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1. Not So Fast, Jack!

2. Stability is an often valuable trait.

3. A stable job is much better than one
that may end any time.

4. A stable relationship is preferred to
one where everybody's cheating on
everybody.

5. A stable economy is preferred to one
that has booms and busts every few
years.

6. Even if chemistry and physics they talk
of stable systems in positive terms.

7. On the other hand, flexibility is often a
desired trait.

8. Being able to roll with the punches,
change with the times, or respond
quickly to market forces is the sign of a
healthy individual.

9. It's also good to know when to be
stable, and when to be flexible.

10. Long, long ago, there were a bunch of
horse and buggy companies.

11. Then the car was invented. They chose
stability, and quickly vanished from
existence.

12. Coke chose flexibility over stability
when they conjured up "new coke"
and it almost ruined them.

13. Not so easy to choose which is best,
even for some of the biggest and most
established companies.

14. One area when it's generally better to
be stable, rather than flexible, is in
your mannerisms and movements.

15. I once saw a movie about old England,
and one of the characters was Walter
Raleigh, the guy who discovered
tobacco and brought it back to
England.

16. He was supposed to be this ultra-bold,
ultra-confident explorer upon whom
the Queen depended in times of crisis.

17. Only there was this one scene where
he was on this ship, and somebody
behind him (A romantic interest if
memory serves) called his name.

18. He whipped his head around so fast,
he suddenly looked like a schoolboy
responding to the call of his crush.

19. Suddenly, he no longer seemed like a
bold explorer.

20. For me at least, that one quick
movement ruined it.

21. I don't know if that's what the director
was going for, but I don't think so, as it
seemed wholly incongruent with the
rest of the character's actions.

22. This is what happens when you are in
a social setting, and your eyes are
darting around, head turning right and
left, like some jackrabbit on crack
desperate for attention.

23. On the other hand, those that are ultra
charismatic and confident have a very
slow, very steady gaze.

24. Very measured movements.

25. Even there speech is slow and
conscious.

26. Not ultra conscious like a politician,
but slow enough so they don't spit out
the first thing that pops into their
brain.

27. They use their words and actions like a
well honed tool, to get a consciously
chosen outcome, which is generally an
increase in the happiness of those
around them.

28. They enjoy themselves, they enjoy
their environment, and they enjoy
whomever they happen to be talking
to.

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