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2. A while back, there was a famous book
for girls and dating, called "The Rules."

3. Basically game for girls. Rules about
not calling, when to should go out, etc.

4. Basically ways to make the guy more
attracted using ancient laws of
influence, like scarcity, commitment
and consistency, etc.

5. To be sure, understanding these are
fantastic.

6. They can help out a lot, not only in
dating, but in life as well.

7. But if you are using them on purpose,
that's when things get kind of
squirrely.

8. Any time you have to use your
conscious brain to alter your behavior
in order to elicit a behavior from
somebody, it can backfire.

9. These techniques work really well in
sales for a couple of reasons.

10. One is that you are using these to
boost the "attraction" they have for
your product, not you.

11. Which means it is a lot easier, since
you can both see the product
objectively.

12. And when they buy the product, they
can take it home, and it will still be the
product. And assuming it's a good
product, not some fake piece of junk,
they won't get angry.

13. The other reason is when you're
selling a product, you only have to put
on your "game face" for a short time.

14. Maybe an hour or two, tops.

15. This is true even when you are selling a
$50,000 car.

16. Much less if you're selling a cell phone
or some other electronics.

17. But consider using these techniques
with girls.

18. They'll be attaching their feelings to
you.

19. Which means you'd better consistently
follow up, and deliver the value you
are covertly promising.

20. Also, it's not like you only have to do
this for a couple hours, like selling a
car.

21. You need to keep it up for a long, long
time. As soon as you stop, you may be
in trouble.

22. A much better set of "rules for guys"
are disqualification rules.

23. If these rules are applied, then you'll
never see her again.

24. Instead of using some fake rules to
increase her attraction, just use some
real rules that you stick to, no matter
what.

25. A list of things she has to have about
her.

26. And a list of things that she can't have
about her.

27. Stick to these rules, and simply be
yourself, your real self, not some fake
nice-guy self.

28. The thing about most guys is they
HAVE no rules.

29. Not conscious ones anyway.

30. So when they walk up to her, she can
kind of sniff the desperation.

31. But with some solid rules, you won't
have any desperation.

32. Only some curiosity.

33. Curiosity to find out whether or not
can follow your rules or not.

34. And this will definitely
increase your attraction.
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