When Someone at Work
Has a Mood Disorder
Julie Connor, Ed.D.
TED Speaker | Educator | Author
Leadership & Collaboration Consultant
Mental Health & Workplace Statistics
• 1 in 5 U.S. adults struggle with mental
disorders every year
• 29% of U.S. adults are diagnosed
with an anxiety disorder [phobias,
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
(PTSD), etc.]
• Mental illness is the leading cause
of workplace absenteeism.
• Objective #1: Identify mood
disorder symptoms and triggers
• Objective #2: Discover
communication tools
• Objective #3: Distinguish between (a)
positive support and (b) less effective
behaviors
Objectives
• Build a Support Network
• Identify Community Resources
• Use Tools to Plan & Manage Time
• Find a Positive Role Model or Sponsor
• Connect with
Positive People
• Act As If
Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
SUGGESTED READING:
Anxiety & Panic Attacks: Their Cause & Cure,
(Robert Handly; 1985)
The Language of Letting Go,
(Melody Beattie; 1990)
The Courage to Change (Al-Anon)
Days of Healing, Days of Joy (Ernie Larson,
Hazeldon; 1987)
Guided Meditations (YouTube)
Five Minute Delight: Tiny Meditations to Relax &
De-Stress (Rohini Gupta; 2016)
Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
Use Positive Communication
Tools
• This is what happened …
• This is how I felt …
• This is what I need …
Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
• Set Goals / Track Progress / Reward Gains
• Expect Positive Outcomes / Readjust Your Thinking
• Develop Positive Self-Talk
• Exercise / Yoga
• Adjust Diet (Reduce caffeine, sugar, stimulants that
trigger anxiety; alcohol and other depressants)
• Write Positive Affirmations
• Vision Board / Artistic Expression
• Journaling
• Create a Gratitude List (Even if you don’t want to)
Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
• HALT – hungry, angry, lonely, tired
• Post Positive Quotations / Recovery Slogans
First Things First, Act As If
Feelings Aren’t Facts
FEAR: False Evidence Appearing Real
Keep It Simple
This Too Shall Pass
• Play & Have Fun
• Calming Music & Relaxation Tools
Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
• Respect privacy and avoid discussing their diagnosis
in the workplace.
• Report concerns to your employer.
- Be specific
- Describe observable behaviors
- Immediately report intentions
to hurt self or others
• Set appropriate boundaries. Never tolerate abuse.
What EMPLOYEES Should Do
• Contact HR or organizational department to share
concerns; create plan
• Discuss concerns with individual per policy
• Offer support & resources within organization and
community.
• Create a plan to meet goals.
• Set appropriate boundaries.
Never tolerate abuse.
What EMPLOYERS Should Do
• Establish workplace norms.
• Do not tolerate bullying or abusive behavior.
• Discuss inappropriate behavior with individual or mediator.
Describe the situation, how you feel, and what you need or
want. “When _____ happens, I feel _____. I need _____."
• Use “I” statements
• Ask clarifying questions
• Focus on solutions
• Document and report bullying
to your supervisor.
Set Appropriate Boundaries at Work
• Show concern – but avoid over-concern
• Refrain from name-calling or ridicule (i.e:
“hypochondriac”)
• Refrain from diagnosing
• Refrain from offering advice
• Avoid gossip
• Never tolerate abuse
What NOT to Do
Communication
• Identify issue
• Create norms
• Establish boundaries
• Ask clarifying questions
• Listen
• Focus on present issue
• Use respectful nonverbal communication
When engaging in a
:
• Calm down / Select time to talk
• Use “I “ statements.
When ________ happens, I feel _______.
I need ________.
• Set boundaries.
When ________ happens, I feel _______. I need
_____.
Clarify.
“I heard you say ____. Is that what you meant?”
• Keep accurate records
• Track progress
• Break down responsibilities into
chunks (schedule, planner, etc.)
• Conduct follow-up reviews
• Refer to staff and community resources
Document & Report
Julie A. Connor, Ed.D.
Speaker / Educator
Collaboration & Leadership Consultant
913-617-9979
julie@drjulieconnor.com
www.DrJulieConnor.com
Dreams to Action Trailblazer’s
Guide
Award-winning personal goal-setting
workbook

When Someone at Work Has a Mood Disorder

  • 1.
