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The Enchanted Loom reviews Mark Brady's book, Noble Listening

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Skillful listening is a necessary and often neglected aspect of Contingent Communication - the primary driver of Secure Attachment in human beings. In this best-selling book, Dr. Mark Brady tells us not only where, what, when and why, but precisely HOW to go about the work of becoming that skillful listener we would all be well-served to become.

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The Enchanted Loom reviews Mark Brady's book, Noble Listening

  1. 1. The Enchanted Loom Teasing sturdy threads from neuroscience masterworks
  2. 2. Teasing 10 threads from Mark Brady’s…
  3. 3. Thread 1: Noble Listening practitioners invite others to speak truthfully and they hold the things they hear sacred. (pg. 19)
  4. 4. Thread 2: “Being listened to is so close to being loved that most people don’t know the difference.” (pg. 21)
  5. 5. Thread 3: Talk less. This is the simplest and fastest change we can make on the road to becoming a Noble Listener. (pg. 25)
  6. 6. Thread 4: Being slow to argue, disagree or criticize goes a long way toward allowing truth, compassion and understanding to organically unfold. (pg. 34)
  7. 7. Thread 5: Beginner’s Ear is a way of being open and curious to the present moment. (pg. 36)
  8. 8. Thread 6: The plain and simple truth is that few of us are perfectly comfortable with silence. It is generative listening that allows us to develop deeper silences that slow the ear’s hearing to the mind’s natural speed. (pg. 39)
  9. 9. Thread 7: Living inside each of us is a wealth of embodied wisdom and experience that is much more reliable and trustworthy than any advice we might offer. (pg. 41)
  10. 10. Thread 8: Satyagraha is the peaceful force for truth identified by Gandhi. A satyagraha listener can be present with compassion, willing to hear another’s truth and hold it gently, no matter how distressing that truth may be. (pg. 45)
  11. 11. Thread 9: The Lakota warrior and wise man, Crazy Horse warned, “Power must listen with honest ears to the whispers of the powerless.” (pg. 95)
  12. 12. Thread 10: Communication is a process much like writing. Few of us are able to get precisely what we want to say down perfectly in the very first draft. (pg. 59)
  13. 13. Thread 11: “All things, animate and inanimate, have within them a spirit dimension. They com- municate in that dimension to those who can listen.” (pg. 103)
  14. 14. Image Credits: Title Page: http://www.rappler.com/science-nature/23193-personality-traits-brain-scans Slide 3 - https://atruthsoldier.com/food-for-thought-pics/truth-sign-2/ Slide 12 - http://carolwoodliff.com/2016/02/writing-dont-jump-first-draft-done/ Slide 2 - http://lcsmithphd.com/religion-and-politics/ Slide 6 - http://bit.ly/2vhMOuc Slide 5 - https://oflostloveandpoetry.wordpress.com/2014/02/07/silence/ Slide 11 - http://www.clipartguide.com/_pages/0512-0703-1217-1407.html Slide 10 - http://www.wisdomcommons.org/virtue/154-ahimsa/essays Slide 14 - http://www.rappler.com/science-nature/23193-personality-traits-brain-scans Slide 9 - http://bit.ly/2x62GBU Slide 8 - https://twitter.com/christoi Slide 7 - http://longhollow.com/news/preschool-minute-little-pitchers-have-big-ears/ Slide 4 - http://www.monasteriesoftheheart.org/maranatha-community-online/ear-heart Slide 13 - http://bit.ly/2wwkRmp
  15. 15. Mark Brady, PhD TheEnchantedLoom@gmail.com To order your own copy of Noble Listening use the email above. Thank you for viewing !

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