Social coaching as a way of work with the disabled is able to provide a method that will allow to train very diverse profiles of people working or wishing to work in the social field about how to take charge of the client with mental disability globally, being able to accompany the client during a path of development that will have a strong impact both on the level of activities (related to tasks and actions by an individual) and participation (involvement in a life situation) and on the level of environmental factors and determining a global improvement of the level of the person’s functioning.
This document summarizes the agenda and content for Day 2 of a leadership training program. It includes:
1) A recap of Day 1 topics on leadership concepts and a discussion on technical vs adaptive challenges.
2) The agenda for Day 2 covers collaboration, common purpose, and systems thinking through presentations, activities, and group work.
3) The collaboration session defines collaboration, cooperation, competition, and compromise. It discusses the importance of diversity and prerequisites for effective collaboration.
4) The common purpose session explains its three components: occurring within groups, shared visions/aims/values, and working with others. It also discusses challenges and links to other leadership concepts.
5) The systems thinking
This document discusses peer coaching and collegial development groups. It defines peer coaching as a process where teachers observe each other's classrooms to provide constructive feedback to improve teaching skills. Collegial development groups allow teachers to be the richest source of knowledge about teaching by examining student work and teacher practice. There are two types of collegial development groups: study groups which explore new ideas and practices, and critical friends groups which focus on examining student work and teacher thinking through facilitated discussions. The document emphasizes that effective professional development capitalizes on teacher strengths through long-term collaboration and support between colleagues.
Mobius is a premier coaching, training and leadership development company. We bring the best in class offerings in transformational learning to senior level audiences. The programs we offer synthesize organizational systems thinking, mindset and capabilities knowledge and personal character development. They are highly customized to each client context and tailored to maximize specific strategic impact.
This document provides an overview of the concept of "consciousness of self", which refers to an awareness of one's own personality traits, values, and strengths. It discusses how consciousness of self is important for leadership as it helps build self-confidence while recognizing limitations. The document also outlines some aspects that influence individual identity, and emphasizes the importance of introspection for developing consciousness of self through reflection and being open to feedback.
The agenda includes welcome speeches, testimonials, an icebreaker activity, a presentation on leadership for social change, and a brainstorming session. The document provides background on the founders and vision of TLN, which is to foster social change through leadership training based on a social change model of leadership development. It outlines expectations for participation in the 8-session program and ends with calling participants to identify opportunities to practice leadership.
This document provides an overview of a 4-day leadership program focused on developing skills for leading in the 21st century. The program is based on the i4 Neuroleader Model, which identifies competencies like performance, collaboration, innovation and agility that research shows are important for today's leaders. Participants will learn how to apply neuroscience findings to leadership, develop an innovative mindset, and improve abilities like communication, stress management and adaptability. The program aims to help leaders create more effective organizations and is suitable for business executives, professionals, coaches and entrepreneurs seeking to enhance their leadership skills.
The Future of Education in the American SouthLauren Peters
This report outlines futures scenarios and supporting information surrounding the future of Education in the American South and was created by a group of multidisciplinary designers at SCAD for the Design Management Design Futures class of Winter 2014.
This document discusses building a learning organization. It provides examples of companies that have established learning organizations, including VinGroup and FPT Corporation. It outlines key aspects of learning organizations such as encouraging all employees to learn 100 hours per year, establishing corporate universities, and having all managers teach. The document also discusses challenges of learning organizations and provides steps to build them, including focusing on individual, team, and organizational learning. It describes techniques like communities of practice, knowledge management systems, and retrospective reviews. Overall, the document advocates that establishing a culture of continuous learning across all levels is the ultimate competitive advantage for organizations.
This document summarizes the agenda and content for Day 2 of a leadership training program. It includes:
1) A recap of Day 1 topics on leadership concepts and a discussion on technical vs adaptive challenges.
2) The agenda for Day 2 covers collaboration, common purpose, and systems thinking through presentations, activities, and group work.
3) The collaboration session defines collaboration, cooperation, competition, and compromise. It discusses the importance of diversity and prerequisites for effective collaboration.
4) The common purpose session explains its three components: occurring within groups, shared visions/aims/values, and working with others. It also discusses challenges and links to other leadership concepts.
5) The systems thinking
This document discusses peer coaching and collegial development groups. It defines peer coaching as a process where teachers observe each other's classrooms to provide constructive feedback to improve teaching skills. Collegial development groups allow teachers to be the richest source of knowledge about teaching by examining student work and teacher practice. There are two types of collegial development groups: study groups which explore new ideas and practices, and critical friends groups which focus on examining student work and teacher thinking through facilitated discussions. The document emphasizes that effective professional development capitalizes on teacher strengths through long-term collaboration and support between colleagues.
Mobius is a premier coaching, training and leadership development company. We bring the best in class offerings in transformational learning to senior level audiences. The programs we offer synthesize organizational systems thinking, mindset and capabilities knowledge and personal character development. They are highly customized to each client context and tailored to maximize specific strategic impact.
This document provides an overview of the concept of "consciousness of self", which refers to an awareness of one's own personality traits, values, and strengths. It discusses how consciousness of self is important for leadership as it helps build self-confidence while recognizing limitations. The document also outlines some aspects that influence individual identity, and emphasizes the importance of introspection for developing consciousness of self through reflection and being open to feedback.
The agenda includes welcome speeches, testimonials, an icebreaker activity, a presentation on leadership for social change, and a brainstorming session. The document provides background on the founders and vision of TLN, which is to foster social change through leadership training based on a social change model of leadership development. It outlines expectations for participation in the 8-session program and ends with calling participants to identify opportunities to practice leadership.
This document provides an overview of a 4-day leadership program focused on developing skills for leading in the 21st century. The program is based on the i4 Neuroleader Model, which identifies competencies like performance, collaboration, innovation and agility that research shows are important for today's leaders. Participants will learn how to apply neuroscience findings to leadership, develop an innovative mindset, and improve abilities like communication, stress management and adaptability. The program aims to help leaders create more effective organizations and is suitable for business executives, professionals, coaches and entrepreneurs seeking to enhance their leadership skills.
The Future of Education in the American SouthLauren Peters
This report outlines futures scenarios and supporting information surrounding the future of Education in the American South and was created by a group of multidisciplinary designers at SCAD for the Design Management Design Futures class of Winter 2014.
This document discusses building a learning organization. It provides examples of companies that have established learning organizations, including VinGroup and FPT Corporation. It outlines key aspects of learning organizations such as encouraging all employees to learn 100 hours per year, establishing corporate universities, and having all managers teach. The document also discusses challenges of learning organizations and provides steps to build them, including focusing on individual, team, and organizational learning. It describes techniques like communities of practice, knowledge management systems, and retrospective reviews. Overall, the document advocates that establishing a culture of continuous learning across all levels is the ultimate competitive advantage for organizations.
Here are some of the bad listening habits I sometimes struggle with and want to improve:
- I sometimes interrupt or try to finish the other person's sentences before they are done speaking.
- On occasion, I make up my mind about what the other person is saying before having all the information.
- At times, I think more about what I want to say in response rather than fully focusing on what the other person is communicating.
The key is being aware of these tendencies and consciously working to avoid them by focusing fully on the other speaker, not interrupting, and reserving judgment until they are finished. Improving listening skills takes practice.
Cornerstone School in Birmingham, Alabama faced challenges of inadequate funding, management, and lack of accreditation until Dr. Nita Carr became executive director in 2007. Over six years, she transformed the school through various initiatives, including using Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument (HBDI) assessments and workshops on Whole Brain thinking for staff. This led the staff to better understand their own and others' thinking preferences, allowing Dr. Carr to realign roles and responsibilities for increased productivity and morale. Whole Brain thinking concepts are now integrated into the school's culture. The initiatives have continued to benefit the school, including preparing for a new high school.
ADHD coaching is an emerging field that aims to help individuals with ADHD achieve their goals through regular check-ins, encouragement, and practical strategies. Coaches focus on time management, organization, motivation, and overcoming daily challenges rather than underlying causes. While research is still limited, coaching shows potential as a supplement to established ADHD treatments. It is important to find a coach with proper training and experience working with ADHD. Coaching differs from therapy in that coaches do not address underlying issues and focus on practical daily living skills rather than problem diagnosis.
The document summarizes the findings of a survey on sustainability leadership. It finds that social entrepreneurs are perceived as the top leaders in advancing sustainability, grabbing "market share" from NGOs. Among corporations, Unilever is seen as a leader after launching their "Sustainable Living Plan". The survey involved 559 sustainability experts globally and examined perceptions of different types of leaders. It also discusses how social entrepreneurs are creating new forms of social and economic value through various business models and approaches.
Coach Profile Jane Keep June 2011 New Photojanekeep
Jane Keep is a freelance coach and facilitator who runs her own coaching practice called the Inner-Heart Esoteric Coaching and Healing Practice. She has over 20 years of experience in human resource management, organizational development, and change management in both public and private sectors. Her coaching approach focuses on facilitating clients to gain self-awareness and build their capacity for self-coaching. She offers coaching services for individuals, teams, and leaders across various areas including life coaching, career development, and performance improvement.
Welcome to our 2015 organisational profile.
We are here to create and innovate. We partner with our clients on inspiring paths of living into their Authentic Self. We work with Individuals, Teams, Companies and Communities who are keen to transform from deep within, keen to impact their environments positively and to work consciously on the share they own in the wellbeing of our world - operating in an abundant exchange - unlocking potential!
Our clientele stretches from top Executives in the corporate arena to inmates in South African Prisons.
COACHING TAKES YOU FROM “HOW TO WOW”
You aspire to achieve specific goals and fulfil your dreams. But working towards goal is not that easy, as you may encounter several how, where, why, when, whom, which etc. questions en-route to success. The inspiration to find solution of these hurdles, odds and rough patches are available through Coaching. The down times can get really down and dishearten you.
Setbacks and disappointments are an integral part of life and there is no escaping them. While you cannot change your circumstances or bypass the hurdles, you can brace yourself up against the difficult times by maintaining a positive & constructive frame of mind and then determine to keep you going against all odds.
When the going gets tough and you are overwhelmed by the rough times, all you need is Coaching to encourage and keep you going. The showcase to inspire the winner in you will do, by unchaining your real potential. Coaching stimuli will lift up your spirits, make you feel high-n-confident and put you back on right action track.
Monika Kaushik is a leading image consultant and personality development practitioner based in Mumbai, India. She has over a decade of experience in fields such as image management, personal development, communication skills, etiquette, and personal grooming. Kaushik's experience spans various regions of India and other parts of the world. She has conducted workshops for many large corporations and organizations. Kaushik uses her unique MEGHDHANUSH model to help clients identify their personality colors and develop customized plans to boost their image and self-actualization. This involves addressing areas like dressing, grooming, etiquette, and confidence. Kaushik conducts both group workshops and individual sessions to transform how clients project themselves.
Genius Baby On Board (GBOB) offers a playgroup licensing program for entrepreneurs to start their own early childhood education business. The program provides a complete curriculum from infant to 4 years old divided into levels, as well as business support, training, and materials. Licensees can choose between package options at different price points and levels to start their playgroup. The business model allows licensees to generate monthly profits from student enrollment fees while benefitting from GBOB's expertise and reputation in early childhood education.
Tuesday 25 June 2013 - AITSL presents an exciting opportunity for school leaders and/or leadership teams to work with internationally regarded researcher & writer Professor Louise Stoll, Institute of Education, University of London. Louise’s expertise in the field of professional learning communities will be the focus of the day’s session, Developing creative professional learning communities within and between schools.
