There are two basics when it comes to coaching namely, listening and asking questions. However, listening skills can be learned and improved by following some tips and day-to-day practice.
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The success of a leader relies on the ability to unlock employee potential, find solutions, and meet organizational objectives.There are some practical tips to improve and leverage listening skills that will enhance your leadership capabilities.
UNCONVENTIONAL COACHING FOR THE HIGHLY COMMITTEDTammara Moore
Since 1986, we have been privileged to work with some of the most dynamic and committed individuals and organizations, both nationally and globally.
Straight-Line Coaching is specifically for individuals who are committed to dramatically increasing their results in life both personally and professionally. We work with individuals who say what it is that they are going to do and follow through.
Our range of clients includes business owners, CEOs, engineers, commercial real-estate professionals, executive vice presidents, professional actors, business coaches and consultants, health-care providers, professional athletes, etc.
Dusan Djukich - Innovator of Straight-Line Coaching and Best Selling Author-Straight-Line Leadership;
Dr.Tammara Moore Straight-Line Coach and Speaker
Principals of Straight-Line Coaching
www.straightlinecoach.com
The success of a leader relies on the ability to unlock employee potential, find solutions, and meet organizational objectives.There are some practical tips to improve and leverage listening skills that will enhance your leadership capabilities.
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Leadership series #1 The Art of Asking Questions and Listening EffectivelyZana Gawan-Taylor
Spend time and find space to structure your questions before you start asking so you get the answer that you need. Listen to understand. A conversation or a dialogue is a two-way street. If you are the only one talking, then stop, and ask more questions.
DUSAN DJUKICH'S APOTHEGMS FOR POWERFUL LIVINGTammara Moore
APOTHEGMS FOR POWERFUL LIVING
Since 1986, we have been privileged to work with some of the most dynamic and committed individuals and organizations, both nationally and globally.
Straight-Line Coaching is specifically for individuals who are committed to dramatically increasing their results in life both personally and professionally. We work with individuals who say what it is that they are going to do and follow through.
Our range of clients includes business owners, CEOs, engineers, commercial real-estate professionals, executive vice presidents, professional actors, business coaches and consultants, healthcare providers, professional athletes, etc.
Dusan Djukich www.straightlinecoach.com
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Active listening is a way of paying attention to other people that can make them feel that you are hearing them.
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This is a PowerPoint presentation I had to create for my Customer Relations class. A 50 minute presentation about an important aspect of customer service. Before this project, I had never created a PowerPoint before.
Leadership series #1 The Art of Asking Questions and Listening EffectivelyZana Gawan-Taylor
Spend time and find space to structure your questions before you start asking so you get the answer that you need. Listen to understand. A conversation or a dialogue is a two-way street. If you are the only one talking, then stop, and ask more questions.
DUSAN DJUKICH'S APOTHEGMS FOR POWERFUL LIVINGTammara Moore
APOTHEGMS FOR POWERFUL LIVING
Since 1986, we have been privileged to work with some of the most dynamic and committed individuals and organizations, both nationally and globally.
Straight-Line Coaching is specifically for individuals who are committed to dramatically increasing their results in life both personally and professionally. We work with individuals who say what it is that they are going to do and follow through.
Our range of clients includes business owners, CEOs, engineers, commercial real-estate professionals, executive vice presidents, professional actors, business coaches and consultants, healthcare providers, professional athletes, etc.
Dusan Djukich www.straightlinecoach.com
Corporate Reinvention Associates
Dr. Tammara Moore
Active listening is a way of listening and responding to another person that improves mutual understanding
Active listening involves listening with all senses
Active listening is a way of paying attention to other people that can make them feel that you are hearing them.
The seven step problem solving technique
Divergent and convergent thinking must be balanced
Plan-Do-Check-Act (PDCA)
Root Cause analysis and Problem Solving Techniques
Fishbone diagram
MIND MAPPING TECHNIQUE
Stress management
Identifying Stressors
How to fight stress?
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This was part of a workshop presentation l did a couple of years back for Flight Centre UK looking at language in the workplace and the impact on performance and leadership. It's been interesting to see recent to see the views on 'SlideShare' of this work. 'Psycholinguistics' has always been a huge part of my Uni studies and my work. It's helped to understand 1. How we process and 2. What we can learn from the language we use and how that in turn can interfere with behaviours. Demonstrated by the modality of Related Frame Theory which is a powerful tool in decoding behaviours, and habits human habits from speech around machine/technology referred to as (Psychotechnology). Just to be absolutely clear I’m not talking about Neuro Linguistic programming. But Natural Language Processing which is a branch of AI that looks at the interaction between computers and humans using natural language. I believe there are cross functional connections that we can use to enhance the learning elements of machine learning
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1. To Be a Great Leader You Have to Listen
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Two skills make up the backbone of coaching: listening and asking questions. Today we are
going to focus on listening.
