems seem
insurmountable, quitting seems
to be the easiest way out……
Winners are struck but not
destroyed. We all have had
setbacks in life. Failing does not
mean we are failures.
2. Lack of Conviction
People who lack conviction
take the middle of the road;
and guess what happens in
  the middle of the road?
     You get run over.
People without
conviction do not take
a stand. They go along
  stand
to get along because
they lack confidence
and courage.
They conform in order
to get accepted even
when they know that
what they are doing is
wrong. They behave
like part of a herd.
3. Rationalizing

Winners may analyze but never
rationalize. That is a loser's game.
Losers always have a book full of
excuses to tell you why they could not.
We hear
excuses
like……
• I'm unlucky
 • I'm born under the wrong stars
 • I'm not good looking
 • I don't have contacts
 • I don't have enough money
 • The economy is bad
 • If only I had the opportunity
 • If only I didn't have a family

The list can go on and
on…….
4. Not Learning from
       Past Mistakes
Some people live and learn, and
                       learn
some only live. Wise people learn
from their mistakes.
People who do not learn lessons from
history are doomed. Failure is a
teacher if we have the right attitude.
Failure is a detour, not a dead end.
It is a delay, not a defeat. Experience
is the name we give to our mistakes.
5. Lack of Discipline

 Anyone who has
 accomplished anything
 worthwhile has never
 done so without
 discipline.
Discipline takes self-
control, sacrifice, and
avoiding distractions and
temptations. It means
staying focused. Steam
does not move the engine
unless it is confined.
Niagara Falls would not
generate power unless it
were harnessed.
Poor self-esteem is a
lack of self-respect and
self-worth. It leads to
abuse of one's self and
others.


6. Poor Self-Esteem
People with low self-esteem are
constantly looking for identity. They are
trying to find themselves. One's self is
   not to be found but to be created.
Idleness and laziness are consequences
of poor self-esteem and so is making
excuses.

Idleness is like rust that eats into the most
brilliant metal.
7. Fatalistic
    Attitude
A fatalistic attitude prevents people
from accepting responsibility for their
position in life. They attribute success
and failure to luck. They resign
themselves to their fate.
They believe and accept the
predestined future written in
their horoscope or stars, that
regardless of their effort
whatever has to happen will
happen.
Hence they never put in any effort and
complacency becomes a way of life. They
wait for things to happen rather than make
them happen.

Why we fail

  • 1.
  • 2.
    1. Lack ofPersistence More people fail not because they lack knowledge or talent but because they quit. The total secret of success lies in two words, persistence and resistance. Persist in what resistance must be done and resist what ought not to be done.
  • 3.
    When problems seem insurmountable,quitting seems to be the easiest way out……
  • 4.
    Winners are struckbut not destroyed. We all have had setbacks in life. Failing does not mean we are failures.
  • 5.
    2. Lack ofConviction People who lack conviction take the middle of the road; and guess what happens in the middle of the road? You get run over.
  • 6.
    People without conviction donot take a stand. They go along stand to get along because they lack confidence and courage.
  • 7.
    They conform inorder to get accepted even when they know that what they are doing is wrong. They behave like part of a herd.
  • 8.
    3. Rationalizing Winners mayanalyze but never rationalize. That is a loser's game. Losers always have a book full of excuses to tell you why they could not.
  • 9.
  • 10.
    • I'm unlucky • I'm born under the wrong stars • I'm not good looking • I don't have contacts • I don't have enough money • The economy is bad • If only I had the opportunity • If only I didn't have a family The list can go on and on…….
  • 11.
    4. Not Learningfrom Past Mistakes
  • 12.
    Some people liveand learn, and learn some only live. Wise people learn from their mistakes.
  • 13.
    People who donot learn lessons from history are doomed. Failure is a teacher if we have the right attitude. Failure is a detour, not a dead end. It is a delay, not a defeat. Experience is the name we give to our mistakes.
  • 14.
    5. Lack ofDiscipline Anyone who has accomplished anything worthwhile has never done so without discipline.
  • 15.
    Discipline takes self- control,sacrifice, and avoiding distractions and temptations. It means staying focused. Steam does not move the engine unless it is confined. Niagara Falls would not generate power unless it were harnessed.
  • 16.
    Poor self-esteem isa lack of self-respect and self-worth. It leads to abuse of one's self and others. 6. Poor Self-Esteem
  • 17.
    People with lowself-esteem are constantly looking for identity. They are trying to find themselves. One's self is not to be found but to be created.
  • 18.
    Idleness and lazinessare consequences of poor self-esteem and so is making excuses. Idleness is like rust that eats into the most brilliant metal.
  • 19.
  • 20.
    A fatalistic attitudeprevents people from accepting responsibility for their position in life. They attribute success and failure to luck. They resign themselves to their fate.
  • 21.
    They believe andaccept the predestined future written in their horoscope or stars, that regardless of their effort whatever has to happen will happen.
  • 22.
    Hence they neverput in any effort and complacency becomes a way of life. They wait for things to happen rather than make them happen.