Coaching supervision provides quality control, development of coaching skills, and emotional support for coaches. While most coaches believe supervision is important, only 44% receive it due to cost and availability issues. Supervision structures typically involve reflection on client work, with individual and group formats using discussion, case reviews, and action learning. Supervisors have diverse training, though coaching experience is most valued. Organizations see supervision as improving coaching quality and standards, while coaches view it as skill development.
There are over 140 definitions of motivation that generally refer to the internal and external forces that direct and sustain human behavior toward achieving certain goals. Motivation theories can be categorized as either content theories, which examine factors like needs and drives, or process theories, which describe how needs translate into behaviors. Some major motivation theories discussed include Maslow's hierarchy of needs, Herzberg's two-factor theory, ERG theory, McClelland's acquired needs theory, expectancy theory, and goal-setting theory. Motivation in organizations can be influenced by both intrinsic and extrinsic factors.
The document discusses various aspects of leadership including definitions, types of leaders, leadership styles, theories of leadership, and approaches to leadership. It defines leadership as the ability to influence others towards achieving goals and discusses that leaders can be those in authority, those with charisma or ability, or intellectual leaders. It also outlines different leadership styles like autocratic, democratic, laissez-faire and discusses theories like trait theory, transformational theory, and transactional theory.
Personal & Professional Development Self LearningRichard Docc
This Personnel & Professional Development self managed learning can be helpful in both professional as well as personal life and self managed learning can help in enhancing lifelong development.
The document discusses principles of educational leadership and creating a positive school culture. It defines leadership as the ability to influence and inspire a group to achieve goals through clear communication of a purposeful vision. It identifies five key elements educational leaders can draw on: stating a mission and goals; organizing and inspiring staff; encouraging communication; providing development opportunities; and mobilizing the local community. Each element includes an overview and a leader's personal experience successfully implementing that element in their school.
The document discusses the role and impact of management education in business and society. It covers several topics:
1. Management education is necessary for individuals to understand business management and participate meaningfully in organizations to enhance effectiveness and create wealth and opportunities.
2. Globalization and the internet have transformed management education, allowing for online and international education that reaches more diverse audiences.
3. Management education plays an important role in India's progress by developing skilled managers and leaders, though there are still issues like shortages of qualified faculty and resources that present challenges.
The document introduces Project Based Development (PBD) and the iSPEAD solution as an innovative approach for driving employee engagement and development through meaningful projects. It discusses that PBD is more effective than traditional training as it uses real work issues to promote critical thinking and skills application. iSPEAD provides a structured framework and resources to implement PBD, including self-assessment, project selection, coaching, and review. The goal is to align development with organizational needs through challenging assignments that accelerate performance and engagement.
2021 to 2022 Second Annual Webinar Series: Leadership for EquityCatherine McCullough
Hosted in partnership with Council of Ontario Directors of Education, Canadian Association of School System Administrator and The Learning Partnership.
By popular demand, we will continue to offer this accessible, virtual learning opportunity for senior educational leaders across Canada as we begin our 2021/2022 school year.
This leadership series continues to be built on evidence-based research, problem based learning, professional publications, and practical strategies for leading. The speakers and topics have been chosen based on your feedback and the urgent leadership priorities you identified.
We have intentionally scheduled the first two speakers prior to school opening, and we urge senior leadership teams to participate as a group to inform your collective expertise.
The program will focus on effective approaches and strategies to consider as we return and move forward to optimize support to the students, staff and communities we serve.
Our educational guest experts will focus on practical leadership initiatives to consider implementing within your organization.
The first series consists of three modules, each 90-minutes in duration, delivered online, in an interactive webinar format. Each session connects and builds on the learning from the previous webinar. *All sessions will be recorded and provided to all participants within 48 hour. Valuable resource materials and publications will be provided.
The dates for section two and three will be announced in August 2021, and webinar topics and speakers are subject to change.
Many people appear to object to the approximation of a 'culture of learning.'
Every formal education institution has a culture of its own, which imitates a system of implicit and explicit beliefs about learning.
Learning also has a cultural dimension that is the manner we see and perceive education which may shift depending on situations and environment.
A culture of teaching and learning is collaboratively constructed by students and teachers. It is about their expectations of 'what should be known' and 'who should experience it.'
Creating a Culture of Learning describes the key characteristics of a school with a culture of learning. Such a school possesses a widely shared strong vision, believes in effort-based education, and operates based on selective core values that grow out of the vision. It exercises effective leadership that derives power from trust, celebrates the teaching profession, and empowers teachers to be leaders. The school nourishes a spirit of teamwork among teachers and humanizes education by seeing the school as a people system focused on developing students. It generates motivation to learn and commits to a process of never-ending renewal.
Developing Strategic Leaders using Social Corporate ResponsibilityKevin Rodgers
The document describes a strategic social learning approach to leadership development with four key elements: 1) Individual character profiling and development planning to understand motivations and aspirations. 2) Initial coaching to help understand a "whole self" learning strategy. 3) Group coaching and action learning projects to develop skills through corporate social responsibility projects. 4) Coaching support throughout projects and presentations to share impacts and inspire others. The goal is to develop skills that benefit individuals, organizations, and communities.
The document provides an overview of Think Talent Services' executive coaching model called NEWS. NEWS stands for a development framework that covers Why, Where to, How, and Why Not to help executives broaden their self-understanding, develop in identified areas, and build a coaching culture. The coaching process involves a questionnaire, 3-way meetings, 8-10 sessions over 6-8 months using tools like the 12 Box matrix and Greatness Model. Think Talent promotes the globally tested NEWS method and has alliances in over 40 countries. Customers praise how NEWS helped them clarify career direction and break emotional baggage through its structured yet flexible approach.
Here are some of the bad listening habits I sometimes struggle with and want to improve:
- I sometimes interrupt or try to finish the other person's sentences before they are done speaking.
- On occasion, I make up my mind about what the other person is saying before having all the information.
- At times, I think more about what I want to say in response rather than fully focusing on what the other person is communicating.
The key is being aware of these tendencies and consciously working to avoid them by focusing fully on the other speaker, not interrupting, and reserving judgment until they are finished. Improving listening skills takes practice.
Cornerstone School in Birmingham, Alabama faced challenges of inadequate funding, management, and lack of accreditation until Dr. Nita Carr became executive director in 2007. Over six years, she transformed the school through various initiatives, including using Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument (HBDI) assessments and workshops on Whole Brain thinking for staff. This led the staff to better understand their own and others' thinking preferences, allowing Dr. Carr to realign roles and responsibilities for increased productivity and morale. Whole Brain thinking concepts are now integrated into the school's culture. The initiatives have continued to benefit the school, including preparing for a new high school.
ADHD coaching is an emerging field that aims to help individuals with ADHD achieve their goals through regular check-ins, encouragement, and practical strategies. Coaches focus on time management, organization, motivation, and overcoming daily challenges rather than underlying causes. While research is still limited, coaching shows potential as a supplement to established ADHD treatments. It is important to find a coach with proper training and experience working with ADHD. Coaching differs from therapy in that coaches do not address underlying issues and focus on practical daily living skills rather than problem diagnosis.
The document summarizes the findings of a survey on sustainability leadership. It finds that social entrepreneurs are perceived as the top leaders in advancing sustainability, grabbing "market share" from NGOs. Among corporations, Unilever is seen as a leader after launching their "Sustainable Living Plan". The survey involved 559 sustainability experts globally and examined perceptions of different types of leaders. It also discusses how social entrepreneurs are creating new forms of social and economic value through various business models and approaches.
Coach Profile Jane Keep June 2011 New Photojanekeep
Jane Keep is a freelance coach and facilitator who runs her own coaching practice called the Inner-Heart Esoteric Coaching and Healing Practice. She has over 20 years of experience in human resource management, organizational development, and change management in both public and private sectors. Her coaching approach focuses on facilitating clients to gain self-awareness and build their capacity for self-coaching. She offers coaching services for individuals, teams, and leaders across various areas including life coaching, career development, and performance improvement.
Welcome to our 2015 organisational profile.
We are here to create and innovate. We partner with our clients on inspiring paths of living into their Authentic Self. We work with Individuals, Teams, Companies and Communities who are keen to transform from deep within, keen to impact their environments positively and to work consciously on the share they own in the wellbeing of our world - operating in an abundant exchange - unlocking potential!
Our clientele stretches from top Executives in the corporate arena to inmates in South African Prisons.
COACHING TAKES YOU FROM “HOW TO WOW”
You aspire to achieve specific goals and fulfil your dreams. But working towards goal is not that easy, as you may encounter several how, where, why, when, whom, which etc. questions en-route to success. The inspiration to find solution of these hurdles, odds and rough patches are available through Coaching. The down times can get really down and dishearten you.
Setbacks and disappointments are an integral part of life and there is no escaping them. While you cannot change your circumstances or bypass the hurdles, you can brace yourself up against the difficult times by maintaining a positive & constructive frame of mind and then determine to keep you going against all odds.
When the going gets tough and you are overwhelmed by the rough times, all you need is Coaching to encourage and keep you going. The showcase to inspire the winner in you will do, by unchaining your real potential. Coaching stimuli will lift up your spirits, make you feel high-n-confident and put you back on right action track.
Monika Kaushik is a leading image consultant and personality development practitioner based in Mumbai, India. She has over a decade of experience in fields such as image management, personal development, communication skills, etiquette, and personal grooming. Kaushik's experience spans various regions of India and other parts of the world. She has conducted workshops for many large corporations and organizations. Kaushik uses her unique MEGHDHANUSH model to help clients identify their personality colors and develop customized plans to boost their image and self-actualization. This involves addressing areas like dressing, grooming, etiquette, and confidence. Kaushik conducts both group workshops and individual sessions to transform how clients project themselves.
Genius Baby On Board (GBOB) offers a playgroup licensing program for entrepreneurs to start their own early childhood education business. The program provides a complete curriculum from infant to 4 years old divided into levels, as well as business support, training, and materials. Licensees can choose between package options at different price points and levels to start their playgroup. The business model allows licensees to generate monthly profits from student enrollment fees while benefitting from GBOB's expertise and reputation in early childhood education.
Tuesday 25 June 2013 - AITSL presents an exciting opportunity for school leaders and/or leadership teams to work with internationally regarded researcher & writer Professor Louise Stoll, Institute of Education, University of London. Louise’s expertise in the field of professional learning communities will be the focus of the day’s session, Developing creative professional learning communities within and between schools.
Coaching supervision provides quality control, development of coaching skills, and emotional support for coaches. While most coaches believe supervision is important, only 44% receive it due to cost and availability issues. Supervision structures typically involve reflection on client work, with individual and group formats using discussion, case reviews, and action learning. Supervisors have diverse training, though coaching experience is most valued. Organizations see supervision as improving coaching quality and standards, while coaches view it as skill development.
There are over 140 definitions of motivation that generally refer to the internal and external forces that direct and sustain human behavior toward achieving certain goals. Motivation theories can be categorized as either content theories, which examine factors like needs and drives, or process theories, which describe how needs translate into behaviors. Some major motivation theories discussed include Maslow's hierarchy of needs, Herzberg's two-factor theory, ERG theory, McClelland's acquired needs theory, expectancy theory, and goal-setting theory. Motivation in organizations can be influenced by both intrinsic and extrinsic factors.
The document discusses various aspects of leadership including definitions, types of leaders, leadership styles, theories of leadership, and approaches to leadership. It defines leadership as the ability to influence others towards achieving goals and discusses that leaders can be those in authority, those with charisma or ability, or intellectual leaders. It also outlines different leadership styles like autocratic, democratic, laissez-faire and discusses theories like trait theory, transformational theory, and transactional theory.
