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• Close other programs running on your desktop.
• Use a hard connection, not wireless.
• Use Chat to send a question to the Presenters.
• Interact with Chat, Polling, and Status Icons.
• The “i” icon in the upper right contains call-back
  information.
• Press *6 to mute or unmute your phone line.




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• How unresolved conflict negatively affects
  business results
• Why it’s important to train leaders at all levels to
  manage disagreements effectively
• How Peer Power: Transforming Workplace
  Relationships makes a measurable difference




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• 45% say they are satisfied with their jobs
  (down from 61.1% in 1987)
• Under 25, 35.7% are satisfied
• Of Baby Boomers, 46% are satisfied
  (down from 60%)

Conclusion: employee satisfaction has declined
significantly over the past 20 years.

Source: TNS Market Research survey (2009), reported by The Conference Board




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What are the consequences of unresolved
workplace conflict?




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Which of these consequences have you observed
in your own organization?
                                       Wasted time
                                       Low morale
                                       Reduced quality
                                       Missed deadlines
                                       Need for increased supervision
                                       Higher stress
                                       Reduced collaboration
                                       Decreased customer satisfaction
                                       Low trust
                                       Higher turnover (of skilled employees)
                                       Absenteeism or presenteeism




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“When we see our (adversaries) not
just as opponents but as enemies, we
often lose sight of our real objective.
A new objective emerges: to beat the
other side, whatever the cost.”
               Deepak Molhotra
               Harvard Business School




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36% of US employees deal with conflict always or
  frequently.




Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008)




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“Chronic unresolved conflict acts as a decisive
factor in at least 50% of departures.”




Dan Dana
The Dana Measure of Financial Cost
   of Organizational Conflict


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• 62% left a job in the past, at least partially
  because of a difficult relationship with a
  coworker
• 30% reported a difficult coworker currently
  frustrated them
• 1/5 (of 30%) stated that a difficult coworker was
  their boss

Source: NetSpeed Learning Solutions survey (2008)




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•   Reduced productivity
                               •   Cost to mediate conflict
                               •   Cost to terminate
                               •   Unable to retain talent
                               •   Cost to recruit replacement
                               •   Cost to train replacement




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76% of US employees surveyed went out of their
way to avoid the colleague with whom they were in
disagreement.




 Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008)




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“I frequently avoid a difficult coworker.”

“I dread going to work to be barraged by this
individual‟s negativity.”

“I often need to „run interference‟
because other employees also find
this individual difficult to work with.”




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How many hours per week, on average, do US
employees spend dealing with conflict at work?
     < 1 hour
     1.2 hours
     2.8 hours
     3.5 hours
     > 4 hours


Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008)




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• Lower team morale
                               • Reduced productivity
                               • Increased supervision
                               • Reduced management
                                 credibility
                               • Less collaboration
                               • Missed opportunities




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What is the annual cost in paid hours of the time
spent dealing with conflict?
     $103 billion
     $252 billion
     $359 billion
     $524 billion



Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008)




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• Lost clients or customers
                               • Reduced revenue
                               • Reduced retention of
                                 managers
                               • Cost of time spent in
                                 conflict
                               • Culture of mistrust




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How important is the issue of
                               conflict in your organization?

                               5 – Very important
                               4 – Somewhat important
                               3 – Neutral
                               2 – Somewhat unimportant
                               1 – Not at all important




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•   Poor reputation
                               •   Negative social media
                               •   Inability to compete
                               •   Customer defections




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• 25 – 40% of a manager’s time is
  spent resolving conflict.
• Largest reducible cost in many
  businesses.
• Training increase skills and
  confidence.
• ROI =10 times the cost of training.



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Available at bookstores and online
                               booksellers

                               Published by Jossey-Bass in 2012.




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•   Classroom and webinar programs
•   Modularized for flexibility
•   Delivered by our certified trainers
•   May be licensed
•   Train-the-trainer model




           ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc.   28
• Public web workshop program
• Blended with post-class reinforcement tools
• Podcasts, videos and knols at
  NetSpeed Fast Tracks™




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1. What happens to me at work is usually
       not related to my own behavior.
    2. I try to be open about my thoughts
       and feelings.
    3. I find gossip to be a great stress
       reliever.
    4. I reach out to someone I may have
       offended.
    5. I take people at face value.


