Here are two relevant quotes from The Count of Monte Cristo and Viva la Vida that relate to making a bad decision that causes one to lose or lack something wanted:
From The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas:
"Villefort, it was you who ruined my life." - Said by Edmond Dantes to Villefort, blaming him for the bad decision that led to his wrongful imprisonment.
From "Viva la Vida" by Coldplay:
"I used to rule the world, seas would rise when I gave the word" - Reflecting on how a bad decision or change in circumstances caused the speaker to lose a position of power and influence they once