Personal & Professional Development Self LearningRichard Docc
This Personnel & Professional Development self managed learning can be helpful in both professional as well as personal life and self managed learning can help in enhancing lifelong development.
The document discusses principles of educational leadership and creating a positive school culture. It defines leadership as the ability to influence and inspire a group to achieve goals through clear communication of a purposeful vision. It identifies five key elements educational leaders can draw on: stating a mission and goals; organizing and inspiring staff; encouraging communication; providing development opportunities; and mobilizing the local community. Each element includes an overview and a leader's personal experience successfully implementing that element in their school.
The document discusses the role and impact of management education in business and society. It covers several topics:
1. Management education is necessary for individuals to understand business management and participate meaningfully in organizations to enhance effectiveness and create wealth and opportunities.
2. Globalization and the internet have transformed management education, allowing for online and international education that reaches more diverse audiences.
3. Management education plays an important role in India's progress by developing skilled managers and leaders, though there are still issues like shortages of qualified faculty and resources that present challenges.
The document introduces Project Based Development (PBD) and the iSPEAD solution as an innovative approach for driving employee engagement and development through meaningful projects. It discusses that PBD is more effective than traditional training as it uses real work issues to promote critical thinking and skills application. iSPEAD provides a structured framework and resources to implement PBD, including self-assessment, project selection, coaching, and review. The goal is to align development with organizational needs through challenging assignments that accelerate performance and engagement.
2021 to 2022 Second Annual Webinar Series: Leadership for EquityCatherine McCullough
Hosted in partnership with Council of Ontario Directors of Education, Canadian Association of School System Administrator and The Learning Partnership.
By popular demand, we will continue to offer this accessible, virtual learning opportunity for senior educational leaders across Canada as we begin our 2021/2022 school year.
This leadership series continues to be built on evidence-based research, problem based learning, professional publications, and practical strategies for leading. The speakers and topics have been chosen based on your feedback and the urgent leadership priorities you identified.
We have intentionally scheduled the first two speakers prior to school opening, and we urge senior leadership teams to participate as a group to inform your collective expertise.
The program will focus on effective approaches and strategies to consider as we return and move forward to optimize support to the students, staff and communities we serve.
Our educational guest experts will focus on practical leadership initiatives to consider implementing within your organization.
The first series consists of three modules, each 90-minutes in duration, delivered online, in an interactive webinar format. Each session connects and builds on the learning from the previous webinar. *All sessions will be recorded and provided to all participants within 48 hour. Valuable resource materials and publications will be provided.
The dates for section two and three will be announced in August 2021, and webinar topics and speakers are subject to change.
Many people appear to object to the approximation of a 'culture of learning.'
Every formal education institution has a culture of its own, which imitates a system of implicit and explicit beliefs about learning.
Learning also has a cultural dimension that is the manner we see and perceive education which may shift depending on situations and environment.
A culture of teaching and learning is collaboratively constructed by students and teachers. It is about their expectations of 'what should be known' and 'who should experience it.'
Creating a Culture of Learning describes the key characteristics of a school with a culture of learning. Such a school possesses a widely shared strong vision, believes in effort-based education, and operates based on selective core values that grow out of the vision. It exercises effective leadership that derives power from trust, celebrates the teaching profession, and empowers teachers to be leaders. The school nourishes a spirit of teamwork among teachers and humanizes education by seeing the school as a people system focused on developing students. It generates motivation to learn and commits to a process of never-ending renewal.
Developing Strategic Leaders using Social Corporate ResponsibilityKevin Rodgers
The document describes a strategic social learning approach to leadership development with four key elements: 1) Individual character profiling and development planning to understand motivations and aspirations. 2) Initial coaching to help understand a "whole self" learning strategy. 3) Group coaching and action learning projects to develop skills through corporate social responsibility projects. 4) Coaching support throughout projects and presentations to share impacts and inspire others. The goal is to develop skills that benefit individuals, organizations, and communities.
The document provides an overview of Think Talent Services' executive coaching model called NEWS. NEWS stands for a development framework that covers Why, Where to, How, and Why Not to help executives broaden their self-understanding, develop in identified areas, and build a coaching culture. The coaching process involves a questionnaire, 3-way meetings, 8-10 sessions over 6-8 months using tools like the 12 Box matrix and Greatness Model. Think Talent promotes the globally tested NEWS method and has alliances in over 40 countries. Customers praise how NEWS helped them clarify career direction and break emotional baggage through its structured yet flexible approach.
This document provides an overview of coaching in the nonprofit sector. It defines coaching as a confidential process where a coach provides customized support to nonprofit leaders over a limited period of time to help them make conscious decisions and take actions that will help their organizations succeed. Coaching is presented as a way to increase self-awareness and management skills for nonprofit leaders, as well as provide a safe space for reflection. While still emerging, coaching is seen as an effective tool for leadership development that can contribute to both individual leader growth and organizational success when implemented strategically.
Coaching can be seen as a basic process which aids individuals in maximizing their potentials and their performance. There are three main types of coaching: intervention, skills-based, and development coaching. The coaching process typically begins with creating a vision for the future, then developing an action plan and timeline to accomplish that vision, followed by an evaluation of results. The Corporate Learning Institute uses an "On Target" approach to coaching which guides participants through clarifying goals and vision, strengthening their approach, and ensuring they stay on target.
Coaching can be applied in various contexts to help individuals improve performance, develop skills, advance their careers, and achieve personal goals. Some key applications of coaching include:
1) Performance coaching to enhance an individual's effectiveness and productivity at work through methods from business and sports psychology.
2) Skills coaching focused on developing the core abilities needed for an employee's role through tailored, adaptive programs.
3) Career coaching to provide feedback and support career exploration and goal-setting.
4) Personal or life coaching to facilitate significant life changes by exploring aspirations and needs.
Personal And Professional Accountability And Opportunities...Dani Cox
Here are the key strengths and weaknesses of leadership based on the information provided:
Strengths of Kirsty's leadership:
- She uses aspects of multiple leadership theories including path-goal theory, LMX theory and transformational leadership theory which allows her to adapt her style to different situations and motivate employees.
- She has built strong relationships with employees through LMX theory which has helped the company succeed.
- Her vision and motivation of employees as seen in transformational leadership theory has also contributed to the company's success.
Potential weaknesses of Kirsty's leadership:
- Relying too heavily on specific theories could limit her flexibility to changing internal and external environments. Strict adherence to theories may not work in all scenarios
The document outlines the AIESEC Experience Pipeline which involves several steps and opportunities for learning and development. It discusses five key principles of the AIESEC Experience: 1) taking an active role in your own learning and that of others, 2) challenging your worldview, 3) developing meta-cognition and personal reflection skills, 4) increasing practical and theoretical knowledge, and 5) creating a network of contacts from around the world. The principles are meant to guide participants' experience and facilitate learning through various activities and roles within the AIESEC program.
You don’t know what you want, and you’re either stuck in a job you hate or still figuring out what you want to do with your life. You’ve been daydreaming about doing something crazy, but you feel paralyzed by indecision. You constantly compare yourself to your friends who are of your age.
If your mind is occupied with similar thoughts then give yourself an opportunity to get inspired, receive thoughtful answers to your key questions from Leadership expert Anil Sachdev - founder & CEO of School of Inspired Leadership (SOIL).
Key Questions Answered
How do I know if I need higher education at this stage of my career?
How can higher education help me in building a career of my choice?
If higher education is the answer, then what kind of education?
How to select a ‘good’ institution and how to define ‘good’?
What’s the first step and how do I take it?
The document describes the Jobsis Mentoring Model project in Finland which aims to help social and health care professionals find employment through job rotation and mentoring. The mentoring model involves pairing experienced employees with less experienced mentees over a 14 week practical training period. Evaluation found that the majority of mentees and mentors felt the mentoring relationship and model were effective learning tools and over 80% of mentees achieved their learning goals. 12 out of 17 mentees found work in social or health care after completing the training and mentoring.
This document provides information about guidance counseling. It defines guidance as helping students set worthwhile goals and develop abilities. It discusses the objectives, types (educational, vocational, personal), tools, advantages, principles, and need for guidance. Guidance aims to help students understand themselves, make informed choices, and adjust to their environment. It is a continuous process that should be provided to all individuals during different stages of development.
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A slideshow with some tips to deal with digital risks.
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Chapter wise All Notes of First year Basic Civil Engineering
Syllabus
Chapter-1
Introduction to objective, scope and outcome the subject
Chapter 2
Introduction: Scope and Specialization of Civil Engineering, Role of civil Engineer in Society, Impact of infrastructural development on economy of country.
Chapter 3
Surveying: Object Principles & Types of Surveying; Site Plans, Plans & Maps; Scales & Unit of different Measurements.
Linear Measurements: Instruments used. Linear Measurement by Tape, Ranging out Survey Lines and overcoming Obstructions; Measurements on sloping ground; Tape corrections, conventional symbols. Angular Measurements: Instruments used; Introduction to Compass Surveying, Bearings and Longitude & Latitude of a Line, Introduction to total station.
Levelling: Instrument used Object of levelling, Methods of levelling in brief, and Contour maps.
Chapter 4
Buildings: Selection of site for Buildings, Layout of Building Plan, Types of buildings, Plinth area, carpet area, floor space index, Introduction to building byelaws, concept of sun light & ventilation. Components of Buildings & their functions, Basic concept of R.C.C., Introduction to types of foundation
Chapter 5
Transportation: Introduction to Transportation Engineering; Traffic and Road Safety: Types and Characteristics of Various Modes of Transportation; Various Road Traffic Signs, Causes of Accidents and Road Safety Measures.
Chapter 6
Environmental Engineering: Environmental Pollution, Environmental Acts and Regulations, Functional Concepts of Ecology, Basics of Species, Biodiversity, Ecosystem, Hydrological Cycle; Chemical Cycles: Carbon, Nitrogen & Phosphorus; Energy Flow in Ecosystems.
Water Pollution: Water Quality standards, Introduction to Treatment & Disposal of Waste Water. Reuse and Saving of Water, Rain Water Harvesting. Solid Waste Management: Classification of Solid Waste, Collection, Transportation and Disposal of Solid. Recycling of Solid Waste: Energy Recovery, Sanitary Landfill, On-Site Sanitation. Air & Noise Pollution: Primary and Secondary air pollutants, Harmful effects of Air Pollution, Control of Air Pollution. . Noise Pollution Harmful Effects of noise pollution, control of noise pollution, Global warming & Climate Change, Ozone depletion, Greenhouse effect
Text Books:
1. Palancharmy, Basic Civil Engineering, McGraw Hill publishers.
2. Satheesh Gopi, Basic Civil Engineering, Pearson Publishers.
3. Ketki Rangwala Dalal, Essentials of Civil Engineering, Charotar Publishing House.
4. BCP, Surveying volume 1
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CONTENT
Introduction 4
For who is this method? 5
Sources and set up 5
Aims 6
Expected results 6
Coaching people with a need for care 6
Goals and purposes and how to measure them: the Self Reliance Matrix 7
What is self-reliance? 7
What do I measure with the self-reliance-Matrix? 8
The self reliance scheme 8
Visualisation of the self reliance matrix 9
KNOWLEDGE OF THE SOCIAL COACH AND AREAS OF ACTIVITIES: skills, attitudes, resources 10
Attitudes 10
Skills 11
Resources 11
Work processes / Workbook 11
Starting the job: Intake 11
The coaching plan 12
Evaluation and adaptation 14
Involving the network 16
Motivation 16
Resources: The Sociogram 17
Reporting and keeping an overview 21
Obstacles 34
The ‘Inner Game’ 34
Motivation and lack of motivation 35
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INTRODUCTION
Help and care is something that is very basic in human life. Evolutionary spoken, human beings
would have no chance to survive if care was not part of our nature. Human beings tend to live in
groups for ten thousands, maybe hundred thousands of years. The human being is wired for
interdependence, which means that we work together and help each other to survive.