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1. What happens to me at work is
              usually not related to my own
              behavior.

           If you agree with this statement, you
           may often feel victimized by others‟
           actions. We invite you to consider the
           many ways your behavior may be
           helping or hindering the situation.



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Does your boss or coworker?

1. Tease you about your mistakes or weaknesses
2. Appear friendly to your face yet criticize you
   often behind your back
3. Hold staff meetings infrequently or without
   planning




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Coaching
                               With
                               permission, attempting to
                               help another solve a
                               problem or develop skills
                               so the other person gets
                               better results
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Collaborating
Jointly attempting to
meet fully the needs
of all parties



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Nine Behavior
                             Patterns




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The Attacker

                                   The colleague who
                                   repeatedly expresses
                                   anger and frustration in
                                   the form of inappropriate
                                   personal criticism.




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The Whiner

That coworker who complains
without taking responsibility
for improving conditions that
surround him/her.




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• Six two-hour sessions
• One-day and two-day facilitated workshops
• Adult learning principles
• Interactive and collaborative
• Practical skill-building
• Blended with post-class
  reinforcement tools
• Blended with podcasts and
  online assessments


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•   Six, 90-minute webinars
•   Post-class reinforcement tools
•   May be licensed for internal delivery
•   Train-the-trainer model




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Session 1: Mistakes We’ve Made

Session 2: What We’ve Learned

Session 3: Strategies for Transforming
           Relationships



Classroom: 2 – 2.5 hours
Webinar: 90 minutes

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Session 4: Working with Attackers,
           Whiners, and Scene Stealers

Session 5: Working with Drive-by Bosses,
           Manipulators, and Clueless
           Colleagues

Session 3: Working with Faux-Smart
           Bosses, Slackers, and
           Bullies


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Peer Power Public Webinar Series
• For leaders at all levels
• Four, 90-minute webinars plus collaborative
  work at NetSpeed Fast Tracks™
• Blended with post-class reinforcement tools
• Volume discounts




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• “About You” Questionnaire

• “About Them” Questionnaire

• Personal Self-assessment

• Post-class Reinforcement Tools

• Podcasts and Knols




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Electronic magazine
                               • Four-pages
                               • Downloaded
                               • Quick reinforcement




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• Role model interview
                               • Short articles
                               • Case study
                               • Ask Cynthia & Ray




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Application


Improvement

Confidence



Behavior




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• Participant may invite his/her manager to give
  feedback.
• Questions mirror the Self-Evaluation.
• Participant may invite direct
  reports to give feedback.
• Evaluation data is compiled for
  comparison.




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•   Four Thursdays, beginning September 6
•   90-minute webinars led by Cynthia Clay
•   1 – 2 participants: $399 each
•   3+ participants: $349 each

Register by July 15 and receive the “early bird”
 discount of $100 off the registration price.

http://www.netspeedlearning.com/webinar/peerpowerwebinars/




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• Reduce managers’ time spent
  resolving conflict.
• Reduce costs of unresolved conflict
  in your organization.
• Increase skills and confidence of
  your employees.
• Gain ROI =10 times the cost of
  training.


©2012 Clay & Associates Inc.            62
“It‟s more important than ever to supply your
workers with new tools, training, and techniques
to help maintain a positive and engaging work
environment that leads to higher productivity and
strong business results.”
               Cynthia Clay and Ray Olitt




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• 20% discount on all programs or services
• Minimum of $15,000 (net)
• Paid in full by July 31, 2012




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Executive Briefing: Communication Effectiveness

