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Loser vs winner
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- 3. WINNERS DO THE SAMETHINGS AS EVERONE BUT BUT BUT DIFFERENTLY THIS MAKE A HUGE DIFFRENSE WIINERS HAVE A SAME QUALITIES AND TRAITS ………. WHICH HELP THEM TO WIN AND TO BE SUCCESSFUL EVEN WE SHOULD IDEALLY FOLLOW THESE QUALITIES
- 4. WINNERS SEE THEGAIN LOSERS SEE THE PAIN
- 5. QUALITY 1 ATTITUDE • BUILDINGA POSTIVE ATTITUDE IS MUST • THE STORY OF A MAN SELLING BALLOONS • THE STORY OF STAR FISH • The story of 2 sales manger
- 6. • HITLER’S SOLDIER TOLDHIM THAT THEY WERE SORROUNDED BY ENEMIES FROM ALL SIDES • HITLER REPLIED – “THAT’S GREAT NOW WE CAN ATTACK IN ANY DIRECTION.” • • EVERYTHING DEPENDS ON YOUR ATTITUDE AND WINNERS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS HAVE A +VE ONE
- 7. • ACCORDING TOA HARVARD STUDY. • 85% ….OF PEOPLE GET PROMOTED BECAUSE OF ATTITUDE •15% …. BECAUSE OF KNOWLEDGE OR INTELLIGENCE
- 8. •YOUR ATTITUDS DECIDES HOWYOU WILL HANDLE ANY SITUATION IN FUTURE •POSTIVE ATTITUDE HELPS IN MOVING AHEAD IN LIFE EASILY
- 9. 4. THE STORYOF DEVID AND GOLIATH • THUS, CLEARLY DEFFRENT ATTITUDE … GETS DEFFRENT RESULTS • KING SOUL THOUGHT GOLIATH WAS TO BIG TO FIGHT- DEVID THOUGHT HE WAS TO ..BIG MISS
- 10. Positive attitude canget amazing results as seen therefore always be positive and see the glass half full This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-SA
- 11. QUALITY NO 2ACCRES OF DIAMONDS BE AN OPPORTUNITY GRABER THE STORY OF FARMER KEEP DIGGING UNTIL YOU REACH YOUR DIAMONDS YOU’RE ALMOST THERE STAY MOTIVATED This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-SA
- 12. WHAT DO WELEARN FROM THIS STORY What do we learn from this story according toShiv Khera?WHEN- our attitude is RIGHT we REALIZE that we are all walking on ACRESand ACRES of diamond We must know HOW TO RECOGNIZE and grab the opportunity as the SAME opportunity NEVER KNOCKS TWICE the next opportunity can be better or worse but it can never be the same This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-SA-NC This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-NC-ND
- 13. • This manis a BIG FOLLOWER of GOD Once- there was a deluge in his village • 1. People came to him and suggested that he should leave with them • 2. A CAR came to his rescue- BUT AGAIN HE REFUSED saying that hisGod will help him • 3. A BOAT came to his rescue- his reply was the same • 4. A helicopter cameFinally he died- he complained to God for not saving him • God replied: "Foolish person who had sent the car,the boat, the helicopter?????"
- 14. • Quality 3-Success • The founder of FORBES says that HISTORY SHOWS SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE facing problems • These winners face MANY MANY MANY Hurdles in the beginning However, these winners NEVER FEAR FAILURE They don't fear failing again and again
- 15. Let's take anexample: • This MAN- • 21 failed in Business • 22 failed in election • 24- failed in business • 26 -beloved's death • 27 nervous breakdown • 34 failed in election Failed • again when he was 45, 47 • and 49-he was considered A BIGFAILURE But he never thought so BUT HE NEVER LOST
- 16. ABRAHAM LINCOLN (PORTRAIT OFAN ACHIEVER ) • Mother died -1809 • Sister died -1828 • Failed in business -1831 • Defeated Illinois clection -1832 • Fiancée' died -1835 • Nervous breakdown -1836 • Defeated- US Congress -1843 • Father died -1851 • Defeated US Senate -1855 • Defeated Vice President -1856 • Defeated -US Senate -1858
- 17. ELECTED PRESIDENT OFTHE UNITED STATES IN 1860 “YOU CANNOT FAIL UNLESS YOU QUIT” “SUCCESS IS GOING FROM FAILURE TO FAILURE WITHAOUT LOSING YOUR ENTHUSIASM”