The last decade empathy is one of the new “discoveries” in human and animal behavior and a hype
in neuroscience1
. Latest discoveries show that animals, especially the closer related animals, also
show empathy, and in cases the tendency to behave -as we call it- morally and help the weak or
vulnerable2
.
But is coaching the same as helping? Coaching seems something different than helping. Coaching
seems to be a mix of interactive teaching, advising, counselling and mentoring, but it is none of them
fully. The term ‘coaching’ means many different things to different people, but is generally about
helping individuals to solve their own problems and improve their own performance.
Method: Coaching Mentoring Counselling
The Question: How? What? Why?
The Focus: The present The future The past
Aim: Improving skills
Developing and committing to
learning goals
Overcoming psychological
barriers
Objective: Raising competence Opening horizons Building self-understanding
Based on the work of: Clutterbuck, D. & Schneider, S. (1998)
Put simply, coaching is a process that aims to improve performance and focuses on the ‘here and
now’ rather than on the distant past or future.
While there are many different models of coaching, here we are not considering the ‘coach as
expert’ but, instead, the coach as a facilitator of learning.
1
http://herseninstituut.nl/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/EmpathicBrainSampler-1.pdf
2
https://www.ted.com/talks/frans_de_waal_do_animals_have_morals/transcript
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There is a huge difference between teaching someone and helping them to learn. In coaching,
fundamentally, the coach is helping the individual to improve their own performance: in other
words, helping them to learn.
Good coaches believe that the individual always has the answer to their own problems but
understands that they may need help to find the answer.
Coaching is unlocking a person’s potential to maximise their own performance. It is helping them to
Context of the partner Countries
The innovative aspect of this guide is its ability to effectively train the coaching skills in an
environmental awareness.
The innovative aspect of this guide lies in enhancing the coaching skills regarding the environment of
the coachee.
The innovative aspect of this guide is its ability to effectively train the Social Coach, giving to the
reader concrete tools and useful tips able to make him a professional in the social field.
This guide has been realized as final product of the Strategic Partnership for innovation “We train
activity - social coaching as method of work with the disabled” coordinated by ALPI SOCIAL
INNOVATIONS (Poland) and realized in partnership with ASSOCIAZIONE UNIAMOCI ONLUS (ITALY)
and MELIUS ZORG BV (Holland). The key element of the project is to develop an innovative program
of working with the people with intellectual disability based on the method of individual social
coaching. The main result of the project are the development and implementation of an innovative
social coaching programme, an e-learning course for social coaches, a platform dedicated to the
social coaches, selection and training of 9 social coaches.
The project was co-funded by the Erasmus+ programme of the European union.
FOR WHO IS THIS METHOD?
This method is designed for formal (Institutional) coaches, and for people that deliver informal
coaching to people with a need for care. You, as a reader, are perhaps a counseller, or pedagogue, or
family member. Or perhaps you are a fulltime coach. This book appeals to your role as a coach. Since
we believe that people only come to the best performance with the support of their social
environment, we hope that we offer you the insights and tools that can help you make the best of
your coaching role.
SOURCES AND SET UP
The basis of this guide is eclectical; We use different methods, combined, as we know from experience work
well. The methods we use are derived from the self reliance matrix, motivational theorie, problem solving
approach, supported employment and
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AIMS
The aims of this method are:
Self-reliance of the coachee
Making the work for people with a care need (i.g. people with a disability) easier and more effective
Contribute to the development and innovation on care for people with a need for care or support
Changing the way we look at people with a need for care
Improving the skills of care workers (formal and informal)
EXPECTED RESULTS
The results this method offers:
An easy method for professional or informal care workers
A comprehensible method for the person who needs care or support
A flexible method, to be used in different contexts and for different target groups
COACHING PEOPLE WITH A NEED FOR CARE
Coaching is an emerging method that “has been broadly defined to describe a goal-focused process
of assisting individuals and companies to improve personal and professional achievement (Kilburg,
1996; Nowack, 2003)”. The main feature of coaching is its practice focus and a very huge variety of
coaching exists, covering different areas of intervention: there are, among the others, business
coaches, executive coaches, leadership coaches, career coaches, life coaches, performance or family
and parenting coaches. So “coaching assists with a wide range of objectives, which can include
developing leadership skills, realizing life dreams (for example, becoming a business owner, learning
a musical instrument), achieving lifestyle changes (for example, increasing family time, dating more
frequently), professional advancement (for example, getting a raise, promotion, increasing sales,
achieving tenure), enhancing personal development (for example, educational advancement,
developing public speaking skills), achieving financial order, or improving internet marketing”.3
“As a method, coaching typically involves assisting clients in articulating what they want to achieve
and setting goals in pursuit of that achievement. Another primary role of coaches is to hold clients
accountable for achieving their goals and to help them adjust goals as necessary”.4
3
Coaching and Social Work: Challenges and Concerns By Caspi, Jonathan on the ACADEMIC JOURNAL ARTICLE Social Work
https://www.questia.com/library/journal/1G1-148764836/coaching-and-social-work-challenges-and-concerns
4
http://www.socialworktoday.com/archive/111516p18.shtml
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The path to autonomy and social inclusion of people with disability usually require a global support
able to increase the levels of functioning in all the areas of life, from the social abilities and network,
to the areas of independent living and working. At national level the professionals working in the
social field have the opportunity to use several effective methods that shows how to develop the
client functioning on specific areas of life. The aim of this manual is to provide a method that will
allow to train very diverse profiles of people working or wishing to work in the social field about how
to take charge of the client with mental disability globally, being able to accompany the client during
a path of development that will have a strong impact both on the level of activities (related to tasks
and actions by an individual) and participation (involvement in a life situation) and on the level of
environmental factors and determining a global improvement of the level of the person’s
functioning. “Social coaching” adhere to the integrated approach and the multidimensional model of
functioning and disability of ICF and represents a complete programme originating from the meeting
and exchange of good practices among professionals working with people with disabilities in 4
different organizations based in Holland, Italy and Poland who combined their past experiences and
know-how and a new and global programme, that was later validated and generalized so that it can
be considered as a programme applicable at European level. This innovative programme wants to
apply the principles of traditional coaching to the work with people with mental disability,
emphasizing on a strengths-based, nonjudgmental, client-driven approach with clients (main
principles of the social work) but focusing on the client's present state and where the client wants to
go in the future (as suggested by traditional coaching) with much more action-oriented interventions
than those with social work clients and with a real global approach.
GOALS AND PURPOSES AND HOW TO MEASURE THEM: THE SELF RELIANCE MATRIX
In the method we use we have to use clear goals and a concrete way to measure the purposes and
goals. For this we use the Self Reliance Matrix, a tool that is developed by the municipalities of
Amsterdam and Rotterdam, to measure in a simple way, the self reliance of people.
What is self-reliance?
You can be called self-sufficient if you have realized an acceptable level of functioning in the areas
(domains) that you, and everyone in the society, in daily life have to deal with.
Self-reliance is not ' alone-reliance'. In order to maintain or reach an acceptable level of functioning
you can, or you should, use the skills, expertise, resources and capabilities of others. 'Others' include
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family and friends, but also aid workers can help in maintaining or achieving an acceptable level of
functioning.
Self-reliance is asking for others’ help when you need it to be able to maintain or achieve an
acceptable level of functioning. You should not just ask for help to the person who can help you, you
should also ask your question so that the other understands how he/she can help you to be or
become self-sufficient. In addition, you should ask for help on time, if you wait for someone else to
notice your problems and ask help for you, you are not self-reliant.
We define self-reliance in general as: To realize by yourself an acceptable level of functioning on the
important areas of daily life. If necessary with the right help at the time that a decrease of your
performance level takes place or threatens to take place, which you can’t prevent or fix by yourself.
What do I measure with the self-reliance-Matrix?
With the self-reliance-Matrix (SRM) you measure how self-reliant someone is. All information about
the functioning of a person does the SRM show in a judgment about the degree of self-reliance of
that person at that moment.
This degree of self-reliance is a result. How self-reliant someone is in terms of a score on the SRM is a
result, the consequence of all sorts of factors and processes that had led to the degree of self-
reliance at this moment. With the SRM you only look at the result and you disregard the causes.
There are two reasons for this. First, causes are not always visible and difficult to map (for example,
personality, culture, motivation). Second, the way in which these factors affect each other and the
result (self-reliance) is very complicated. You evaluate the self-reliance without saying anything
about the way it has become this.
The degree of self-reliance is a snapshot. With the SRM you measure how self-reliant someone now
is. You take a picture of someone’s functioning. In general you can disregard information about a
person’s functioning longer than 30 days ago.
Just as you take the history not in your rating, it is also important that you don’t base your rating on
the future. You see it functioning at this time, and you expect that this functioning will probably lead
to another level of functioning, but you don’t know this for sure. Your expectation of what is likely to
happen is different from other evaluators. Moreover, all kinds of factors have influence on what
would probably happen. In your assessment of the degree of self-reliance at this moment, you only
assume from what you see. Only what is happening now counts.
THE SELF RELIANCE SCHEME
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VISUALISATION OF THE SELF RELIANCE MATRIX
For a lot of people, not only the cognitive impaired, it can be helpfull to visualise aspects of the way
of working, for instance to offer the self reliance matrix in a diagram:
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KNOWLEDGE OF THE SOCIAL COACH AND AREAS OF ACTIVITIES: SKILLS, ATTITUDES, RESOURCES
The social coach is a “change trainer”, a professional able to guide the person towards his/her
desired future in the personal, social and professional areas; he takes care of the growth and
wellbeing of the person globally in a perspective of autonomy, empowerment and full self-
realization. The role of the social coach is to be a mentor and facilitator - a guide and role model. The
potential social coach’s individual experiences and qualifications may vary but he should have self-
awareness, knowledge of life-skills, personal attributes and values, which he brings to the role.
ATTITUDES
Among the attitudes that a social coach should, the following need to be mentioned:
- Willingness to help
- Recognize and deal with emotions
- Pragmatism
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- Flexibility
- Empathy
SKILLS
Furthermore a social coach should have or develop some specific skills:
- Ability to motivate
- Ability to identify goals and pursue them
- Ability to plan concrete action plans
- Ability to support people in discovering and train their untapped potential
- Active listening skills
- Communication skills
- Ability to work in team
- Organizational skills
- Cultural sensitivity
- Networking skills
- Ability to cope with stress and conflicts
RESOURCES
Key to the philosophy of becoming a social coach is the notion of self-awareness, openness and self-
development. Personal skills such as listening, observing, objective assessment, communicating,
leading, etc. are an integral part of the development and training of each social coach, as well as
familiarisation with the tools which they will apply in planning, empowering, mentoring, facilitating
and evaluating the personal, social and job development of people with mental disability.
The following chapters will illustrate in detail the specificities of the “Social coaching”, building that
background of knowledge needed to be a social coach.