    When Someone atWork Has a Mood Disorder Julie Connor, Ed.D. TED Speaker | Educator | Author Leadership & Collaboration Consultant
  • 2.
    Mental Health &Workplace Statistics • 1 in 5 U.S. adults struggle with mental disorders every year • 29% of U.S. adults are diagnosed with an anxiety disorder [phobias, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), etc.] • Mental illness is the leading cause of workplace absenteeism.
  • 3.
    • Objective #1:Identify mood disorder symptoms and triggers • Objective #2: Discover communication tools • Objective #3: Distinguish between (a) positive support and (b) less effective behaviors Objectives
  • 4.
    • Build aSupport Network • Identify Community Resources • Use Tools to Plan & Manage Time • Find a Positive Role Model or Sponsor • Connect with Positive People • Act As If Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
  • 5.
    SUGGESTED READING: Anxiety &Panic Attacks: Their Cause & Cure, (Robert Handly; 1985) The Language of Letting Go, (Melody Beattie; 1990) The Courage to Change (Al-Anon) Days of Healing, Days of Joy (Ernie Larson, Hazeldon; 1987) Guided Meditations (YouTube) Five Minute Delight: Tiny Meditations to Relax & De-Stress (Rohini Gupta; 2016) Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
  • 6.
    Use Positive Communication Tools •This is what happened … • This is how I felt … • This is what I need … Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
  • 7.
    • Set Goals/ Track Progress / Reward Gains • Expect Positive Outcomes / Readjust Your Thinking • Develop Positive Self-Talk • Exercise / Yoga • Adjust Diet (Reduce caffeine, sugar, stimulants that trigger anxiety; alcohol and other depressants) • Write Positive Affirmations • Vision Board / Artistic Expression • Journaling • Create a Gratitude List (Even if you don’t want to) Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
  • 8.
    • HALT –hungry, angry, lonely, tired • Post Positive Quotations / Recovery Slogans First Things First, Act As If Feelings Aren’t Facts FEAR: False Evidence Appearing Real Keep It Simple This Too Shall Pass • Play & Have Fun • Calming Music & Relaxation Tools Mood Disorder Tools for Individuals
  • 9.
    • Respect privacyand avoid discussing their diagnosis in the workplace. • Report concerns to your employer. - Be specific - Describe observable behaviors - Immediately report intentions to hurt self or others • Set appropriate boundaries. Never tolerate abuse. What EMPLOYEES Should Do
  • 10.
    • Contact HRor organizational department to share concerns; create plan • Discuss concerns with individual per policy • Offer support & resources within organization and community. • Create a plan to meet goals. • Set appropriate boundaries. Never tolerate abuse. What EMPLOYERS Should Do
  • 11.
    • Establish workplacenorms. • Do not tolerate bullying or abusive behavior. • Discuss inappropriate behavior with individual or mediator. Describe the situation, how you feel, and what you need or want. “When _____ happens, I feel _____. I need _____." • Use “I” statements • Ask clarifying questions • Focus on solutions • Document and report bullying to your supervisor. Set Appropriate Boundaries at Work
  • 12.
    • Show concern– but avoid over-concern • Refrain from name-calling or ridicule (i.e: “hypochondriac”) • Refrain from diagnosing • Refrain from offering advice • Avoid gossip • Never tolerate abuse What NOT to Do
  • 13.
    Communication • Identify issue •Create norms • Establish boundaries • Ask clarifying questions • Listen • Focus on present issue • Use respectful nonverbal communication
  • 14.
    When engaging ina : • Calm down / Select time to talk • Use “I “ statements. When ________ happens, I feel _______. I need ________. • Set boundaries. When ________ happens, I feel _______. I need _____. Clarify. “I heard you say ____. Is that what you meant?”
  • 15.
    • Keep accuraterecords • Track progress • Break down responsibilities into chunks (schedule, planner, etc.) • Conduct follow-up reviews • Refer to staff and community resources Document & Report
  • 16.
    Julie A. Connor,Ed.D. Speaker / Educator Collaboration & Leadership Consultant 913-617-9979 julie@drjulieconnor.com www.DrJulieConnor.com Dreams to Action Trailblazer’s Guide Award-winning personal goal-setting workbook