The document summarizes 5 major hurdles faced by housewives according to the author's experience as an emotional and behavioral health consultant. The hurdles are: 1) Lack of recognition for their work from family beyond cooking; 2) Difficult relationships with in-laws due to clash of beliefs and lack of communication; 3) Being blamed for issues with children regarding their gender, studies, or behavior; 4) Having low motivation due to identifying only as a housewife rather than having an independent identity; 5) Their desires are often overlooked as they prioritize the happiness of their husband and children.