WORK PROCESSES / WORKBOOK
STARTING THE JOB: INTAKE
The intake consists of a meeting between coach and coachee. The coachee is preferably
accompanied by a family member, or otherwise closely involved person. The goals of the meeting
are:
1. To make contact, search for the “click”
2. To give information on the coaching program
3. To have an assessment of the coachee
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Ad 1. Make sure you have enough time for the meeting, and that you are in a place that is calm and
quiet. The relationship between coach and coachee is not as formal as a relationship between a
counsellor and a patient, and is not a teacher – student relationship. Therefore, it is good to thrive
for an equal relationship, where it is okay to show yourself, as you would in any other working
relationship. The basic attitude is researching. Try to be amazed and grateful of the the insight the
coachee, and his / her relative offers to you, and be non judgemental.
Ad 2. Be specific about the program:
When does it start, when does it end
Who can be involved on behalf of the coachee?
What are the goals?
What does the coachee do when he / she does not feel it is going well, or he / she has complaints that
are not easy to bring up?
How often do you meet?
How often do you evaluate?
Ad 3. The assessment is, next to the own observation, based on the assessment form (attachment).
THE COACHING PLAN
Six steps for the coach
Primarily coaching enables identification and development of the client's social and professional
potential as well as shaping the possibilities of taking effective actions and fully using client’s
resources. It is also a tool for shaping the skills such as: solving difficult interpersonal problems,
focusing on priorities, broadening self-awareness, as well as overcoming internal limitations and
building self-confidence. Coaching itself is a process that is characterized by a special discipline. It
involves setting a goal, applying appropriate tools to identify socio-professional potential, showing
directions of development and verifying the progress according to the adopted criteria. It is not a
spontaneous reaction to a recognized client’s individual problem, but a carefully defined six-step
procedure, which is determined by a sequence of regular meetings.
First step:
Establishing the scope and goals of coaching.
In this step, should be taken all the actions to determine the purpose and scope of coaching.
There can be used:
• information from the family or information collected during the interview with the client;
• data on the functioning of the client (various types of assessment).
Here, should be established: the action plan, the measures of coaching effectiveness and the
principles of project management (logistics, applied diagnostic tools, the scope of information
transferred). The result is the agreement between the client and the coach on the proposed action
plan and measures of the effectiveness of the coaching process. A signed coaching program.
Second step:
The evaluation process.
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The client's assessment can be carried out using various methods and tools adapted to the client's
needs. The aim of the assessment is to determine the difficulties that the client faces in fulfilling
his social and professional role, which may result from his attitudes, motivations, ways of behavior
and influence on other people in his environment. The assessment allows to determine what
competencies should be developed during the proces of coaching. The previous achievements and
skills of the client are also evaluated. The assessment is meant to make the client aware of the
factors that determine the success in fulfilling social roles and what are his/her strengths and
weaknesses in this field. The result is defining the strengths and weaknesses of the client and the
choice of competence for coaching.
Third step:
Action plan.
At this stage, an individual development program is prepared, taking into account the specific
needs of the client. This program should provide the client with challenging experience and give
the opportunity to develop his/her skills. The implementation of this program should result in both
personal and professional development. The action plan should include a way of measuring
progress, according to which we will assess changes that have occurred for a longer period (3-12
months). Improvement of family relations, increasing self-esteem, undertaking professional
activity, increasing social activity or autonomy could be such a measure. The catalog of measures is
prepared on the basis of the Self-Reliance Matrix. The result should be establishing of a
development program along with measures to assess its effectiveness.
Fourth step:
Presentation of the results of the evaluation and the action plan
Signing the Coach – Client concract.
Fifth step:
Implementation of action plan and progress monitoring
The client, depending on the needs (but at least once a month) meets with the coach for 6-12
months. . Between meetings, he fulfills tasks resulting from the action plan. . During meetings with
the coach, the client should analyze: what he/she succeded in and why, but also what was
problematic. Together with the coach, he develops methods of dealing with problems and then
tries them out during the next tasks. This method is used until the measurable goals of the
coaching process are achieved. During the whole process, the coach is always available to the
client through ongoing telephone and / or email communication, as well as two-hour personal
meetings every two weeks or every month. The whole process is documented. The result is the
improvement of the client in terms of selected competences.
Sixth step:
Evaluation of the effectiveness of the coaching process
After completing the coaching process, an assessment of its effectiveness in the following fields is
carried out: obtaining measurable effects of coaching by the client, as well as the effectiveness of
the work of the coach and the methods of work he uses. The source of information can be
interviews conducted with family, friends, colleagues or the assessment of acquired skills using the
tool: Self Reliance Matrix.
The result is the assessment of the effectiveness of the coaching process.
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EVALUATION AND ADAPTATION
Assessment of action plan effectiveness and adaptation of the further action plan
The benefits of the assessment from the coach's perspective.
By monitoring the effectiveness of his/her own coaching programs, the coach obtains
feedback on whether the actions that are taken in relation to clients are right or not. The
coach can quickly correct inefficient actions, if necessary.
Knowledge about the positive effects of participation in coaching programs is a guide for the
clients to their own development.
The benefits from client’s perspective.
Monitoring of the coaching program allows to increase the client's motivation to keep on
working.
Systematic evaluation allows to quickly respond to any disruptions in the coaching program
and, if necessary, to quickly correct it. For example, it turns out that the participant of the
coaching program does not see any benefits from taking part in the program - we can decide
whether we should finish the process, modify it or continue it in its current form. When we
are aware of the effects, it allows us to clearly demonstrate how coaching accomplishes the
client's goals.
Efficiency test methods.
When it comes to testing methods of coaching effectiveness, we will not come up with anythin new.
The same methods apply as in the case of other activities aimed at development, education etc. All
methods can be reduced to three basic ones:
questionnaire,
interview,
observation.
Using these three methods, we examine the clients, their family members, partners, friends or
colleagues.
Models of coaching effectiveness testing.
THE KIRKPATRICK MODEL
The Kirkpatrick model is one of the most popular efficiency assessment model used to evaluate the
effectiveness of training and development processes. We can use the same model to test the
effectiveness of coaching programs. The model suggests testing of effectiveness on 4 levels: reaction,
education, changes in behavior, business effects.
Level 1. Testing the coaching effectiveness at the reaction level.
This is the level at which we check to what extent the coaching program met the expectations of the
program participant - how many goals were achieved, were the methods used by the coach useful,
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what the coach was like in the coaching relationship, what helped, what bothered the client in the
process.
The most frequently used methods for testing effectiveness at the reaction level are: questionnaires
and interviews.
Examples of several questions from the reaction level:
1. How would you rate the coaching program in which you participated?
2. Which coach interventions were the most and the least useful?
3. On a scale from 1 to 10, rate if the coach was:
o supporting...
o challenging...
o involved...
Level 2. Testing the coaching effectiveness at the level of education.
This level focuses on checking what the client has learned by participating in the coaching program.
When it comes to learning we mean- new skills, strategies, tools and resources to which the client
has gained access.
At this level, we use all three evaluation methods: questionnaires, interviews and observations. We
can ask the client what he has learned. What is more the coach has the opportunity to observe
changes in client’s behavior. Examples of several questions from the level of education:
1. What new did you learn thanks to participation in the coaching process?
2. What new skills have you developed?
3. Did you find out something new about yourself?
4. What new resources have you identified in your environment?
Level 3. Testing the coaching effectiveness at the level of behavior.
At this level, we analyze what changes have taken place in the way the client functions in the real
world. This level refers to activities that take place outside of coaching sessions. We ask about what
the client started or stopped doing. We ask how he modified the strategies of his actions.
In coaching, we most often test effectiveness at level 3 using questionnaires and interviews with the
client himself, if the coach makes the assessment. In this case the Self Reliance MATRIX 2103 is a
useful tool.
Examples of several questions from the level of behavior:
1. What new activities have you implemented in your daily activities?
2. Which of the new skills are the most useful for you?
3. What have you changed in your time management as a result of participating in the coaching
program?
4. Which of the solutions was the most difficult to implement in your position?
Level 4. Testing the coaching effectiveness at the level of professional effects.
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At this level, we check to what extent the coaching program influenced the fulfillment of the
assumed professional or financial goals. In this case, we are interested in the concrete, measurable
business effect of the program.
Level 4 is the most important for the client, he cares about it the most. At this level, the basic
difficulty in evaluation is the difficulty in proving that the general development was achieved thanks
to coaching. This difficulty is related to the fact that most often the tested indicator is influenced by
many factors.
The best method of testing effectiveness at level 4, which would allow to control other factors
affecting the general development indicator that is examined, is experimantal. It involves the
selection of two homogeneous units (homogeneous means similar in terms of key characteristics)
and one of them is the subject of coaching. The other unit is the so-called control group. We observe
whether units that were similar at the beginning of the experiment are significantly different from
each other after the coaching program. Introduction of the control group allows us to control other
factors affecting the indicator of general development that is examined. Due to the fact that these
other factors affect the control and experimental group at the same time, the potential difference in
the size of indicators can only be an effect of the coaching program being implemented.
INVOLVING THE NETWORK
MOTIVATION
Human beings can be proactive and engaged or, alternatively, passive and alienated, largely as a
function of the social conditions in which they develop and function. Accordingly, research guided by
self-determination theory has focused on the social–contextual conditions that facilitate versus
forestall the natural processes of self-motivation and healthy psychological development.
Specifically, factors have been examined that enhance versus undermine intrinsic motivation, self-
regulation, and well-being. The findings have led to the postulate of three innate psychological
needs—competence, autonomy, and relatedness—which when satisfied yield enhanced self-
motivation and mental health and when thwarted lead to diminished motivation and well-being. Also
considered is the significance of these psychological needs and processes within domains such as
health care, education, work, sport, religion, and psychotherapy.
Being motivated or motivated, we can place in a continuum of totally unmotivated (a motivation),
through external motivation to highly motivated and interested (intrinsic motivation) (Deci & Ryan,
2002).
The extent to which someone feels that he can decide what he does, and the extent to which you
can regulate yourself or not, play an important part. Schematically, it looks like this:
External regulation - you do something because of reward or punishment.
Introjected regulation - You do something not to feel guilty or to get some kind of confirmation.
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Identified regulation - self-determination, giving direction because you have a personal interest, you
are aware of the purpose, the usefulness of something.
Integrated regulation - this corresponds to personal goals, fits into what people think is important and
has a lot of similarity with intrinsic regulation / motivation.
Intrinsic regulation - you are interested in it fits personal goals and things that you find very important.
With each type of motivation, the extent to which a person has the feeling of making choices, plays
an important role. As someone else feels that there is a certain space for their own input, own
strategies or interests, the more they will be willing to use.
In intrinsic motivation, there is an ideal situation: you do something because it is your interest
because you feel good or because it is something you want. It's your choice and you can get started
as you like. This is a form of motivation that is sometimes difficult to achieve in coaching, but it is
what we aim for. In coaching, forms of external motivation play a role: the coachee goes to action
under the influence of the environment. An environment that, in the case of the coachee, is for a
part arranged by the coach (see also Chapter Sociogram and social resources).
RESOURCES: THE SOCIOGRAM
SOCIOGRAM AND HOW TO USE IT FOR THE CLIENT’S ASSESSMENT
A sociogram is a graphic representation of the person’s social links: a graph drawing that plots the structure of
interpersonal relations in a group situation. It allows to gather information which will help to understand the
person’s life experience and behaviour but also to make the person itself aware of where to find support; it is
usefull to plan an effective and more adequate intervention.
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While the genogram gives us precious information about the composition of the family and the interactions
and influences between generations, the sociogram shows also the nature of the relationships within a family
and those with the exterior environment such as health and education services, leisure time activities, work,
friends or place in the extended family and social groups, which may be very useful for a social caoching
programme. A practical and concrete way is to use the sociogram of the familial attachment group and the
targeted sociogram. Both personal and professional relationships are taken into account. They may involve
principally the members of the family (grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, nephews etc.), friends and
neighbours, supervisors and work colleagues, school personnel or classmates. But it is also possible to establish
more general ties with various institutions such as the workplace, health services, leisure time services, etc.
