The document discusses the misconception among some men that women are adversaries in dating, emphasizing that women view potential partners similarly to consumers evaluating products. It suggests that instead of adopting a false persona, men should focus on self-improvement and authenticity to attract quality relationships naturally. Ultimately, investing in personal growth is presented as a more effective long-term strategy than relying on superficial 'game' techniques.

2. One of the easiest traps to fall into is
thinking that women are the enemy.

3. Even when guys talk about picking up
girls, they act as if they need some
kind of ultra ninja secret weapon
techniques to keep her off balance, or
use all kinds of social proof, and get
her thinking in a certain way.

4. Think about it from a sales standpoint.

5. Think about a product you really like.

6. One you buy over and over again.

7. Or maybe a brand.

8. For me, whenever I buy sneakers,
either for jogging or walking, I always
get New Balance.

9. I bought my first pair in high school
when I ran a marathon, and they
served me well.

10. They've been my go-to brand ever
since.

11. So, what's your brand or product?

12. Got it?

13. Now, think of the amount of thought
that goes into it.

14. You go into a store, ask the clerk
where it is, and you get it.

15. Now, think of something you bought
because of a whole bunch of hype.

16. Something that maybe had some
really slick advertisement on TV.

17. Maybe a smooth talking salesperson
helped you "decide."

18. Then you when you started to actually
USE the product, you found it wasn't
all that.

19. So when you needed to buy something
similar again, you gave that particular
product a pass.

20. When girls think about the guys, and
the kind of guys they want in their
lives, they think the same way.

21. Sure, they can be conned (sometimes
pretty easily) buy smooth talking
"salesman" who knows all the angles,
but when they get it home and see
what it's really made of, they start to
have second thoughts.

22. Now, if you're a guy, seeing this from a
guy's perspective, you may not see it
this way.

23. You may think she was super sweet
and into you at the bar, but then she
"turned" on you.

24. You may say things like "women aren't
loyal," or "woman always play you," or
"women always use you," or
something similar.

25. This is ALWAYS going to happen if you
come on strong early on with "game"
and then later show her your "true
self."

26. Now, I know that when guys hear, "be
yourself" they think it's the lamest
idea in the world, but it does keep you
honest.

27. If you don't like the way you are,
measured by the quality of the women
you attract, putting on a fake "game
face" is only going to be a short term
solution.

28. Why not simply improve the "real
you"?

29. Why not continuously learn new social
skills and language skills that you use
with everybody, all the time?

30. Why not develop your self-confidence
and create a REAL purpose for your life
that is independent from women?

31. I know, this is a lot of work.

32. But so is putting on a fake "game face"
and getting rejected later.

33. Why not put in the work on the "real
you" so the relationships with quality
women just happen naturally, and
pretty much take care of themselves?

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