This document provides guidance on using silence effectively in coaching sessions. It explains that silence can be positive if the client makes progress towards their goals and sees their progress, or negative if the client reinforces negative thoughts. Coaches should evaluate if silence was positive based on the results and thoughts shared after the silence. When in doubt, coaches should err on the side of talking more to avoid scaring clients away. There are no strict rules and coaches need experience to learn how to best use silence with different clients.
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After all, how else will you help them realize their dreams?
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To most coaches, goal setting comes naturally. Identifying a goal and creating action steps is second nature to us. But because of this, it’s easy to forget most of our clients don't even have the slightest clue how to begin!
People seek out coaches to help determine what they really want in life. More importantly, they pay us to help them get there. Which means we’ve got to help them identify and articulate their very specific goals… and take clear and convincing steps to reach it.
In fact, an argument can be made that helping clients understand why goals are important, helping them to identify their own, and then creating a reasonable plan for action is your primary job as coach.
After all, how else will you help them realize their dreams?
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1) When should I take notes?
2) How should I take notes?
3) What sort of information should I keep?
4) Should I discuss taking notes with my clients?
5) How long should I keep notes?
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Fortunately, most coaches naturally excel at building rapport. Most coaches are warm, caring, and give potential clients the sense that they are driven to help others and have the skills to help them reach their goals. But even the most charming, charismatic coaches can use some help to build stronger rapport, or to increase their ability to do so quickly, with certain kinds of clients.
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“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
I utterly love this question by poet Mary Oliver because it’s what I want to know most about you and also –
I believe it is what every person wants to feel (and truly does) that their life is ‘…wild and precious…’
Life Coaching enables you to value your life and make your dreams a reality.
The seven step problem solving technique
Divergent and convergent thinking must be balanced
Plan-Do-Check-Act (PDCA)
Root Cause analysis and Problem Solving Techniques
Fishbone diagram
MIND MAPPING TECHNIQUE
Stress management
Identifying Stressors
How to fight stress?
There are a number of questions to consider as you're setting up your coaching practice when it comes to taking notes.
1) When should I take notes?
2) How should I take notes?
3) What sort of information should I keep?
4) Should I discuss taking notes with my clients?
5) How long should I keep notes?
Many coaches skip note taking altogether, but skipping note taking is not something we would recommend
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Since 1986, we have been privileged to work with some of the most dynamic and committed individuals and organizations, both nationally and globally.
Straight-Line Coaching is specifically for individuals who are committed to dramatically increasing their results in life both personally and professionally. We work with individuals who say what it is that they are going to do and follow through.
Our range of clients includes business owners, CEOs, engineers, commercial real-estate professionals, executive vice presidents, professional actors, business coaches and consultants, health-care providers, professional athletes, etc.
Dusan Djukich - Innovator of Straight-Line Coaching and Best Selling Author-Straight-Line Leadership;
Dr.Tammara Moore Straight-Line Coach and Speaker
Principals of Straight-Line Coaching
www.straightlinecoach.com
Effective Coaching Part 2: Moving Into ActionCenterfor HCI
A coach plays a significant role in increasing employee's effectiveness and improves their management skills. For this, there is an effective coaching model - WIN BIG. It compromises six steps, three to build awareness, and three to move the coachee to action. This winning formula not only helps an individual to win but also helps others to succeed.
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Fortunately, most coaches naturally excel at building rapport. Most coaches are warm, caring, and give potential clients the sense that they are driven to help others and have the skills to help them reach their goals. But even the most charming, charismatic coaches can use some help to build stronger rapport, or to increase their ability to do so quickly, with certain kinds of clients.
This extended cheat sheet lists of the most essential tips I know to help coaches build rapport and do it quickly. It's by no means a complete list. And I'm focusing primarily on coaches who work over the phone, so I haven't included tips for face-to-face meetings. Most of those tips, like making eye contact, are universal to building rapport with anyone. Most of my students work with clients on the phone, which makes building rapport a little more challenging. But with the right skills, you can easily make up for the fact that you and your clients can't see each other.
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People often get confused between coaching conversations and other conversations. As a matter of fact, both are different. The difference lies between the number of questions asked and the type of questions asked. For making a good coaching question, there are several important tips. Follow them and see how the conversation opens up.
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Introduction
Johnny Depp is an actor known for his chameleon-like ability to transform into a wide range of characters. from the eccentric Captain Jack Sparrow in "Pirates of the Caribbean" to the introspective Edward Scissorhands. His long hair is one constant throughout his evolving roles and public appearances. Johnny Depp long hair is not a style choice but a significant aspect of his identity. contributing to his allure and mystique. This article explores the journey and significance of Johnny Depp long hair. highlighting how it has become integral to his brand.
