Parenting is a great program-each and every mother should have some ideas about this: after having a beautiful child as you grow with the child you need to know the process how to take care of the cute emotion that helps it to be a person with sound emotion.

1. Organized by
KIDZEE
In association with
A discussion on
Child and Parents

2. Know your child
Very important is to know the temperament of
child:
What is TEMPERAMENT?
General emotional state of a child. It
permanently affects their behaviour.
Child of different temperaments:
The Easy Child
The Difficult Child
The Slow to Warm up child

3. The Easy Child
Just recognize the easy
child:
 Cheerful
 Adaptable
 Can fit easily in routine
structure
 Quickly establish relation
with other children
 Has sharing approach
 Easily accommodate in
new environment

4. The Difficult
Child
• Irregular daily routine-not willing to follow instructions
• Slow to accept new experience
• Always reacts negatively
• Intense emotion-forceful
• Not friendly with others
• Irritation without any serious cause
• Intolerance towards any change-of person around
him/situation/environment

5. Slow to Warm
up Child
•Initially shy-slowly becomes friendly
•Low key reactions to environment
•Negative in mood
•Can adjust slowly to new experiences
•Bit fearful, but can overcome at time

6. Parenting depends on Child
Temperament as it has an
impact on development of
Child’s Personality
•Parenting is an On Going process-starts at the BIRTH of child and
will take back gear at the ONSET of adulthood
•There is some General aspects in parenting but most of the time it
depends on the TEMPERAMENT of child
•Parents need to have good idea of their child’s development:
Physical and Emotional both step wise
•Parenting is a serious issue as : Child needs to be under the
parents’ constant attention
•Responsibility of parents begins at the conception – more you
enjoy more you successful as parents-literally it is a journey

7. Enjoy Parenting: It is
another Identity given by
your beloved CHILD
Think positively,
•Bringing up Toddlers is not only a big Responsibility, it is also the source of
JOY
•Parents needs to Enjoy Parenting-it brings happiness
•Be an Observer and also the Listener- Listening and Talking is the key to a
healthy connection between you and your child-by any mean
•Keep a network with Paediatrician, Child Psychologist and the Caregivers-
they can be helpful at crisis
•Mind that no two children are same-so causes of problem is also different-in
any confusion-apply your intelligence instead of being conventional
•Till the child’s adulthood priority is your Motherhood-as it is your decision
to become parents.

8. An IDEA of your
pattern of
PARENTING
How is your Parenting Style?
4-Types of parenting are there. Please be
sure what is your way of parenting and how
you convert your style of Parenting for the
betterment of your child.
This is very Important if you find any
difficulties in controlling your CHILD-start
working on it

9. Dominating/
Authoritarian
Parenting
• Rigid
• Not listener
• Strict
• Demanding
• Likes to rule than becoming
empathetic
• The guardian
• Prefers punishment instead of
giving scope to explain
• Not responsive to the reasons of
child’s difficulties

10. Permissive
Parenting
• Too much friendly
• Permissive
• Giving indulgence
• Nontraditional and Lenient
• Less discipline
• Avoidance
• More responsive to the demand
of
• Child
• Allow considerable self-
regulation

11. Positive/
Authoritative
Parenting
• Assertive
• Flexible but not permissive
• Empathetic
• Democratic
• Listener
• Observer
• Nurturer & forgiving rather giving
punishment
• Democratic nature-give important to
listen to other
• Monitor and impart clear standards for
their children’s conduct.

12. Neglected/
Uninvolved
Parenting
• Care free
• Neglect their child
• Detached
• Less communicative
• Low responsiveness
• Even reject or neglect the needs
of their children.

13. Part-I
How to come out:
My child and My Parenting
•Be observer both for you and your child
•Study effect of your parenting on child and also the type of your child
•In crisis or difficult situation/confusion take the help of related experts
Knowledge about effect of different Parenting styles:
Under Dominating Parenting: Children may become obedient and proficient, but they
rank lower in happiness, social competence and self-esteem
Under Permissive Parenting: Children rank low in happiness and self-regulation.
These children are more likely to experience problems with authority and tend to
perform poorly in school.
Under Authoritative Parenting: Children are happy, capable and successful
Under Neglected /uninvolved Parenting: Children tend to lack self-control, have low
self-esteem and are less competent than their peers.
There is another way of study above-
this is PART II

14. Part-II
How to come out:
My child and My Parenting from the
SLANT of Handwriting

15. Part-II
How to come out:
My child and My Parenting from
the SLANT of Handwriting

16. Samples of Original Writings of
Children

17. Part-II
My child and My Parenting from
the Handwriting
Child is in
Anxiety-The
source of all
difficulties
No Curves-rigid and
retraced writing

18. How is the pattern of the strokes
of A to Z in HW

19. Part-III
How to understand child is in
Emotional Crisis from HW

20. Part-III
How to write- and what will be the
direction of flow of HW

21. Part-III
How to write- and what will be the
direction of flow of HW

22. Part-III
How to write- and what will be the
direction of flow of HW

23. How Parenting affects your
Child's Personality
•Nowadays many parents complain about the personality
and the behavior of their children without realizing that
their parenting style is the main reason behind the child's
undesired behavior.
•Genes has nothing to do with behavior but it’s the way
parents raise children that affects their personality later
on.
•The first person the child comes in contact with are the
parent and so child’s relationship with the whole world is
determined by what happens between him and his

24. How Appropriate Parenting
positively affects your Child's
Personality
•The good news is that you can positively affect your child's personality
by learning how to deal with him the right way.
•The best way to deal with children is to consider them little adults.
• Don't lie to them,
• don't scold them in front of others and
• don't disrespect them.
•Be authoritative and not authoritarian, this means that you must set
rules but in the same time be democratic enough to explain to your child
the reason behind these rules when possible.
•Before you complain about your child's behavior put in mind that it’s
your parenting style that either affects his personality positively or
negatively.

25. Positive Child and Parenting Style
from HW of CHILD
•Writing should have
pressure-Vitality-a
fighter –struggle r
•Child should be in
receiving end-good
listener
•Reasonable
•Friendly
•Balance in emotion
•Ascending BL-

26. Positive Child and Parenting
Style from HW of CHILD
Child needs to write
covering all 3-zones :
• UZ-for intellectual
development
• MZ for friendly social
gesture
• LZ for practicality

27. Positive Child and Parenting
Style from HW of CHILD
Child needs to write,
• With rounded body
structure-for non frictional
approach
• Clear ‘O’-for having
transparency
• No Starting and Ending
strokes-get into the point
appropriately

28. Positive Child and Parenting
Style from HW of CHILD
The letters need to
be the shapes
given:
The distortion
means lacking of
skill of being
POSITIVE
Positive child has
devoid of all
clumsiness
described and

29. Thank YOU for giving your
Patient EAR
Also thanks to
KIDZEE
for organizing a programme like
Know Your Child & Your
Parenting Styles
By Courtsey