This document discusses how love develops between two people. It explains that love is based on self-hypnosis, where each person develops their own imagination and ideas about the other based on limited interactions. These feelings are strongest when the individuals are apart and able to think about and wonder about each other. For love to develop, it is important to give the other person space and uncertainty rather than always being available, as humans are more likely to dream about something uncertain rather than something they feel is guaranteed.

2. How do people fall in love?

3. This may sound incredibly cynical, but
it's really not. Understanding how the
world really works can only help you to
operate within it to get what you want.

4. Love is based on self-hypnosis.

5. You meet somebody.

6. You go on a few dates.

7. Then you start thinking about them.

8. You start to look forward to seeing
them.

9. You plan what to do with them.

10. You remember them after the date is
over.

11. Most of the thinking about the other
person is when they are not around.

12. Based on your own ideas.

13. This is why "one-itis" is such a hard
thing to kick.

14. It's not based on an honest and
realistic interpretation of what the
other person is really like, but your
own imagination of what they are
really like.

15. You've got this idea of her, that's based
ONLY on your imagination.

16. Finally when you talk to her, or if
you're like some guys, you express
your deep and undying love for her, it's
going to sound creepy as hell.

17. Why?

18. Because you're talking to her like you
know her.

19. Like you've been with her.

20. And she maybe only knows you from
one or two conversations.

21. However, when two people start
feeling this way about each other, at
the same rate, it's pretty cool.

22. So cool that there's nothing else that
even comes close, pleasure wise.

23. But remember those feelings are
generated when you are apart.

24. When you are thinking about each
other.

25. Which means if you DON'T give her
time to think about you, and crucially
to WONDER about you, it's simply NOT
going to happen.

26. If she knows you'll always be there for
her, (at least in the early stages) she
won't dream about you.

27. Humans don't dream or fantasize
about things we KNOW we are going
to get.

28. There HAS to be a bit of uncertainty.

29. So if you are trying to create those
deep feelings, you HAVE to give her
room.

30. DO NOT text her fifteen times a day.

31. DO NOT chase her like desperate
puppy.

32. Now, this is INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT if
you are head over heels in love with
her (or at least think you are) and are
unsure of how she feels about you.

33. Which is why you should ALWAYS be in
the habit of talking to cute girls
wherever you go.

34. Not to pick them up, or number close,
or even flirt.

35. Just to be friendly.

36. Just to keep yourself from going
insane.

37. The BEST TIME to start doing this is
BEFORE you meet "her" and start to
feel those longings.

38. That way, it will already be part of who
you are.

39. AND it will make it much more likely to
find "her."

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