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- 1. Jonathan Toker is the Slowtwitch.com science editor and an elite-level trail runner-triathlete who hails from Canada and lives in Southern California. He received a Ph.D. in organic chemistry from the Scripps Research Institute in 2001. The article is not a fact, but it is written from a personal view of Jonathan Toker, himself especially during his study and tournament that he has competed. FAST OR FLOP AT FORTY: EXPERIENCING MUSCLE STRAIN AND FALL INTO THE NEGATIVE SIDE OF IT Not Being Happy for Others With a negative attitude, you will not feel happiness for anyone else because of your own insecurities and perceive yourself as weak or inferior and see other people as a threat. Instead of celebrating others' success, you may only feel jealousy and envy toward them. For example, you may feel jealous someone who has won a contest or earned a reward for an achievement. Seeing the Negative Side of Everything You may see the negatives first in every situation. You may complain about the negatives about a topic or situation, rather than find something positive to say. You may also be preoccupied with a fear that something bad may happen, which will stop you from enjoying a positive moment. This will cause others to see you as a gloomy and depressing person whose negativity may wear on them. Insulting Remarks You may have resentment and anger, which will cause you to lash out at others. If you find yourself regularly making insulting or derogatory remarks to others, this may indicate that you have a bad attitude. You may hurt someone's feelings and cause her to become shy or uncomfortable around you. As a result of your behavior, people with whom you associate will not want to be around you, especially those who always doing activities (cycling, competitive sports, etc.) together with you.
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