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1. Engineer The Ideal Relationship

2. Why do relationships tend to go
south?

3. Sure, most of us want an ideal
relationship with the ideal person.

4. And many people DO feel they've got
something, in the beginning.

5. But then after the thrill is gone, and
reality rears it's ugly head, it's pretty
much over.

6. Why does this happen, and more
importantly, how can you keep it from
happening?

7. Everybody loves free stuff, especially
when it's unexpected.

8. Even more especially when it's sexually
and emotionally charged.

9. This is why those early days feels so
good.

10. You're pushing her buttons, which is
making her push your buttons, which
makes you push her buttons, and on
and on.

11. Since this happens unconsciously and
automatically, it feels like you've finally
discovered the alchemy of love.

12. Unfortunately, this "magic" is short
lived.

13. Because a large part of the feel-good-
button-pushing is based on a feeling of
"newness."

14. Once you start to expect the button-
pushing, it starts to lose it's self-
generative effect.

15. Pretty soon you expect her to push
your buttons, and she expects you to
push hers.

16. But since you're both expecting the
other person to "go first," nobody
does, and you start to wish things
were the way they were before.

17. The way to keep this from happening
is to plan for it to happen, and pre-
frame against it.

18. How do you do that?

19. Establish what those buttons are, and
have a deep, open, non-emotional
conversation.

20. Go into a relationship like you would a
business partnership, at least in part.

21. Make a pact to not only understand
what each buttons are, but to continue
pushing them after the thrill is gone.

22. That way, you can recreate that thrill-
feeling at will.

23. For example, imagine how cool it feels
to get an unexpected massage from
your girlfriend.

24. But if you start expecting them, she'll
stop giving them.

25. But if you have a discussion about
what you like, and what she likes, and
some kind of consciously chosen
exchange, she'll keep giving you what
you want, so long as you keep giving
her what she wants.

26. Since you're the man, you've got to go
first.

27. You've got to generate this
"exchange." You've got to lead her into
this discussion.

28. There is one crucial thing that HAS TO
happen in order for this to work.

29. You've got to go in, eyes open, and
create this from the very beginning.

30. Which means you've got to actually
like her as a person, BEYOND any
feelings of sexual or emotional
satisfaction.

31. Which means you've got to have some
solid, non-physical criteria before you
even walk up to her for the first time.

32. If you don't have this kind of criteria,
get some.

33. Now, you don't have to tell her any of
this.

34. Give her the gift of it "just happening."

35. Let her experience that feeling of
romance.

36. Leave it up to you to engineer the
perfect relationship with the perfect
woman.

37. She'll be glad you did.

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