This document discusses how to lead a woman without coming across as insecure or a pushover. It states that a man needs to have an intention or goal when interacting with a woman, such as asking for her number, but this intention should be based on his own actions and not require her compliance. While a woman will resist being led, the man should not get angry, hurt, or give up, but should continue leading through his intentions and actions.

2. Most guys know, at least instinctively,
that in order to create attraction, real
attraction, in a woman, you've got to
lead her. But beyond that, it's kind of
fuzzy.

3. If you go too far, you come across as
some insecure, knuckle dragging
psycho who most girls normal girls
don't want anything to with.

4. Not far enough, and you come across
as a pushover, like most guys today.

5. What does "lead her" even mean, any
way?

6. It could mean to physically lead her
across the room.

7. It could mean lead the conversation.

8. But what happens when she tries to go
her own way, as most normal people
do?

9. Sure, must guys think they'd like some
super obedient girl who would eagerly
follow all their orders.

10. But if you actually met a girl like this,
you'd be turned off in a hurry.

11. She would seem like she's escaped
from the nut house, just after
receiving her daily injection of
whatever drugs they give people in
those places to keep them passive.

12. So no matter HOW you are going to
lead her, she's going to resist.

13. She HAS to resist.

14. The more she resists, the more you
can prove to her how strong you are.

15. How do you do this?

16. One way to NOT do this is to get angry,
either at her, yourself, or the world.

17. It's not HER job to follow you. It's your
job to lead her.

18. Another way to NOT do this is to
collapse in a puddle of hurt feelings
and close down.

19. Another way to NOT do this is to give
up completely, and let her lead.

20. Believe it or not, girls don't really like a
guy much who NEVER leads, and
ALWAYS defers to them.

21. It may make them look good to their
friends, and it make not create stress,
but it won't create any attraction.

22. So, how DO you lead? Well, you first
need to go where you're going.

23. This means you've got to have an
intention for the particular girl you're
talking to.

24. Now, this can get confusing.

25. As I'm sure you've heard, you need to
be "outcome independent" when
talking to a girl.

26. This means you shouldn't choose an
outcome that REQUIRES her
compliance, BEFORE you meet her.

27. But you still need an intention.

28. It's kind of like goal setting.

29. When you set goals, you need to make
sure they are under your control.

30. If you're goal depends on other people
doing things, you're going to run into
trouble.

31. But you STILL need to have a intention
when talking to her.

32. It could be to find out if she's
interested in you.

33. It could be to ASK for her number, not
necessarily get it.

34. It could be to try kino three times
within ten minutes, NOT to get a
certain response from her.

35. So long as you've got an intention, that
is based on YOUR actions, you're doing
pretty good.

36. Stick to them, and you'll be doing
better than most guys.
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