14. The Brain’s Energy Budget
The Brain uses roughly 20% of all the energy the body produces.
15. The Brain’s Energy Budget
The Brain uses roughly 20% of all the energy the body produces.
44% is used by the cortex.
16. The Brain’s Energy Budget
The Brain uses roughly 20% of all the energy the body produces.
44% is used by the cortex.
21% of that is used in neural spiking.
17. The Brain’s Energy Budget
The Brain uses roughly 20% of all the energy the body produces.
44% is used by the cortex.
21% of that is used in neural spiking.
24% goes to ion balancing and general neural transmission.
18. The Brain’s Energy Budget
The Brain uses roughly 20% of all the energy the body produces.
44% is used by the cortex.
21% of that is used in neural spiking.
24% goes to ion balancing and general neural transmission.
55% goes to regular cell-to-cell communication.
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Affective Realism refers to the way
our feelings influence what we see,
hear, smell, taste and touch — not
what we think we see, hear, feel,
smell, taste and touch, but the
actual content of our perceptual
experience.
How might Affective Realism
impact couples?
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Affective Realism refers to the way
our feelings influence what we see,
hear, smell, taste and touch — not
what we think we see, hear, feel,
smell, taste and touch, but the
actual content of our perceptual
experience. We can only experi-
ence what our senses make us
believe. Human brains produce
Affective Realism through much
of the same network circuitry that
it produces dreams and creative
imagination.
How might Affective Realism
impact couples?
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“Whenwe experienceaffect without knowing the cause,
we are more likelyto treat it as informationabout the world,ratherthanour experienceof the world.”
How might Affective Realismimpact couples?
27. One of the most prominent characteristics of our left brain is its ability to weave stories. This
story-teller portion of our left brain’s language centers is specifically designed to make sense of
the world outside us, based upon minimal amounts of information. It functions by taking whatever
details it has to work with, and then weaves them together in the form of a story. Most impres-
sively our left brain is brilliant in its ability to make stuff up, and fill in the blanks when there are
gaps in its factual data.
As my left brain language centers recovered
and became functional again, I spent a lot of time
observing how my story-teller would draw conclusions
based upon minimal information. For the longest time
I found these antics of my story-teller to be rather
comical. Until I realized that my left brain whole-heartedly
expected the rest of my brain to believe the stories it
was making up!. . . .I need to remember however,
that there are enormous gaps between what I actually
know and what I think I know (my italics). I learned I
need to be very wary of my storyteller’s potential for
stirring up trauma and drama.
~ Jill Bolte Taylor, My Stroke of Insight
Affective Realism
makes us believe what we think when it hurts!
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Might becoming an Interoception Savant positively
influence a couple’s relationship?
Interoception:
sophisticated body
awareness that
includes pain,
temperature,
itch, sensual touch,
muscular and
visceral sensations,
vasomotor activity,
hunger, thirst,
and "air hunger.".
30. Emotional granularity
is the construction of
finer-grained emo-
tional experiences.
People who make
highly granular
discriminations are
emotion experts.
How might emotional granularity
support a couple’s relationship?
37. How might Beautiful Questions
keep your practice rich, fluid and dynamic?
37
38. How might Beautiful Questions
keep your practice rich, fluid and dynamic?
38
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your
heart and try to love the questions themselves,
like locked rooms and like books that are now
written in a very foreign tongue.
39. How might Beautiful Questions
keep your practice rich, fluid and dynamic?
39
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your
heart and try to love the questions themselves,
like locked rooms and like books that are now
written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek
the answers, which cannot be given you because
you would not be able to live them.
40. How might Beautiful Questions
keep your practice rich, fluid and dynamic?
40
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your
heart and try to love the questions themselves,
like locked rooms and like books that are now
written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek
the answers, which cannot be given you because
you would not be able to live them. And the
point is, to live everything. Live the questions
now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without
noticing it, live along some distant day into the
answer.”
― Rainer Maria Rilke
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“All (clients) should learn how to
formulate their own questions.
All (therapists) can easily teach
this skill as part of their regular
practice. It turns out this is a
glaring omission in most formal
and informal educational enter-
prises. The skill of being able to
generate a wide range of ques-
tions and strategize about how
to use them effectively is rarely,
if ever, deliberately taught.
