The document provides advice for having a happy married life in 18 sections. It emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding each other, mutual trust, respect, patience, compromise, bonding over children, shared responsibility, and avoiding conflict or criticism of each other. It also stresses the importance of intimacy and advising seeking healthy information on the topic.

1. HAPPY MARRIED LIFE
PROF. S.P. IBRAHIM KHALEEL

2. GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER!
• From Day One get into the act of gently exploring each other’s likes,
dislikes, preferences, attitude, character etc.

3. LOVE EACH OTHER
• Love each other unconditionally

4. CONCERN FOR EACH OTHER
• Express convincingly the true concern for each other.

5. SENSE OF SECURITY
• Never let down your partner. Not even giving the feeling of letting
down.

6. KEEP EACH OTHER HAPPY
• Go the extra mile to keep your partner happy.

7. MUTUAL TRUST
• Always remain truthful to each other

8. MUTUAL RESPECTS
• Have utmost respect for each others feelings.

9. LISTENING TO EACH OTHER
• Improve your ability to listen to your partner.

10. PATIENCE IS AN IMPORTANT QUALIFICATION
• Always have patience

11. EXERCISE RESTRIANT
• Never judge anything or Jump to conclusions

12. ADJUSTABILITY
•Adjustability and adaptability are the
essential requirements of happy and
successful life.
•If we cannot adjust at home with our life
partner and children where else?

13. SEX
Pay apt attention to sex. Sex is as much
essential as salt to food. It is bad to have
excessive or nothing.
Both of you prepare yourself with good books
or videos which give healthy advice on SEX.

14. AVOID PORN
•Avoid pornography as far as possible.
•Do not experiment with the perverted sex shown
on pornography.
•You can experiment any kind of positions with
mutual comfort and mutual consent for mutual
pleasure.

15. GIVE AND TAKE
• This world, our life and our happiness ALL revolve around a simple
philosophy of “Give and Take.”
• Always be willing to give. Your share of taking will automatically
come to you.
• Remember one cannot be always giving or always taking. Natural
law of justice will always balance it.
• If we do give voluntarily with complete understanding it will give
more happiness.

16. DO NOT FIND FAULT
• Do not find fault with your partner.
• Even if there is a blunder learn to condone it.
• Always compromise in the interest of mutual bonding.
• Your partner will take all efforts to avoid such mistakes in
future.

17. GET YOUR CHILD AT THE EALIEST
• Giving birth to a child gives more bonding between the husband
and wife.
• You start doing everything for the sake of the new member of
the family.
• You will cherish your relationship more than ever because of the
child.

18. PLAN YOUR FAMILY’S FUTURE TOGETHER
Plan everything for the family together.
This is a more enjoyable part of married life.
As your children grow older involve them also in
whatever you plan for the family's future.

19. RESPONSIBILITY
•Though both partners have equal responsibility in
everything they do for their family it is more so in
upbringing the children.
•Contribute good citizens to the society, to the
country and to the world.

20. THANK YOU
HAPPY MARRIED LIFE