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1. Screen Her

2. Most every guru, internet keyboard
jockey, or goof hanging out at your
local bar will tell you the purpose of
pick has one reason, and one reason
only.

3. And that is to get laid.

4. Nearly everybody will tell you that if
she doesn't "put out" after the third
date (or some other kind of imaginary
line in the imaginary sand) then you
should unceremoniously kick her to
the imaginary curb.

5. After all, if you've put in the time,
effort and risk to take her this far, she
OWES you that much, right?

6. Not so fast.

7. In reality, there's a lot of hidden
problems in this strategy and model.

8. One is that by making sex with her
your main goal, you'll be overlooking
pretty much everything about her.

9. Now, if all you want is sex, and you
never want to have a decent
relationship past a few weeks or
months, then stop reading now.

10. (Or keep reading, just realize this
doesn't really apply to you.)

11. But consider a few things.

12. One is that after the thrill of early sex
wears off, you'll be left with HER. Her
beliefs, her personality, her hang ups,
her strengths, her weaknesses, good
habits, and bad habits.

13. Another thing to consider is that even
if you ARE looking for a serious, long
term relationship, having sex with her
can SIGNIFICANTLY decrease your
ability to accurately screen her.

14. Why?

15. Mother Nature ain't an idiot.

16. The main purpose of humans is to
make more humans.

17. So when humans start getting some,
we pretty much hypnotize ourselves
into thinking that EVERYTHING about
each other is perfect.

18. But that self-hypnosis will wear off.

19. And then you're left with two people
that may or may not know each other
very well.

20. Sometimes that works out.

21. Sometimes there's enough overlap,
enough shared experiences, enough
social pressure from friends, family,
religion, etc, to keep the "glue"
between you going.

22. But not always.

23. Sometimes you go down in horribly
painful flames.

24. How can you increase your chances?

25. Two ways. One is to simply have some
criteria aside from her being hot.

26. Figure out the kind of girl you'd like,
aside from her looks.

27. These are things like her background,
family life, religion, politics, financial
views, etc.

28. The more of these you can discern
BEFORE you sleep with her, the better.

29. Because once you do the deed, that
self-hypnosis will kick in, and you'll
start painting the bullseye AFTER
you've shot your arrow.

30. Right around the target.

31. This isn't easy, but it can save you a lot
of grief in the long run.

32. You'll need to figure out how to
conversationally find out those things
about her within the first couple dates,
so you don't waste too much time on
"low probability candidates."

33. The more you practice, the easier it
will get.

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