In fact, it has too often been
limited to people who have
access to an elite education.
~ Dan Rothstein and Luz Santana,
Make Just One Change:
Teach (Clients) to Ask Their Own Questions
The Importance of Asking Questions
Question begins
with a quest.
42. “Always the beautiful answer
who asks a more beautiful question.”
~ e. e. cummings
42
43. Which brain cells will
Beautiful Questions help cultivate?
43
Beautiful Questions
help increase
network capacity
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#1 — How do I shift from knowledgeable practitioner to curious non-knower?
(and get paid for not knowing?)
#2 — Why do I have clients that I don’t enjoy treating?
#3 — What if I was able to be more financially flexible with my clients?
#4 — How does my practice let me know when I need more self-care?
#5 — Why is my practice structured the way it is?
#6 — What if I guided my clients to make most of the treatment decisions?
#7 — How can I love my work even more?
#8 — Why is my practice located where it is?
#9 — What if I was able to work less and earn more income?
Examples: Beautiful Questions
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#1 — How do I shift from knowledgeable practitioner to curious non-knower?
(and get paid for not knowing?)
#2 — Why do I have clients that I don’t enjoy treating?
#3 — What if I was able to be more financially flexible with my clients?
#4 — How does my practice let me know when I need more self-care?
#5 — Why is my practice structured the way it is?
#6 — What if I guided my clients to make most of the treatment decisions?
#7 — How can I love my work even more?
#8 — Why is my practice located where it is?
#9 — What if I was able to work less and earn more income?
Examples: Beautiful Questions
“A moment of unbridled, loving care towards
another human being momentarily frees us
from the bondage of our own self-centeredness.”
~ Elizabeth Mattis-Namgyel,
The Power of an Open Question
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The Takeaways . . .
1. Understanding some fundamental neuro-
biology can be extremely useful.
50. 50
The Takeaways . . .
1. Understanding some fundamental neuro-
biology can be extremely useful.
2. One or both people can benefit from an
increasing awareness of emotional granularity.
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The Takeaways . . .
2. One or both people can benefit from an
increasing awareness of emotional granularity.
3. Teaching couples to ask, answer and take action
in response to Beautiful Questions can be
extremely beneficial.
1. Understanding some fundamental neuro-
biology can be extremely useful.
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Oligodendrocyte – “tree glue” that produces myelin sheathing.
Astrocyte – provide biochemical support of endothelial cells that form the blood–brain barrier, provide nutrients to the nervous tissue, maintain extracellular ion balance, and have a role in the repair and scarring process of the brain and spinal cord following traumatic injuries. Knit two hemispheres together: http://www.cell.com/cell-reports/fulltext/S2211-1247(16)31255-4 Astrocytes, take up glucose from the capillaries and convert it to glycogen and lactate. Upon stimulation, the astrocytes release the lactate into the extracellular space, which the neurons can take up, and in turn convert to ATP, which fuels the many processes involved in signaling and reestablishment of gradients.
Sonic Hedgehog - a protein that's pivotal in not only separating your right brain from your left, but also in making sure that you have two, individual eyes.
Crest Cells - temporary group of cells unique to vertebrates that arise from the embryonic ectoderm cell layer, and in turn give rise to a diverse cell lineage—including melanocytes, craniofacial cartilage and bone, smooth muscle, peripheral and enteric neurons and glia.
Radial Glia - During development, newborn neurons use radial glia as scaffolds, traveling along the radial glial fibers in order to reach their final destinations.
Phosphatidylserines flip to the extracellular (outer) surface of the cell, they act as a signal for macrophages to engulf the cells.
Parthanatos – Cell executioner http://www.newswise.com/articles/brain-cell-executioner-identified
Reelin (RELN) is a large secreted extracellular matrix glycoprotein that helps regulate processes of neuronal migration and positioning in the developing brain by controlling cell–cell interactions.
Function of Microglia, Astrocytes, Oligodendrocytes: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/01/170110120706.htm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_rjOY0kdII
Such body awareness in part, I believe, provides the basis for emotional intelligence.
I also believe - when finely tuned - it provides the basis for much accurate intuition.