The Winner’sWay
@ Bsharp: The Winner’s Way
The Winner’s Way
Duration Start Finish Agenda Activity
00:45 09:15 10:00 IntroductionandIce Breakers VisualizationExercise
01:00 10:00 11:00 The Winner'sMindset Self EsteemQuestionnaire
11:00 11:15 Break
01:00 11:15 12:15 A Biasfor Action Personnel Goal Setting
00:45 12:15 01:00 FiroB SectionI FiroB Questionnaire
01:00 01:30 Lunch Break
00:45 01:30 02:15 FiroB Intrepretation IntrepretationGuide
01:00 02:15 03:15 Traits of Leaders
03:15 03:30 Break
01:00 03:30 04:30 Team DynamicsandManagaement Team Activity - TBD
00:30 04:30 05:00 Team workand reporting TBD
00:30 05:00 05:30 Summaryand Closure Summary - teamcontribution
The Winner’sWay
@ Bsharp: The Winner’s Way
The Winner’s Way: Stage 1: Introduction
Talk to your neighbour (someone whom you don’t know well…).
Something about her/his family
Number of years at SPS
An Achievement
An Aspiration
Talk in 3 minutes.
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Stage 1: Visualization Exercise: Read this every week: :
Close your eyes, and think in as much details, your great future – 3 years from now.
Think all positive - eliminate all bad thoughts. Think in as much details as possible.
Your Family, how you want your relationships to be:
Your Career, what a great job you want to be doing:
Your finances, how in control you want to be:
Your hobbies, and your goals for them:
Your social activities, and your goals for them:
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Stage 2: Personal Self EsteemEvaluation
The following exercise allows you to evaluate your self esteemusing this scale:
5 = Always; 4 = Most of the time; 3 = Sometimes; 2 = Rarely; 1 = Never
____ 1. I feel successful in my present work/school activities.
____ 2. I feel satisfied with my present work/school path.
____ 3. I consider myself to be a risk taker.
____ 4. I feel that continuing my education is important.
____ 5. I consciously look for the good in others.
____ 6. I can do most everything I put my mind to.
____ 7. I am comfortable in new social situations.
____ 8. I appreciate compliments from others.
____ 9. I feel comfortable speaking in front of others.
____10. I enjoy telling others of my success.
____11. I am an optimistic person.
____12. I am goal-oriented.
____13. I am comfortable making decisions.
____14. I am in good physical condition.
____15. I am respected by others for who I am.
____16. I project a positive self-image.
____17. I am an active listener.
____18. I like being responsible for projects.
____19. I enjoy controversial discussions.
____20. I find obstacles challenging.
____21. I am able to ask for help without feeling guilty.
____22. I can laugh at my own mistakes.
____23. I am responsible for my thoughts and actions.
____24. I am direct when I voice my feelings.
____25. I am leading a balanced life.
____26. I am an enthusiastic person.
____27. I use eye contact when talking to others.
____28. I genuinely like myself for who I am.
____29. I take criticism well and learn from it.
____30. I exercise regularly and eat a balanced diet.
Add up your points and put the total here:_________________
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Personal Goal Setting – Dimensions
Stage 3: What I want to work on: My goal (what I want to achieve):
___ overall level of self esteem __________________________________________
___ positive mental attitude __________________________________________
___ physical exercise program __________________________________________
___ personal appearance __________________________________________
___ career focus/direction __________________________________________
___ social/interpersonal skills __________________________________________
___ assertiveness __________________________________________
___ decision-making __________________________________________
___ risk taking/overcoming fear __________________________________________
___ communication skills __________________________________________
___ public speaking ability __________________________________________
___ professional skills __________________________________________
___ balanced school/personal life __________________________________________
___ listening skills __________________________________________
___ negotiation skills __________________________________________
___ other:____________________ __________________________________________
___ other: ____________________ __________________________________________
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Stage 3: Goal Setting Exercise
Goal 1:
_________________________________________________________________________
Your Plan:
_________________________________________________________________________
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Goal 2:
_________________________________________________________________________
Your Plan:
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
Goal 3:
_________________________________________________________________________
Your Plan:
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
Goal 4:
_________________________________________________________________________
Your Plan:
_________________________________________________________________________
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Goal 5:
_________________________________________________________________________
Your Plan:
_________________________________________________________________________
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Stage 4: NEGATIVE ATTITUDESDON’T MAKE A LEADER:
We all experience negative attitudes and feelings at different times. It is when those
feelings persist and affect your way of thinking and reacting that problems arise. Low
self esteem is accompanied by negative attitudes. Do any of the following
“symptoms" apply to you?
___ finding something wrong in every situation
___ being pessimistic about outcomes
___ being unhappy because your expectations were not met
___ believing that things will go wrong
___ being easily distracted by irritations
___ being unpleasant to be around
___ complaining and finding fault
___ believing your attitude is a legitimate consequence of a negative situation
___ believing that positive people are dreamers or fools
Exercise:Now you will gain the experience of changing your negative attitudes and
responses to positive ones. Following the example below, change these negative
statements to positive ones.
Negative Positive
Nothing ever goes my way! Sometimes things go my way; sometimes they don't.
1. People aren't trustworthy.
___________________________________________________
2. You can't get good service these days.
___________________________________________
3. I can't ever get ahead.
________________________________________________________
4. There's no justice in this world.
________________________________________________
Add some of your own statements below:
5.
________________________________________________________________________
6.
________________________________________________________________________
7.
________________________________________________________________________

Introduce your partner: Worksheet

  • 1.