Likewise, according to our needs, this strategy can become more analytical, in which case it takes the form of a
“targeted sociogram”.
A sociogram can reveal the group dynamic surrounding the person in different kinds of groups:
- belonging group: a family, with parents who protect the person, a family circle and a specific
environment, with which, in one way or another, the person maintains a lifelong tie.
- reference group: the persons, groups or organisations which serve as role models for the person’s
moral, religious or political conduct.
- functional group: persons connected because of a professional function, such as worker, nurse,
teacher, student or other;
- affinity group: it is concerned with the persons who associate by choice.
Another objective of the sociogram is to reveal in a concrete and specific manner the type of relationship
which a person has with each family member and with the different groups to which he belongs. This enables
the coach to understand the strengths and weaknesses of the person’s support network. The intensity of the
ties is indicated by a code of lines:
- a dotted line indicates a weak relationship and as the dots get weaker, the relationship is weaker.
- a white dotted line means that the relationship is almost non-existent.
- a single line shows a good bond; two lines a closer bond and three lines a relationship which is even
more important.
- A line with a slash represents a difficulty.
- A broken line or with two slashes signifies a rupture, while a zigzag line reveals a conflict
- an arrow indicates unilateral relationship, es. the person feels an attachment to the indicated person
or group but this is not reciprocal. But the arrow can also indicate a particular responsibility or
inversely, for example, the case of a daughter who takes care of her mother.
The coachee, in the gram, is indicated by a double circle, a circle within a square or his name is written in
letters of a different colour.
SOME EXAMPLES
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The family group
Legenda: The coachee’s family is dysfunctional. The relationship between Mother and Father is not very good
whereas the relationship between Mother and her son (the coachee’s brother) is very good and is confluent
with her other son (coachee). The relationship between Father and Coachee is conflicting but is good with his
other son. The relationship between the two brothers, is not very good. *
*In the sociogram the terms “mother”, “coachee” etc. Has to be replaced with real names.
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Targeted sociogram – interaction with functional groups
Legenda: We notice that the coachee rejected by his neighbours, that he has a very strong, probably
dependent relationship with work collegues, a conflicting relationship with his gym mates and that his ties with
the clients of the service are just about non-existent.
Creation of the sociogram
The sociogram has to be created in partnership with the coachee, in an environment of empathetic confidence.
The use of questions is the major method, but one must avoid that this quest for information becomes an
inquest. Everything should take place in a climate of comprehensive empathy where the person is first of all
informed of the objectives and the process of this approach and is convinced that the coach is there to help.
Accordingly to the aim of the programme for that specific client it is possible to choose a different focus for the
sociogram.
It could be useful to review the sociogram with the coachee at midterm and at the end of the programme to
underline some changes in his social contest.
Since we see in the above that a crucial factor is the surrounding
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REPORTING AND KEEPING AN OVERVIEW
Do You Know Your Main Purposes and Goals?5
Name :
Date :
Do you know your main purpose to come here?
…………………………………………………..
……………………………………………………
What are your most important goals and how much do you desire them?
0 1 2 3 4 5
………………………………………………….. 0 0 0 0 0 0
…………………………………………………… 0 0 0 0 0 0
…………………………………………………… 0 0 0 0 0 0
How do you score on:
Score 0 1 2 3 4 5
Finances 0 0 0 0 0 0
Explanation ……………………………………………………………
5
This form is part of the forms, developed by “Social Coaching – Erasmus Plus” that use the self Reliance Matrix
and the Resource Group Method combined as a way of assessing and evaluating the development of people
with a need for care , support and/ or coaching. It is part of a set of three forms: 1. Assessment form (for
clients) 2. Assessment form (family, others involved) 3. Evaluation
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Explanation ……………………………………………………………
10
……………………………………………………………
Your Main Purposes and Goals?
11
Name :
Date :
What is your main purpose to have coaching / help ?
…………………………………………………..
……………………………………………………
What are your most important goals and how much do you desire them?
11
This form is part of the forms, developed by “Social Coaching – Erasmus Plus” that use the self Reliance
Matrix and the Resource Group Method combined as a way of assessing and evaluating the development of
people with a need for care , support and/ or coaching. It is part of a set of three forms: 1. Assessment form
(for clients) 2. Assessment form (family, others involved) 3. Evaluation
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Main Purposes and Goals of the coachee17
Name :
Date :
Relation to the coachee :
What do you think should be the main purpose of the coaching / help ?
…………………………………………………..
……………………………………………………
In what way can you stay involved during the coaching ?
17
This form is part of the forms, developed by “Social Coaching – Erasmus Plus” that use the self Reliance
Matrix and the Resource Group Method combined as a way of assessing and evaluating the development of
people with a need for care , support and/ or coaching. It is part of a set of three forms: 1. Assessment form
(for clients) 2. Assessment form (family, others involved) 3. Evaluation
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OBSTACLES
Coaching can meet inner or outer obstacles; here are some of the most common and suggestions
how to tackle them.
THE ‘INNER GAME’
No discussion of coaching would be complete without mention of Timothy Gallwey and his insights
into the ‘inner game’.
Gallwey’s book, The Inner Game of Tennis, revolutionised thinking about coaching. He suggested that
the biggest obstacles to success and achieving potential were internal, not external. His insight was
that coaches could help individuals to improve their game by distracting them from their inner
dialogue and, in particular, the critical voice that said "Not like that! Concentrate on your hands!
Angle it differently!".
By distracting that inner voice, the body could take over. It turns out that often the body has a very
clear idea of what to do when internal dialogues are suppressed. Gallwey used the example of asking
people to focus on the height at which they hit the tennis ball. This activity has no relevance in itself,
but the simple act of focusing on it distracted the inner voice and enabled the capable body to take
over. The individual relaxed and their tennis improved immediately.
Gallwey’s real insight was that this didn’t just apply to tennis, but that individuals generally did have
the answers to their own problems within themselves.
The essential part of coaching, then, is to help people to learn to silence that inner voice and allow
their instincts, or their subconscious, to take over. Sometimes that means distracting it, and
sometimes it’s about exploring the ‘worst case scenario’ and removing the fear.
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MOTIVATION AND LACK OF MOTIVATION
Questions that we can ask ourselves in this regard are: When am I motivated to do something and
what do I really need to be motivated? For example, am I being triggered by another, or is it also
related to something I want? What do I really want and what purpose do I have? How important is it
to me and what do I expect to achieve?
Then ask these questions from the perspective of the coachee.
How do you motivate someone?
When are people motivated and what are the characteristics of a stimulating, motivating coaching
environment or method? The extent to which people feel stimulated to act is personal and has to do
with making their own choices and using their own coping methods. The question for a coach is then:
Can the coachee choose from different approaches and assignments, does the coach allow the
coachee to use his / her own strategies and does the coach encourage this during different phases?
In addition, it has to do with a goal. What do you know the personal goals of the coachee and what
what do you need to achieve that goal.
Finally, having a good relationship with the other, and experiencing the involvement of that person in
you as a person is an important prerequisite for the willingness to act. Do you know where the
coachee is very interested in, or knows a remarkable lot? Do you also know wahat bothers the
coachee? What he / she finds difficult? Do you know when the coachee needs help? And what help
do you offer the coachee?
If motivation seems to be a problem, you can ask yourself the following questions:
Am I clear in my communication with the coachee and others about what the purpose of the coaching
is, what expectations I have and how much effort it can take?
Do I give room for the input from the coachee, and do I offer options connected to the interests of the
coachee?
Do I provide a warm, stimulating environment with attention to and involvement with, the coachee?
The self-determination theory according to Deci & Ryan
In summary, their theory comes down to the following:
If you want to motivate your students (and people in general) as a teacher, make sure that your
students feel that they are
1. to be able to decide (autonomy),
2. The assignments (whether or not to be processed independently) can handle assignments
(competence),
3. Have a number of teachers and / or fellow students and / or parents involved in their or their
learning (relationship).
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The more of that feeling, the stronger the motivation.
That feeling gives you them by as high as possible on the scale towards intrinsic motivation.
¥ So rather appeal to their sense of pride to the parents than to refuse to punish them or reward.
¥ More preferably, they ask for their purpose with school and their learning (fulfilling, passing,
succeeding in the world) and confirming them in order to appeal to their shame or guilt when they
fail to achieve it.
In the end, talking to them about what they think is important in the world and what they want to
put in the future has the most motivating effect. They want to work for that, even if that work is still
stupid school work for the time being.
If you then, as a teacher, see the opportunity to provide them with as much material as possible
study material (differentiate, tailor-made) or chance to make suitable learning materials by
themselves by means of independent research on the internet or elsewhere, then you will
completely. Examples of what has been happening in most schools for a long time and in which you
see that motivation are the profile assignment / sector assignment or writing, for example, a thesis
(if at least they can choose the subject themselves).
Incidentally, it's a misconception that you should leave the students completely loose. They do,
however, need direction and control. However, this can be done in two ways:
¥ The highly unwanted highly controversial authoritarian way in this context (eg 'because I say so')
or in a more autonomic sense-promoting way (explain, eg: "Do you want to succeed with at least six
or so? Then you really need to master this and that!")
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SELF SABOTAGE
What Is Self-Sabotage?
Behavior is said to be self-sabotaging when it creates problems and interferes with long-standing
goals. The most common self-sabotaging behaviors are procrastination, self-medication with drugs or
alcohol, comfort eating, and forms of self-injury such as cutting. These acts may seem helpful in the
moment, but they ultimately undermine us, especially when we engage in them repeatedly.
People aren't always aware of their own self-sabotage as the effects of their behavior may not show up for
some time.
The good news is you can overcome this destructive loop of self-sabotage and move way beyond
your upper limits. You can quickly shift out of your zone of competency and into your zone of genius
once you finally stop stopping yourself.
Follow these five steps and break free from self-sabotage for good!
1. Pinpoint your pattern
As with most nasty habits, self-sabotage often follows a predictable pattern. Awareness of how it
shows up in your life will help you recognize it when it does show up so you can nip it in the bud
quickly.
Think back to previous times you’ve self-sabotaged in your life and business.
How do you self-sabotage?
At one point do you typically stop yourself from reaching the next level of success, happiness, or
wealth?
What are your triggers?
2. Get intimate with your fear
Self-sabotage is really just misdirected self-love. It’s fear of the unknown. Your ego thinks it’s
protecting you from danger, but really it’s just keeping you from being truly happy and fulfilled. Fear
is an emotion most of us want to hide under the rug, and it does nothing to help you move past it.
Digging deep ask yourself the following questions and journal everything that comes up for you.
What am I afraid of?
Why is that scary?
Keep asking why until you get to the root of what’s holding you back.
Then ask: If that happened, could I handle it? And finally ask yourself: Does my fear outweigh my
desires?
For most of us when we really face our fear for what it is, it’s not so scary. We find that we could
handle that worst-case scenario. In some cases we’ve already lived our worst-case scenario and lived
to tell the tale.
When you realize this the fear doesn’t go away completely, but it no longer has the power over you it
once did.
3. Recommit to your goals every day
Set big hairy audacious goals for the year and break them down so that you have 90-day goals,
monthly goals, and weekly goals. Revisit your goals every day. You can even write them down in your
journal as a way to kick-start your motivation in the morning.
Flood your consciousness with your goals and it will be a lot harder to self-sabotage. You’ll recognize
that what you desire is not only possible, but probable. You’ll feel a subconscious shift in the way you
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pursue your goals by doing this one thing.
