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1. The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today…
To Unlock His Undying Devotion
You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend?
The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely
to one person and one person only:
His girlfriend.
You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?
You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so
attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking.
The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body.
Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you
like that.
It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more, its how he
treats you.
He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.
You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky
enough to snag someone like you.
But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.
The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he
looks at the woman he loves.
So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just
laughs.
“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to
make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”
You nod eagerly.
She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I
found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named
James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”
You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze
across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if
she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you.
“So, do you want to know what it is?”
“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you
two just did.”
“Okay, then listen closely…”
Women across the world make one universal mistake with
men.
It’s not their fault. They’re just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says
that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.)
If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common
wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.
It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…
It’s dead wrong.
That woman?
She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)
But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.
She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at
her…
But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.
The truth is this:
Men fall for women because of how those women make
them feel.
When a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty
to her.
He can’t help it.
Most women don’t have that effect on him.
When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always
doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.
He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who
really, really respect him.
And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.
So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?
It sounds kind of silly.
Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids
from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?
No. It’s a lot simpler than that.
To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting
right now:
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for
you.
Did he offer to get you a drink?
Thank him.
Did he clear the dishes off the table?
Thank him.
Did he drive you to a meeting?
Thank him.
He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.
Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last
week?
Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed
a sounding board. Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.
We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual
miracle of having someone to rely on.
But the more you appreciate him… The more he
appreciates YOU.
Now, that’s not how most people think.
Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things
for him.
They’ve got it backwards.
The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he
does for you, no matter how little.
It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”
(You can learn more about the Hero Instinct in James’ video here.)
The Power of Response
For now, just know that the key to unlocking his undying devotion is NOT in
everything you do for him…
But in how you respond to everything he does for you.
Did he just wrap his arms around you?
Give a little wiggle of contentment.
Did he agree to watch the program you wanted to see on TV?
Give him an appreciative kiss.
Reward the little things he does, and you’ll find your man striving more and
more to please you.
He’s your hero.
And that’s what heroes do.
But that’s just the beginning.
There’s so much more you can do to trigger his hero instinct.
There are phrases you can say, texts you can send, and little requests you can
use to trigger his hero instinct 100 times more powerfully than just saying thanks.
And because no man can resist a woman who makes him feel like a hero, it’s
worth learning a few of these emotional trigger points.
Want to take your relationship skills to the next level with men?
Then learn more about how you can master this powerful technique (from the
man who invented it) click below to watch the short video.
Learn to Trigger His Hero Instinct
References:
Lee, H. W., Bradburn, J., Johnson, R.E., Lin, S., & Chang, C. (2019). The benefits of receiving gratitude for
helpers: A daily investigation of proactive and reactive helping at work. Journal of Applied Psychology, 104,
197 – 213.
Canevello A, Crocker J. Creating good relationships: Responsiveness, relationship quality, and
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Visserman, M. L., Righetti, F., Impett, E. A., Keltner, D., & Van Lange, P. A. M. (2018). It’s the motive that counts:
Perceived sacrifice motives and gratitude in romantic relationships. Emotion, 18, 625 – 637.
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