How Not To Text Girls

Most guys think they know how to flirt with a girl over
text. But in reality, many of them are making a bunch of
mistakes that are destroying their chances with the girl of
their dream.

In this article, you are going to read about text messaging
girls and what to text a girl about.

The sad thing is, most of the time, these mistakes are very
easily avoidable. In fact, there are 3 very common, yet
very deadly mistakes that guys often make.

Let's go through them and discuss each one in detail. Try
to spot which one you are guilty of.

Text Game Mistake #1: Texting Her Too Often Without A
Reply

You should never send a girl multiple text messages
without her first replying back to your original message.
This is only OK when the first message didn't go through.

Barring that, this is an important rule that you should
always follow.

Because this makes you look needy. It's like constantly
talking to someone who won't even talk back to you.

This will cost you major brownie points.

The shift the power over to her. The more you keep
texting her without her replying, the more it becomes
apparent that she is the prize and you are just begging to
talk to her.

Hey, you two only just met. Don't give her the impression
that you are already picking out the wedding dress.

Text Game Mistake #2: Being Boring With The First Text
That You Send Her

Just like everything else, first impression is critical. The
first message you send will be the one that cause her to
decide whether or not to reply back. It's almost like an
advertisement.

Here's the typical first message a lot of guys uses:

"Hi, this is John from the club last night. I just wanted to
say Hi, and that I really enjoy meeting you...blah blah
blah."

That's not a good first message.That's boring. It doesn't
pull her in and make her want to text back.

Here's something you need to remember...

OK, that was a little harsh. Sorry about that.

But listen, the truth is, the girl (especially if she's hot)
probably gave her numbers out to a bunch of different
guys last night (girls do that.) So saying, "Hi this is..."
does not mean that she is going to remember you. And if
she doesn't remember you, she won't reply!

A better way would be to say something that will get her
back into that head space that she was in when she met
you. Something like...

"Wow, do you remember that fight last night? I'm still
laughing my ass off. - Henry"

"Oh my god. I just realized who you look like..."

Girls always care when you mention something about
their looks, so this statement will get her attention.

Text Game Mistake #3: Being Too Formal

This is not 18th century England. So don't send her
messages like...

"Dear Stacey, I'm really glad we had a chance to talk last
night and I had a very pleasant time..."

Instead as yourself how you would talk to your friends.
Think of how you would talk to your own friend. Would
you tease them and crack jokes if they did something
stupid?. (The obvious exception would be if she is foreign
or is highly educated and is turned by bad grammar and
slang.)

Instead of saying something like, "How's your day
going?", you could say something like...

"Wow, I just had the craziest day. I don't think you can
top it. How's yours going?"

This also makes her a little curious.

It's much easier to escalate things to a sexual level if you
start off with a playful and teasing dynamic.

If you think none of this apply to you, watch out. You
don't want to be like all the other guys out there who...

Screw up their chances with the girl that they like.

Don't make the same mistakes. The pitfalls that I've
mentioned might sound simple but by avoid them, you
can double or triple your chances with a girl.

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