When you have a bad day let it go. You can always hit that reset button the next day.
4. Do less better
My business coach always tells me that simple creates wealth and she’s absolutely right. Stop
spending hours upon hours doing things that don’t really matter. Ditch the overwhelm and focus
only on the tasks that will get you closer to achieving your goals.
Create a top 3 or top 5 list every day rather than making a crazy long to-do list you’ll never complete
anyway. Estimate how much time each task will take you to complete and set a timer.
Say no to anything that isn’t a priority or delegate it to someone else. There is no shame in asking for
help.
5. Get an accountability partner
It doesn’t have to be lonely at the top. It’s totally normal that as you become happier and more
successful that some of your relationships will change. As you grow, you’ll need to surround yourself
with fellow growers.
The best way to do this is to start a mastermind with like-minded friends. Meet at least once/month
to share your goals, successes, and challenges and keep each other accountable. When self-sabotage
rears its ugly head you’ll have a safe space to process and move through it.
It’s time to stop holding yourself back and start living the life of your dreams. Break free from self-sabotage and
you’ll be operating in your zone of genius in no time. Hello freedom-based living!
TOOLS
THE POWER OF FEEDBACK
Feedback is among the most common features of successful teaching and learning. But there is an
enigma: while feedback is among the most powerful moderators of learning, its effects are among
the most variable. I have spent many years pondering this problem and have been building a model
of feedback that helps to explain how to take full benefits from feedback in the classroom” (Hattie,
2012 blz. 115)
In the pages thereafter, Hattie explains what that model looks like.
My Summary:
Ask questions to formulate their own feedback (self-reflection).
These are the questions:
1. What is your goal (at school, in life)? (possibly in the short term (for example: at least one six for
biology) is better still closer to its own longer term ideal because it has more impact on motivation
(eg: passing, succeeding, medicine and then setting up a hospital in the context of development aid
in Africa)
2. How are you doing now? (What are you doing? Eg: just before a test work is very hard work, still
unsatisfied)
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3. What can / will you / will you do to bring your goal closer? (eg more homework, supervision,
attendance, etc., etc.)
These questions, according to Hattie, should be asked either on three levels:
1. Task (good or wrong? How good or wrong then?)
2. Process (Which strategies did you use / needed to complete this task?)
3. Self-regulation level (planning, metacognition, self-monitoring, do you actually do what you
planned? Etc.)
The most powerful single influence enhancing achievement is feedback
In an often cited article from 2007 Hattie and Timperley provide a conceptual analysis of feedback
and analyse the evidence related to its impact on learning and student achievement. They develop a
model of effective feedback that identifies the particular properties and circumstances that make it
work. Hattie and Timperley demonstrate how feedback can be used to enhance teachers
effectiveness in the classroom and student achievement.
A Model for Effective Feedback by Hattie & Timperley (2007)
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In addition to taking into account these motivational conditions, you must, for example, be willing to
do more than comment on achievements and tell what the coachee should improve. Especially, it is
required that you listen to the coachee and his or her goals and then ask, taking into account the
feedback levels according to Hattie. This also promotes the sense of involvement with the coachee
and thus also through the route. Because you hear so much more of the coachee about what he /
she wants and where it already or not is, the chance that the coachee will feel a "competent"
experience is significantly greater.
It is important to realize that both directions from the motivational theory and the Hattie feedback
story can be used both classically and individually.
It asks:
dare;
try out;
success stories and
then continue and sustain. Because of course, that is not easy.
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YOUR NAME: __________________________________
TODAY'S DATE: ____________________
EXAMPLE
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COMPLETE THE WHEEL:
1. Review the 8 Wheel Categories - think briefly what a satisfying life might look like for you in each area.
2. Next, draw a line across each segment that represents your satisfaction score for each area.
Imagine the centre of the wheel is 0 and the outer edge is 10
Choose a value between 1 (very dissatisfied) and 10 (fully satisfied)
Now draw a line and write the score alongside (see example above)
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THE WHEEL OF LIFE EXERCISE – INSTRUCTIONS FOR THE COACH
Notes:
Balance is personal and unique to each individual - what may be satisfying or balanced for some
may be stressful or boring for others.
This exercise raises a client's awareness and allows the client to plan a life that is more satisfying
and closer to their definition of balance. It also helps clarify priorities for goal-setting.
Balance must be assessed over time. A regular check-in (eg. with this exercise) can highlight useful
patterns and help your clients learn even more about themselves. You can do this with them, or
recommend they do it for themselves.
Another option is for your client to ask someone who knows them well to complete the scores for
them (sometimes it's helpful to see an outside perception of your life 'balance'). Important: This
must be someone they trust and whose opinion they value - and remember that others may have
hidden agendas.
Detailed Instructions:
1. Ask your client to review the 8 categories on their Wheel of Life. The categories should together
create a view of a balanced life for them. If necessary they can split category segments to add in
something that is missing, or re-label an area to make it more meaningful for them. Examples of
changes are:
1. Family and Friends: Split "Family and Friends" into separate categories.
2. Significant Other: Changing the category name to "Dating", "Relationship" or "Life
Partner".
3. Career: Changing the category name to "Motherhood", "Work", "Business" or
"Volunteering".
4. Finances: Changing the category name to "Money", "Financial Security" or "Financial
Wellbeing".
5. Health: The category name could be split or changed to "Emotional", "Physical", "Fitness",
"Spiritual" or "Wellbeing".
6. Home Environment: The category could split or change to "Work Environment" for career or
business clients.
7. Fun & Leisure: The category name could change to "Recreation"
8. Personal Growth: The category name could change to "Learning", "Self-Development" or
"Spiritual"
9. Other categories to add could include "Security", "Service", "Leadership", "Achievement" or
"Community".
2. Ask your client to think about what success or satisfaction would feel like for each area.
3. Now ask them to rank their level of satisfaction with each area of their life by drawing a line
across each segment. Ask them to place a value between 1 (very dissatisfied) and 10 (fully
satisfied) against each area to show how satisfied they are currently with each category in their
life.
4. The new perimeter of the circle represents their Wheel of Life. You can ask your client, "Is it a
bumpy ride?"
5. Now, looking at the wheel here are some great questions to ask your client to take the exercise
deeper:
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1. Are there any surprises for you?
2. How do you feel about your life as you look at your Wheel?
3. How do you currently spend time in these areas? How would you like to spend time in these
areas?
4. What would make that a score of 10?
5. What would a score of 10 look like?
6. Which of these categories would you most like to improve?
7. How could you make space for these changes in your life?
8. What help and support might you need from others to make changes and be more satisfied
with your life?
9. What change should you make first? And what change do you want to make first?
10.If there was one key action you could take that would begin to bring everything into
balance, what would it be?
6. Taking action - the final step. To wrap-up the exercise you can ask your client to identify one
action for each area, and then pick 1-3 actions to get started. You could also ask them to choose
the 3 areas they most want to work on and identify an action for each. TIP: If your client is
extremely busy or stressed try asking, "What is the smallest step you could take to get started?"
SOCIAL SKILLS COACHING
Social skills coaching is a program able to support the coachee to improve his social skills and to gain a better
functioning in almost every area of life: It will help to expand his social circle, network more effectively,
feeling accepted.
Because social skills cannot be taught but just demonstrated and exercised, this programme works very good
in small groups, where is possible to organize some role plays where the coachee, as actors, can exercise the
social skills.
Before to start the programme is important to support the coachee in breaking the goal down: follows a list of
social abilities, grouped in 5 main areas : Basic Social Abilities; Abilities to make/maintain friendships; Abilities
to handle with emotions; Abilities to repress your aggressiveness; Abilities to cope with stress
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1. Basic Social Abilities
1. Listening
2. To ask for help
3. Being grateful
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4. To bring what you may need in a specific situation
5. To follow the instructions
6. To accomplish a task
7. To participate to a conversation
8. To help somebody in need
9. Asking questions
10. Ignoring distractions
11. To overcome/correct mistakes
12. To decide what to do
13. To establish goals
2. Abilities to make/maintain friendships
14. To present yourself to somebody
15. To start a conversation
16. To end up a conversation
17. To maintain contacts
18. To ask for a favour
19. To help a friend
20. To make a compliment
21. To accept a compliment
22. To propose an idea
23. To share
24. To apologise
3. Abilities to handle with emotions
25. Self-awareness of emotions
26. To communicate your emotions
27. To perceive some others’ emotions
28. To understand some other’s emotions
29. To show sensitiveness towards other people
30. To cope with anger
31. To manage other people’s anger
32. To show affection
33. To cope with fear
34. To reward yourself
4. Abilities to repress your aggressiveness
35. Demonstrate self-control
36. Ask for permission
37. To react to provocations
38. Avoiding troubles
39. No getting involved in quarrels
40. Problem solving
41. To accept consequences
42. To face the allegations
43. To come to an agreement
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5. Abilities to cope with stress
44. To tackle boredom
45. To individuate the cause of a problem
46. To make a complaint
47. To face a complaint
48. To cope with exclusion
49. To face embarrassment
50. To face failures
51. To accept refusal
52. To refuse
53. To relax
54. To face the group pressure
55. To take a decision
ASSESSMENT OF THE SOCIAL SKILLS for the coach
This schedule will help you to determine the degree of development of the social skills before the application
of the programme and regularly after 2 or 3 months; you can note the level of ability of the client relying on the
observation of his/her behaviour in different situations.
You can fill the table with the abilities that compose coachee’s goal, adding as many as necessary.
ABILITY
DATE:_______________ DATE:_______________ DATE:_______________
LEVEL (1=LOW; 4=HIGH) LEVEL (1=LOW; 4=HIGH) LEVEL (1=LOW; 4=HIGH)
1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 1 2 3 4
You may even add a column related to comments on that specific ability where to write down about
problematic aspects or specific observations.
How to support the coachee in improving the chosen skills?
1- Support the coachee in the definition of the behavioural steps that compose that ability: discuss with
the client, stimulating with adequate questions his ability to define each step. Ex. If the desiderate
ability is TO LISTEN, you may as to the coachee How can you make a person understand that you are
listening to him? Remind that your role is to help the coachee to discover by himself the steps so you
are allowed to make questions to stimulate his reflections but you shouldn’t answer instead of the
coachee. The coachee active involvement is important in terms of a greater motivation in learning that
skill. If this process sounds different for the coachee is even possible to create some role playing
situations asking the coachee to observe your behaviour, trying to notice some specific aspects of that
skill. At the end of the process you should come out with a a list of the behavioural steps. Ex. If the
desiderated ability is TO LISTEN, you should have something like this:
1. Look at the person who is speaking
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2. Keep calm (do not laugh, move around, play with your hands etc.)
3. Think about what the person is telling you
4. Express your consent with your voice or by a gesture
5. Ask a question on the topic to know more about it
You can also discuss on some tips to make listening more effective.
(at the end of this chapter you will find the steps related to each social ability that may be useful to
prepare the coaching session).
2- It may be useful also give some practical examples of application of the behavioiural steps through
modelling even showing some videos that shows the application of the behavioural steps with some
verbal narration of the steps that are undertaken, this will facilitate the learning process.
3- Role playing: after the presentation of the model, you can discuss with the coachee about some real
situations and how to apply that skill in the coachee daily life (always referring to present or future
situations). In this way it will be possible to create, somehow, those situations and act them putting in
practice the learned behavioural steps. The coach can make some observations about facial
expressions, the body posture, the tone of voice and the content of the speech, but also about
possible reactions of the people. If the coachee is not following the right order of the behavioural
steps it is possible for the coach to interrupt the playing, give some instruction (or better make them
arise from the coachee) and start again.
