Handshakes should occur when being introduced to someone new in a business or social setting, when greeting or saying goodbye to a host or hostess, and when offering congratulations or condolences. A firm handshake is appropriate, while being careful not to shake too vigorously or cause discomfort. In social situations, men typically wait for women to extend their hand first when shaking.

1. Handshake
• When, where, how and
whom to shake hands
with?
• The following will answer
most of the questions on
the topic of hand shake.

2. You would shake hands
• Whenever you are
introduced to someone
the business or social
arena.
• On meeting a business or
a social acquaintance.
• When someone comes

3. • When you are congratulating
someone-show your
enthusiasm but be aware of
shaking the arms of the socket!
• When you are offering your
sympathy or condolence-the
‘glove’ handshake is very
appropriate in this situation.

4. • When you greet your host
and hostess.
• While saying ‘goodbye’
taking leave.
Have a firm and not a
crushing handshake. A
word ofcaution here.

5. • Please do not shake the other
person’s hand off the shoulder
socket and also be aware of a
person’s physical inability to
shake hands firmly.
• Don’t hold back. Extend your
hands immediately to have a
distinct advantage

6. • Exception to this rule would be,
in the social arena, the man
waits for the woman to extend
her hands first, especially in
Europe.
• It is considered to be in bad
form for the woman not to
extend her hand spontaneously.

7. • The socially savvy man knows
to wait for the woman to take
the initiative.
• But if the man holds out his
hand first, the woman should
take it graciously accompanied
by the proper verbal greetings!
Happy handshaking!