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There are endless courses and systems
being sold today about how to use
various types of communication
technology to get women interested in
you.
These work fantastic, if you use them
right.
But you may find that using these tools
is much more harm than they are
worth.
Why?
Anything that gives you advanced
benefits in the short term usually
comes at a costs.
And these costs usually come later on
when you are least prepared to deal
with them.
It feels great to eat a bunch of salty
fatty food, but it feels horrible once
you balloon up to 400 pounds and
your doctor is telling you your in deep
trouble.
It feels great to go on a credit fueled
spending spree, but not so much when
the bill comes, and you don't have
enough cash to even pay the minimum
balance.
I could go on and on, but you get the
idea.
So what's the danger in shortcutting
the attraction generation process?
Let's consider the ways.
For one, you're doing all the work at
the beginning.
All she's doing is sitting back while you
turn up her attraction.
This is great in the short term, but if
you don't continue to use that
technology (which will get pretty old
pretty quickly) then she's going to lose
interest.
And unless that is the way you
normally behave, it will seem to her
that you've suddenly changed.
This can lead to a string of short term
relationships.
If that's what you're after, and many
guys are, then that's not a problem.
But many guys really DO want to find
that one special lady to hang out with
for the long term.
And guess what?
Short term game is simply not suited
for long term relationship building.
Any kind of surface structure behavior
that isn't a congruent representation
of who you really are is going to be
very hard to keep up.
What's a different alternative?
One, be yourself.
Your real self.
Not your pretend nice guy self.
And always be improving your real self.
For the rest of your life.
This alone will give you an edge over
pretty much everybody else out there.
The second thing is to always leave
before you wear out your welcome.
Most guys can't do this.
They find themselves in a
conversation, and they want to make it
last as long as possible.
But if you leave on a high note, she'll
remember you that way.
She'll think about you that way.
Any feelings of attraction will be
because she was thinking about the
real you.
Not because of some game technique.
If you do this consistently in the early
part of the relationships, you'll build
some very strong emotional glue that
will keep you together for a long time.
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