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Johnny Depp's journey in Hollywood began in the 1980s. with his breakout role in the television series "21 Jump Street." During this time, his hair was short, but it was already clear that Depp had a penchant for unique and edgy styles. By the decade's end, Depp started experimenting with longer hair. setting the stage for a lifelong signature.
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How to Use Silence in Your Coaching Sessions
Silence is Best Evaluated by the Results It Produces
EVALUATING YOUR USE OF SILENCE AS A COACH: The goal of coaching is always to help clients accomplish their goals. What’s more, we want to help them do this in a relatively pleasant and enjoyable manner—and one in which they understand they’re making consistent progress. If they become too uncomfortable they’ll stop coaching before they achieve their goals. But if you don’t push them hard enough they won’t make progress and you’ll get a similar result.
So perhaps the best way to evaluate your use of silence with any given client is this: “Is your client making progress towards their goal, and do they see this is the case?” If the answer to both of these is “yes” then you’re probably using silence correctly. If not, you may wish to more closely evaluate how and when you’re using silence to try and improve the situation.
THE POSITIVE USE OF SILENCE: Positive changes in behavior are generally accompanied and/or preceded by positive changes in thinking. And this “reworking of thoughts” is something you just can’t do entirely for your client. You can introduce new ideas… but ultimately it’s their brain which has to do the work of replacing the “old tapes” with more constructive ones. Sometimes the client needs to “think new thoughts” to themselves for a little bit before they feel safe to say out loud. From this perspective, when the silence is eventually broken by the client with a new thought—or ANY new information about themselves which could be relevant to their goal—then that silence was probably a positive experience.
Silence Can Often Give Your Client a “Peaceful Place to Think”
Silence Can Also Be a Scary, Empty Place
THE NEGATIVE USE OF SILENCE: Unfortunately, clients can also use silence to beat up on themselves, reinforce negative thought patterns, and generally feel abandoned, isolated, and alone.
You’ll know if the silence was perceived negatively by what follows when the silence is broken. If it’s just more “old tapes” and “downward cycling” thoughts and feelings, you probably let it go on too long and should intervene sooner with the client in the future.
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SILENCE PUTS THE BURDEN ON YOUR CLIENT: Silence forces the client to do more of the work.
That’s because in a dialogue, there’s an expectation of a continued flow of thoughts and ideas. In silence, your client needs to “fill in the gaps.”
Now, in and of itself it’s neither good nor bad to put the work burden on your client… only results will tell. Think of yourself kind of like a personal trainer: If a trainer does all the exercises for their client, there’ll be no progress whatsoever.
But if the trainer gives the client too much weight, too many exercises, and/or doesn’t let the client recover in between sets, that client will burn out—and they’ll avoid future sessions because the workout was too painful. You’re always looking for a BALANCE.
Use silence to get your client to do enough of the work that their “muscles” grow, but not so much that they avoid the next workout!
It only takes one bad session to lose a client— especially in the beginning. So if you’re not sure about silence, err on the side of talking.
WHEN IN DOUBT ERR ON THE SIDE OF TALKING: Because it can only take ONE really bad session to scare a client away from coaching—particularly in the beginning of the relationship—and because you won’t know with any particular client what the exact right talk-to-listen ratio is until you’ve gone through a half dozen or so experiments (they’re all different), it’s generally better to err on the side of talking. If you have an inkling the silence is too uncomfortable, ask a simple, factual question. The kind that begs for answers that nobody could ever pass judgment on. Ideally this is related to what the client was last talking about. For example, if the client was talking about their sister and then fell silent, ask something like “is she older or younger than you?” or “where does your sister live?” Stay away from opinion questions
USE YOUR SENSE OF THE RELATIONSHIP TOO: Another way to look at the client’s experience of silence has to do with their sense of connectedness to you in the relationship at the moment. If you really “felt” the client during the session up until the silent moment…and you feel in your heart of hearts she is experiencing you right there with her even though neither of you is talking, then more often than not you’ll find this was a positive experience. (And you can let it go longer). But if you sense a kind of “disconnected” feeling between you on any particular session, you should probably work harder to talk and re-establish the connection before allowing silence for too long.
NO BLACK AND WHITE RULES: As you can probably tell from reading everything above, there aren’t any “black and white” rules for silence in a coaching session. The exact same amount of silence which one client experiences as “just enough room to think” can be experienced by another as “torturous abandonment” and a reason to leave you by another. You’re going to have to work with each individual client to get a sense of how much contact vs. how much room them need to be maximally productive. And you judge based on the results!
Your own personal judgment and skill in the constructive use of silence in coaching sessions is something which definitely improves with practice. In fact, it’s one of the primary reasons we include LIVE supervision 7 days a week in our coach certification program. You’ll have PLENTY of opportunity to not only practice using silence in sessions with your peers, but to ask both Sharon, myself, and a crew of experienced Master Coaches for feedback about your experience. You can also present your real clients for supervision!