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2. There's one problem that's pretty
common (among guys) when getting
out and interacting with females.

3. An overestimation of HER worth, and
an underestimation of YOUR worth.

4. The thing to understand about ALL
human interactions they are based on
exchange.

5. Sure, when we're kids and in a family,
we just get what we need without
really having to give anything back.

6. But once we grow up and put on our
big boy pants, that crap needs to get
tossed out the window.

7. Nobody's going to give you anything
just because you think you deserve it.

8. Especially girls, girls who have options
(which is the kind of girls you SHOULD
be going after, but that's another
argument completely.)

9. In order for any girl worth her salt to
spend any time with you, she's got to
be getting something out of the deal.

10. She needs to benefit just much as you
are benefiting.

11. Granted, this all happens on a
subconscious level, but it's still there.

12. If you don't create those emotions and
feelings in her that she wants from
you, she's not going to give you those
emotions and feelings you want from
her.

13. Luckily, this is pretty automatic.

14. Both men and women are hard wired
to reciprocate when we get out
buttons pushed in the right way.

15. The only trouble comes when you
assume she's got more to offer you
than you've got to offer her.

16. To make it worse, if you walk to her
with an emotional "trade deficit" AND
an expectation that she SHOULD feel a
certain way, it's going to make it even
harder.

17. Both of these problems go hand in
hand.

18. Which means once you get rid of one,
you'll usually get rid of the other.

19. How do you do this?

20. First, understand how attraction
works.

21. We usually need to feel attraction first,
before we are willing to create
attraction in others, even
subconsciously.

22. No girl is going to be sweet and
feminine and affectionate with you
unless she ALREADY feels those
feelings for you.

23. The next step is to stop overestimating
her value, AND to stop
underestimating your own value.

24. Don't walk over there with a puffed up
chest thinking your king Alpha of the
Planet, but DO have an honest
appreciation for your strong points.

25. Then just go over and talk to her.

26. See it as a discovery process.

27. Show her what you've got, and see
what she's got.

28. If you're both feeling it, good job.

29. If not, it's NOBODY'S fault.

30. Nobody's cheating anybody.

31. Nobody is manipulating anybody.

32. Nobody's dissing anybody.

33. Think of it like setting up a booth at
your local flea market.

34. Do you get super pissed when people
wander by without buying anything?

35. Nope.

36. You just hang until you see people that
ARE interested in what you've got.

37. Luckily, for most guys, that only means
finding ONE girl when it comes to
romance.

38. So get out there and mingle until you
find her.

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