    The Winner’sWay @ Bsharp:The Winner’s Way The Winner’s Way Duration Start Finish Agenda Activity 00:45 09:15 10:00 IntroductionandIce Breakers VisualizationExercise 01:00 10:00 11:00 The Winner'sMindset Self EsteemQuestionnaire 11:00 11:15 Break 01:00 11:15 12:15 A Biasfor Action Personnel Goal Setting 00:45 12:15 01:00 FiroB SectionI FiroB Questionnaire 01:00 01:30 Lunch Break 00:45 01:30 02:15 FiroB Intrepretation IntrepretationGuide 01:00 02:15 03:15 Traits of Leaders 03:15 03:30 Break 01:00 03:30 04:30 Team DynamicsandManagaement Team Activity - TBD 00:30 04:30 05:00 Team workand reporting TBD 00:30 05:00 05:30 Summaryand Closure Summary - teamcontribution
  • 2.
    The Winner’sWay @ Bsharp:The Winner’s Way The Winner’s Way: Stage 1: Introduction Talk to your neighbour (someone whom you don’t know well…). Something about her/his family Number of years at SPS An Achievement An Aspiration Talk in 3 minutes.
  • 3.
    The Winner’sWay @ Bsharp:The Winner’s Way Stage 1: Visualization Exercise: Read this every week: : Close your eyes, and think in as much details, your great future – 3 years from now. Think all positive - eliminate all bad thoughts. Think in as much details as possible. Your Family, how you want your relationships to be: Your Career, what a great job you want to be doing: Your finances, how in control you want to be: Your hobbies, and your goals for them: Your social activities, and your goals for them:
  • 4.
    The Winner’sWay @ Bsharp:The Winner’s Way Stage 2: Personal Self EsteemEvaluation The following exercise allows you to evaluate your self esteemusing this scale: 5 = Always; 4 = Most of the time; 3 = Sometimes; 2 = Rarely; 1 = Never ____ 1. I feel successful in my present work/school activities. ____ 2. I feel satisfied with my present work/school path. ____ 3. I consider myself to be a risk taker. ____ 4. I feel that continuing my education is important. ____ 5. I consciously look for the good in others. ____ 6. I can do most everything I put my mind to. ____ 7. I am comfortable in new social situations. ____ 8. I appreciate compliments from others. ____ 9. I feel comfortable speaking in front of others. ____10. I enjoy telling others of my success. ____11. I am an optimistic person. ____12. I am goal-oriented. ____13. I am comfortable making decisions. ____14. I am in good physical condition. ____15. I am respected by others for who I am. ____16. I project a positive self-image. ____17. I am an active listener. ____18. I like being responsible for projects. ____19. I enjoy controversial discussions. ____20. I find obstacles challenging. ____21. I am able to ask for help without feeling guilty. ____22. I can laugh at my own mistakes. ____23. I am responsible for my thoughts and actions. ____24. I am direct when I voice my feelings. ____25. I am leading a balanced life. ____26. I am an enthusiastic person. ____27. I use eye contact when talking to others. ____28. I genuinely like myself for who I am. ____29. I take criticism well and learn from it. ____30. I exercise regularly and eat a balanced diet. Add up your points and put the total here:_________________
  • 5.
    The Winner’sWay @ Bsharp:The Winner’s Way Personal Goal Setting – Dimensions Stage 3: What I want to work on: My goal (what I want to achieve): ___ overall level of self esteem __________________________________________ ___ positive mental attitude __________________________________________ ___ physical exercise program __________________________________________ ___ personal appearance __________________________________________ ___ career focus/direction __________________________________________ ___ social/interpersonal skills __________________________________________ ___ assertiveness __________________________________________ ___ decision-making __________________________________________ ___ risk taking/overcoming fear __________________________________________ ___ communication skills __________________________________________ ___ public speaking ability __________________________________________ ___ professional skills __________________________________________ ___ balanced school/personal life __________________________________________ ___ listening skills __________________________________________ ___ negotiation skills __________________________________________ ___ other:____________________ __________________________________________ ___ other: ____________________ __________________________________________
  • 6.
    The Winner’sWay @ Bsharp:The Winner’s Way Stage 3: Goal Setting Exercise Goal 1: _________________________________________________________________________ Your Plan: _________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________ Goal 2: _________________________________________________________________________ Your Plan: _________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________ Goal 3: _________________________________________________________________________ Your Plan: _________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________ Goal 4: _________________________________________________________________________ Your Plan: _________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________ Goal 5: _________________________________________________________________________ Your Plan: _________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________
  • 7.
    The Winner’sWay @ Bsharp:The Winner’s Way Stage 4: NEGATIVE ATTITUDESDON’T MAKE A LEADER: We all experience negative attitudes and feelings at different times. It is when those feelings persist and affect your way of thinking and reacting that problems arise. Low self esteem is accompanied by negative attitudes. Do any of the following “symptoms" apply to you? ___ finding something wrong in every situation ___ being pessimistic about outcomes ___ being unhappy because your expectations were not met ___ believing that things will go wrong ___ being easily distracted by irritations ___ being unpleasant to be around ___ complaining and finding fault ___ believing your attitude is a legitimate consequence of a negative situation ___ believing that positive people are dreamers or fools Exercise:Now you will gain the experience of changing your negative attitudes and responses to positive ones. Following the example below, change these negative statements to positive ones. Negative Positive Nothing ever goes my way! Sometimes things go my way; sometimes they don't. 1. People aren't trustworthy. ___________________________________________________ 2. You can't get good service these days. ___________________________________________ 3. I can't ever get ahead. ________________________________________________________ 4. There's no justice in this world. ________________________________________________ Add some of your own statements below: 5. ________________________________________________________________________ 6. ________________________________________________________________________ 7. ________________________________________________________________________