This document discusses the differences between natural charisma in real life versus on television. It notes that television characters are fictional and have scripted lines, sounding very confident but less so in unscripted settings like interviews. Real life naturally charismatic people genuinely enjoy talking to and engaging with others, making them feel good, and are relaxed and comfortable in social situations. It encourages the reader to develop their own social skills by starting conversations to attract others.

2. There's a difference between the
natural players you see on TV, and
natural players in real life.

3. The natural players on TV are fictional
characters, made up by writers who
couldn't seduce their way out of a
paper bag.

4. Most of the stuff on TV is fake, and it
only LOOKS like it's real so you don't
automatically assume your watching
some fantasy-land show.

5. Even the way people talk.

6. Remember, these are actors, who are
saying lines written by writers, and
they've practiced them over and over
again.

7. They sound super witty, with rapid fast
comebacks and super confidence.

8. But remember, they're only
pretending.

9. Watch that same actor in an interview,
or giving a speech, and they sound a
lot less confidence, and the stuff they
say is lot less "well thought out."

10. This is what happens when they don't
have people writing their lines.

11. What about guys in real life that are
ultra charismatic?

12. One thing you can do is simply pay
attention to the guys that are always
talking to cute girls.

13. You'll find them to be super happy,
rather than super poised.

14. Super relaxed and comfortable in their
own skin rather than always coming up
with the super snappy comebacks.

15. You'll also find that they genuinely
enjoy being around people.

16. Not just some people, but all people.

17. They are eager to simply have a chat
with somebody just to pass the time.

18. They enjoy making people feel good
about themselves.

19. They enjoy making people smile.

20. How can you become that person?

21. Easy!

22. Just start talking to people.

23. The idea that you can glide through life
as the silent, lone wolf, but then
suddenly turn on the charm when you
see Miss Right is kind of far-fetched.

24. It's MUCH easier to simply learn to
enjoy talking to people.

25. Truth is that humans are HIGHLY social
creatures.

26. It won't take long to find out how good
it feels just chatting people up.

27. The more you practice, the easier it
will get.

28. Then you'll start giving that wonderful
vibe that attracts people (including
cute girls) like bees to honey!

29. Then you'll have your pick!

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