4- Each role playing should be followed by the informational feedback, where the coachee behaviour will
be self evaluated and /or evaluated by the other participants to the coaching session, if any. Possible
observations may be for example, in the case of the listening ability, suggestions to make a better
performace, tips to not to forget some steps in the sequence, comments about the feelings, or the
coherence among the body language and the verbal one. Also the coach should give some feedback
about the performance and give some social reinforcement to encourage the coachee.
5- Motivate the coachee to apply the learned competences in concrete life situations in the next days
and to self evaluate his performance with a schedule similar to the following:
Name: _________________________ Date: ____________
ABILITY: __________________________________________________
WHEN (situation) _____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________________
How do I evaluate my performance? (1=poor – 5=excellent)
① ② ③ ④ ⑤
Please, motivate your answer: ___________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
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Or (for coachee with lower cognitive abilities)
How was I?
Why? ____________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________________
6- In the next meeting, after some days, discuss with the coachee the application of the skill to real life
situations, review the self-evaluation schedules and motivate him to keeping to apply the ability and
observe his improvements in the social skill in informal situations and keep on giving suggestions and
motivation till the ability is not completely achieved.
BEHAVIOURAL STEPS FOR EACH ABILITY
SECTION 1: Basic Social Abilities
1. LISTENING:
- Look at the person who is speaking
- Keep calm (do not laugh, move around, play with your hands etc.)
- Think about what the person is telling you
- Express your consent with your voice or by a gesture
- Ask a question on the topic to know more about it
2. To ask for help
- Ask yourself: may I do it by myself?
- Evaluate who could help you in that given situation
- Contact that person (raise your hand, make a phone call, catch the attention of a passer-
by etc.)
- Ask for help in kindly and friendly way
3. Being grateful
- Decide if you want to thank somebody
- Choose the adequate place and time
- Thank the person in a friendly and kind way
4. To bring what you may need in a specific situation
- Ask yourself what you may need for that specific situation
- Collect everything you need
- Ask yourself: did I take everything?
- Check again the material and tidy it
5. To follow the instructions
- Carefully listen the instructions
- Ask for further explanations if you did not understand something
- Repeat to your interlocutor the instructions you’ve just received
- Follow the instructions
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6. To accomplish a task
- Ask yourself: did I finish this task?
- Check if you accomplished all the steps
- Self-congratulate for the work you made
7. To participate to a conversation
- Establish if there is something you would like to say
- Ask yourself: is it connected with what they are talking about?
- Decide what would you like to say exactly
- Tell what you have thought to say, when there is a brief pause in the conversation
8. To help somebody in need
- Try to understand if the person needs your help
- Think about what can you do to be helpful
- Decide how to ask if you can help
- Ask to the person if you can help
- Provide help
9. Asking questions
- try to understand exactly what would you like to know
- decide to whom do you want to ask your question
- Decide how do you want to ask
- Choose the adequate place and time
- ask your question
- thank who answered
10. Ignoring distractions
- count up to 5
- tell yourself phrases as “I don’t want to look, I will continue doing ...”
- go on with your task
- congratulate with yourself
11. To overcome/correct mistakes
- if you find something wrong, think about it
- try to accomplish the task again
- if you don’t understand something, you can ask for more explanations
- do the task again
- congratulate with yourself
12. To decide what to do
- Be sure you finished all your tasks
- think about what would you like to do
- choose one thing
- start to do that
13. To establish goals
- define a concrete and realistic goal
- establish the steps to reach it
- start to cope with the first step
- make the following steps, one by one
- reward yourseld after reaching your aim
SECTION 2: Abilities to make/maintain friendships
14. To present yourself to somebody
- Decide if you want to get to know that person
- Try to understand if it is the adequate moment
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- get close to the person
- present yourself
- wait for the person to say his name, if he doesn’t, you can ask it
15. To start a conversation
- choose a person you want to speak with
- decide what you would like to say
- choose the adequate moment and place
- start to talk in a friendly and kind way
16. To end up a conversation
- try to understand if you feel it’s time to close the conversation
- try to understand why you feel so
- decide what to say
- wait till the person you are speaking with, is not speaking anymore
- tell him your decision in a friendly and kind way
17. To maintain contacts
- think about if and how would you like to keep contact with that person
- think about how to ask that person for her contacts
- ask the person in a kind and friendly way
- do not insist if the person is reluctant
- thank the person
- contact the person periodically, but be sure to not disturb him
18. To ask for a favour
- decide if you want or if you need to ask for a favor
- decide what you want to say
- ask the favour in a kind and friendly way
- remind to thank who is doing you a favour
19. To help a friend
- it is a good habit to offer help a friend when he is in need
- Try to understand if the person needs and wants your help
- Think about what can you do to be helpful
- Decide how to ask if you can help
- Ask yourself if it is the right moment to help
- Ask to the person if you can help
- Provide help
20. To make a compliment
- decide what you want to say to the person
- decide how to say it
- choose the adeguate place and time
- make the compliment in a kind and friendly way
21. To accept a compliment
- try to understand if somebody made you compliment
- thank
- if you like, say something about it
22. To propose an idea
- Decide what do you want to propose
- decide what do you want to say
- choose the adequate moment
- make your proposal in a friendly and kind way
23. To share
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- decide if you want to share something
- decide with whom would you like to share
- choose the adequate moment and place
- make your proposal in a friendly and kind way
24. To apologise
- try to understand if you hurt somebody
- try to understand what to say to apologise
- apologise in a kind and friendly way
SECTION 3 Abilities to handle with emotions
25. Self-awareness of emotions
- concentrate on your physical sensations
- try to define the emotion you are living
- tell yourself “I fell ...”
26. To communicate your emotions
- concentrate on what you are feeling in that moment
- try to define it
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) tell to the person you are speaking to “I feel ...”
b) go out for a while
c) make something
- put your choice into action
27. To perceive some others’ emotions
- Carefully observe the person you are speaking to
- make a clear idea of what do you think he is feeling in that moment
- Decide if you wish to ask him for a confirmation of your hypothesis
28. To understand some other’s emotions
- make a clear idea of what do you think he is feeling in that moment
- Evaluate the possible options:
a) Ask to the person if you correctly guessed his emotion
b) offer your help
c) leave the person alone
- apply you choise
29. To show sensitiveness towards other people
- Try to understand if that person is in trouble
- Evaluate the possible choises:
a) ask: “may I help you?”
b) do something nice for that person
- put your choice into action
30. To cope with anger
- stop for a while and count up to ten
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) tell to the person you are speaking to why are you angry
b) go out for a while
c) make some relaxation exercise
- put your choice into action
31. To manage other people’s anger
- listen to the person’s explanations
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- Evaluate the possibilities:
a) going on listening the person
b) ask him why he is angry
c) Help him to solve his problem
d) go out for a while
- put your choice into action
32. To show affection
- try to understand if you feel affection towards that person
- try to understand if the person may be pleased to get to know about your feeling
- decide what you want to tell
- choose the right moment and place
- express what you feel in a kind and friendly way
33. To cope with fear
- Try to understand if you are afraid
- try to understand why
- Evaluate the possibilities:
a) talk with somebody about that
b) make some relaxation exercise
c) try anyway to face what you are afraid of
- put your choice into action
34. To reward yourself
- try to understand if you made a good job
- tell yourself: “I’ve done a good job”
- find other opportunities of self-reward
- self reward yourself
SECTION 4: Abilities to repress your aggressiveness
35. Demonstrate self-control
- stop for a while and count up to ten
- analyse your physical reactions
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) go out for a while
b) make some relaxation exercise
c) write down your emotions
d) talk about it with somebody
- put your choice into action
36. Ask for permission
- decide what you want to do
- decide/try to understand to whom you have to ask for permission
- decide what do you want to say
- choose the right moment and place
- make you request in a kind and friendly way
37. To react to provocations
- stop for a while and count up to five
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) ignore the provocation
b) explain how are you feeling in a kind and friendly way
c) give a reason so that the other person will stop to provoke you
- put your choice into action
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38. Avoiding troubles
- stop for a while and think about the possible consequences of a certain action
- try to understand if you prefer to have nothing to do with it
- decide what do you want to say to the other person
- tell him
39. No getting involved in quarrels
- stop for a while and count up to ten
- try to clearly individuate the problem
- Evaluate the possibilities:
a) go out for a while
b) try to talk with the person in a kind and friendly way
c) ask to somebody to help you to solve the problem
- put your choice into action
40. Problem solving
- stop for a while and tell yourself: “I have to calm down”
- try to clearly individuate the problem
- think about how you could solve it
- choose just one solution
- put it into action
- ask yourself: “how did it go?”
41. To accept consequences
- try to understand if you were wrong
- in that case tell yourself: “Now, I have to accept the consequences”
- tell to the other person: “Yes, it’s true. I made ...”
- add something: promise you won’t make it again or apologise for your action
42. To face the allegations
- stop for a while and tell yourself: “I have to calm down”
- think about what you are being charged with
- ask yourself: “Are they right?”
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) politely explain your position
b) Apologise for what happened
c) try to fix make up the situation
- put your choice into action
43. To come to an agreement
- try to understand if you and the other person disagree on something
- express your point of view on that aspect/probel/situation
- Ask to the other person what he think about it
- listen what he is telling you
- propose or ask to find an agreement suitable for both of you
SECTION 5: Abilities to cope with stress
44. To tackle boredom
- try to understand if you are bored
- think about what do you like to do
- choose one of them
- start to do it
- tell yourself: “Very good, I’ve found something to do”
45. To individuate the cause of a problem
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- try to individuate exactly the problem
- think about what could have caused it
- try to individuate the most probable cause of the problem
- verify if it is correct
46. To make a complaint
- try to exactly identify the problem
- choose the person you have to talk with
- choose the right moment and place
- Explain to that person the problem in a friendly and kind way
47. To face a complaint
- listen the complaint you are receiving
- ask explanation in a friendly and kind way, if you don’t fully understand something
- try to understand if that complaint is founded
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) apologise
b) explain the reasons for your behaviour
c) find a possible solution
d) rectify an incorrect impression
- put your choice into action
48. To cope with exclusion
- try to understand way you have been excluded
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) ask if you can participate
b) invite somebody else to do the same thing with you
c) do something else that makes you feel confortable
- put your choice into action
49. To face embarrassment
- try to understand why you are embarrassed
- think about what you can do to solve the situation:
a) ignore this feeling
b) decide what to do next time
c) tell yourself: “it’s gone, in a moment nobody will think about it”
- put your choice into action
50. To face failures
- try to understand if you really failed
- try to understand why
- try to figure out how can you act next time
- prepare yourself accordingly
51. To accept refusal
- try to figure out why you received a refusal
- evaluate the possibilities:
a) do something else
b) explain how are you feeling in a friendly and kind way
c) write down your emotions
- put your choice into action
52. To refuse
- Decide if you want to do or not what you are asked to do
- try to understand why you don’t want to do that
- refuse the request in a kin and friendly way
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- explain why your don’t want to satisfy that request
53. To relax
- try to understand if you need to relax
- make three slow and deep breaths
- contract the muscles of a part of your body, count up to three, relax
- do the same with other parts of your body
- ask yourself how are you feeling
54. To face the group pressure
- listen to the request the group is making to you
- reflect on the possible consequences
- decide what do you want to do
- if you decide to not to join the group, explain them why
- propose a different activity
55. To take a decision
- analyse your problem
- figure out all the possible choices
- evaluate the possible consequences of each different choice
- choose the best option