- 18. IMPOSIBLE IS IAM POSSIBLE 1. NEVER GIVE UP 2. FATHER DIED AT 5 YEARS OLD 3. LEFT FROM SCHOOL AT THE AGE OF 16 4. HE IS MOM GOT A 2ND MARRID HE IS PERSON LEFT IN HOME 5. 17 YEARS 4 JOB LEFT 6. 18 YEARS HE GOT MERRID 7. 22 YEARS BUS CONDUCTOR JOB 8. AFTER SOME TIME,GETTING AN JOB ARMY, HE WAS REMOVED FROM IT TOO 9. WANT TO LAW SCHOOL ADMISSION AND REJECTED 10. TRIED INSURANCE AGENT BUT FAILE 11. HIS WIFE LEFT HOME WITH HER DAUGHTER AFTER 1 YEAR 12. THEN BECOME A COOK AT HOTEL 13. DID A FAILED ATTEMT TO KIDNAP HIS OWN TOGETHER TO MEET HIS DAUGHTER 14. 65 YEARS RETIRED RECEIVED CHECK AFTER RETIREMENT OF 105$ DOLLAR 15. ATTEMPT MANY TIMES TO SUICIDE HE REALIZE THERE IS A LOT TO BE DONE IN LIFE 13. ROAD CONSTRUCTION VANISHED HIS SMALL BUSSINESS 14. 1009 TIMES FAIL IN LIFE This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY
- 19. DEVELOP KFC BUSINESSIN 120 COUNTRY 18000 KFC RESTAURANTS 20000 $ DOLLARS + WORTH This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-SA-NC AFTER 62 YEARS OLD
- 20. Always be readyfor SUCCESS and learn to FIGHT these 4 obstacles: • Fear-- • biggest obstacle • Fear inculcates LACK OF CONFIDENCE • People under fear feel TRAPPED This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-SA
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- 22. 2nd obstaclé-lack ofmotivation There was once a SUCCESSFUL PERsON and an UNSUCCESSFUL person
- 23. When asked aboutthe reason for failure and success... • Unsuccessful person when asked for the reason for failure • I faced many problems.. I had a poor family... Alcoholic father...No money... Etc, etc, etc, hence FAILED • Successful person-- when asked about the reason for SUcCESS • Had the SAME ANSWERI faced many problems.. had a poor family... Alcoholic father.. no money.. hence • DECIDED THATI WILL NOT BELIKE MY FATHER and THERE FORE i CHANGED
- 24. Problems are excusesfor them and they refrain from action because of this For WINNERS ……problems are a source of MOTIVATION Motivation is a KEY that ensures ACTION Losers make their problems EXCUSES
- 25. Motivation has two types.. •External motivation • Money • Fame • Fear Internal motivation Pride Responsibi lity Feeling of success BELIVE
- 26. Obstacle 3- LOWSelf Esteem •What we think about ourselves is very important •If you FEEL that YOU CAN DO ANYTHING BIG IN LIFE then this will be TRUE •If you Feel that you can't do anything big in life--- then this will also be true
- 27. Differences between HIGHSELF ESTEEM and LOW SELF ESTEEM • High Self Esteem • Talk about high IDEAS • They are CARING • They think about OTHERS • They are GIVERS • They DISCUSS and they don’t ARGUE 1. Low self esteem 2. INSTEAD of ideas talk about people-they gossip 3. They merely judge And don't think about others 4. Never take advice from others And only ARGUE 5. They are greedy- they have a TAKERS ARGUE mentality rather than GIVERS This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-SA
- 28. Obstacle 4 EGO •Ego doesn’t allows people to LEARN • As people with EGO Fail to LEARN • They don't respect others • WINNERS have a healthy pride + they are down to earth + have humility • 4 obstacles - fear + lack of motivation + Iow self esteem + ego
- 29. Quality 4 GOALSETTING “SO LONG AS YOU HAVE YOUR EYES ON THE GOAL YOU DON’T SEE THE OBSTACLES”
- 30. Problem- people don't know what theywish to achieve People are not clear about their GOALS and therefore NEVER WIN IN THE GAME of life Goals- are dreams to which we give DEADLINES and we make plans-like action plans to achieve them. GOLAS SET THEM,BE THEM,REACH THEM.
- 31. GOALS SHOULD BESMART SPECIFIC I WANT GET THIS PERSANTIGE MEASURABLE I WANT TO 1 RANK IN FLP ACHIVABLE APKA GOAL ACHIVABLE HONA CHIYE REALSTIC YOUR GOAL SHOULD BE REALSTIC TIMELY TIME BOUND TILL 2020/31/12 This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY
- 32. We need NEWSKILLS to achieve our goals: 4 SATGES TO LEARN NEW SKILLS UNCONSCIOUS INCOMPETENCE CONSCIOUS INCOMPETENCE CONSCIOUS COMPETENCE UNCONSCIOUS COMPETENCE
- 33. To acquire anyskill your main aim ……SHOULD be to come to the 4th stage • UNCONSCIOUS COMPETENCE
- 34. QUALITY 5 VISION Ifyou have BIG VISION BIG DREAMS you can make them a reality Don't hesitate to dream BIG People PERSISTED ON their vision and MADE DREAMS a REALITY
- 36. You will be thefirst millionaire in your family This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-SA-NC