Often leaders and managers under develop their listening skills. Why? For one, they aren’t
taught how to truly listen. Second, leaders are expected to have all the answers. And third, it’s
physiologically hard to listen.
The human mouth plods along at 125 words per minute, while a neuron in the brain can fire
about 200 times a second. No wonder our mind wanders when there’s so much time in
between the words of a conversation! This is part of the reason why we remember only 25%
to 50% of what we hear.
Plus, when we are talking, we get a rush of chemicals sent to our reward and pleasure
centers. There is no such reward for listening. When you listen, you are halting your natural
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2. ways of thinking. It is like holding your breath. When you practice listening, it’s a fitness test
for the brain.
And don’t forget about the fact that feelings, assumptions and anxieties tend to dominate
much of our attention while communicating, which makes it difficult to concentrate on what
others are saying.
The good news is that listening skills can be learned and improved. While leaders can be
coached in listening skills, it’s also important for managers who want to coach their team to
master the art of listening. In other words, it’s a fundamental aspect to coaching no matter
which side of the equation you’re on.
Why Listen?
Why bother? If you’re not listening at work, it’s easier to misinterpret a discussion as a
decision. You may underestimate the importance of objections and ambivalence. And not
listening is a quick way to dissolve trust between leaders and their teams.
Many of the reasons people choose to be better listeners include:
Increase their emotional intelligence
Gain more trust and influence with others
Better understand their client’s and customer’s needs, in order to innovate ways to
meet those needs
Have people experience what it is like to be completely heard and understood
Build respect, and to learn from others
Being a better listener takes effort and a strategy. Much like any sport, you will want to learn
the steps, and then practice, practice, practice. Your coach will help you do this, but you can
also practice on your own.
Master Active Listening
The first thing to master is called active listening. What is it? There are five parts of
communication—what’s said, what’s not said, words, tone of voice, and body language. Here’s
an interesting article on the language of leadership.
3. Active listening is the process of fully attending to all parts of someone’s communication.
To improve your active listening skills, practice these three steps: 1) Focus on yourself, 2)
focus on the other person, and 3) focus on the environment.
Here are some tips:
Three Steps to Improve Your Active Listening Skills
1. Focus on Yourself
Quiet your own thoughts and emotions
Make eye contact with the speaker (it will help you concentrate on them)
Mentally restate what you’re hearing them say
If you miss anything, or something seems unclear, ask them to repeat it
2. Focus on the Other Person
Make eye contact with the speaker (to let them know you’re listening)
Make appropriate reactions and sounds
When they’re done, repeat what you heard out loud
Do this until you’ve clearly heard what they were trying to say
3. Focus on the Environment
What do you hear? (Restlessness? Calm?)
What do you see? (Head-nodding? Phone use? Taking notes?)
What does your emotional intelligence say? (They’re losing interest? They like this
idea!)
Next time you’re in a meeting, glance around. Is what you are hearing different than what you
are seeing? Is what you are seeing different from what you are feeling?
Practice each step of listening until you feel you’ve mastered all three. Ask a few nonbiased
people if they perceive you as a strong listener. Then actively listen to their responses! Active
listening will greatly improve your coaching, and will benefit all of your relationships—inside or
outside the workplace.
4. There are also things you can do day-to-day to improve your listening skills. Read over these
tips on a regular basis until they are set in your mind.
Day-To-Day Listening Practices
To improve your listening, DO:
Be 100% present. This means turning off all electronics, and keep your eyes on the
person.
Be content to listen and to stay in the conversation until the person feels like they are
fully heard.
Ask questions and take notes, including word clarification. Many words in the English
language have more than one meaning, or can vary drastically (such as the word
“soon”).
Show engagement in your posture and your tone of voice by leaning into the
conversation, and keeping your voice level.
To improve your listening, DON’T:
React emotionally. Stay calm and focused on the other person.
Offer suggestions or advice. This is a hard one! Yet if you are truly listening, all you’re
doing is pulling information out. As soon as you start suggesting solutions, you are no
longer listening.
Talk about yourself. Even if you have had the same experience, don’t tell your story. It
takes the attention off the person and back onto you. A simple “I have been there” can
do the trick.
Look at anything but the person. Stay focused on the person’s eyes, facial expressions,
and body language.
It can’t be stressed enough just how important listening skills are for coaching. Whether you
invest in building your listening skills by working with a coach, or commit to practicing
yourself, it will be well worth your while. Paired with a strong grasp on how to ask the right
questions in a coaching environment, which you can review here, you are well on your way to
using coaching as a tool to enhance your impact as a leader.
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