The document provides a 3-stage process for dating a girl: 1. Select a girl based on heart, not mind. Connect with her heart without sexual desire which could destroy the relationship. 2. After agreeing to a relationship, inform parents and give them time to approve while avoiding physical intimacy which could spoil the spiritual connection. 3. Once the relationship is strengthened spiritually, it is time to strengthen it physically through intimacy, loyalty and potentially marriage.