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    • Close otherprograms running on your desktop. • Use a hard connection, not wireless. • Use Chat to send a question to the Presenters. • Interact with Chat, Polling, and Status Icons. • The “i” icon in the upper right contains call-back information. • Press *6 to mute or unmute your phone line. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 2
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    • How unresolvedconflict negatively affects business results • Why it’s important to train leaders at all levels to manage disagreements effectively • How Peer Power: Transforming Workplace Relationships makes a measurable difference ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 7
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    • 45% saythey are satisfied with their jobs (down from 61.1% in 1987) • Under 25, 35.7% are satisfied • Of Baby Boomers, 46% are satisfied (down from 60%) Conclusion: employee satisfaction has declined significantly over the past 20 years. Source: TNS Market Research survey (2009), reported by The Conference Board ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 8
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    What are theconsequences of unresolved workplace conflict? ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 9
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    Which of theseconsequences have you observed in your own organization? Wasted time Low morale Reduced quality Missed deadlines Need for increased supervision Higher stress Reduced collaboration Decreased customer satisfaction Low trust Higher turnover (of skilled employees) Absenteeism or presenteeism ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 10
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    “When we seeour (adversaries) not just as opponents but as enemies, we often lose sight of our real objective. A new objective emerges: to beat the other side, whatever the cost.” Deepak Molhotra Harvard Business School ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 11
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    36% of USemployees deal with conflict always or frequently. Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008) ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 13
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    “Chronic unresolved conflictacts as a decisive factor in at least 50% of departures.” Dan Dana The Dana Measure of Financial Cost of Organizational Conflict ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 14
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    • 62% lefta job in the past, at least partially because of a difficult relationship with a coworker • 30% reported a difficult coworker currently frustrated them • 1/5 (of 30%) stated that a difficult coworker was their boss Source: NetSpeed Learning Solutions survey (2008) ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 15
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    Reduced productivity • Cost to mediate conflict • Cost to terminate • Unable to retain talent • Cost to recruit replacement • Cost to train replacement ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 16
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    76% of USemployees surveyed went out of their way to avoid the colleague with whom they were in disagreement. Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008) ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 17
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    “I frequently avoida difficult coworker.” “I dread going to work to be barraged by this individual‟s negativity.” “I often need to „run interference‟ because other employees also find this individual difficult to work with.” ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 18
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    How many hoursper week, on average, do US employees spend dealing with conflict at work? < 1 hour 1.2 hours 2.8 hours 3.5 hours > 4 hours Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008) ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 19
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    • Lower teammorale • Reduced productivity • Increased supervision • Reduced management credibility • Less collaboration • Missed opportunities ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 20
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    What is theannual cost in paid hours of the time spent dealing with conflict? $103 billion $252 billion $359 billion $524 billion Source: CPP Global, Human Capital Report (2008) ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 21
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    • Lost clientsor customers • Reduced revenue • Reduced retention of managers • Cost of time spent in conflict • Culture of mistrust ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 22
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    How important isthe issue of conflict in your organization? 5 – Very important 4 – Somewhat important 3 – Neutral 2 – Somewhat unimportant 1 – Not at all important ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 23
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    Poor reputation • Negative social media • Inability to compete • Customer defections ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 24
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    • 25 –40% of a manager’s time is spent resolving conflict. • Largest reducible cost in many businesses. • Training increase skills and confidence. • ROI =10 times the cost of training. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 26
  • 27.
    Available at bookstoresand online booksellers Published by Jossey-Bass in 2012. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 27
  • 28.
    Classroom and webinar programs • Modularized for flexibility • Delivered by our certified trainers • May be licensed • Train-the-trainer model ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 28
  • 29.
    • Public webworkshop program • Blended with post-class reinforcement tools • Podcasts, videos and knols at NetSpeed Fast Tracks™ ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 29
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    1. What happensto me at work is usually not related to my own behavior. 2. I try to be open about my thoughts and feelings. 3. I find gossip to be a great stress reliever. 4. I reach out to someone I may have offended. 5. I take people at face value. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 30
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    1. What happensto me at work is usually not related to my own behavior. If you agree with this statement, you may often feel victimized by others‟ actions. We invite you to consider the many ways your behavior may be helping or hindering the situation. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 31
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    Does your bossor coworker? 1. Tease you about your mistakes or weaknesses 2. Appear friendly to your face yet criticize you often behind your back 3. Hold staff meetings infrequently or without planning ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 32
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    Coaching With permission, attempting to help another solve a problem or develop skills so the other person gets better results ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 35
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    Collaborating Jointly attempting to meetfully the needs of all parties ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 36
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    Nine Behavior Patterns ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 37
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    The Attacker The colleague who repeatedly expresses anger and frustration in the form of inappropriate personal criticism. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 38
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    The Whiner That coworkerwho complains without taking responsibility for improving conditions that surround him/her. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 39
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    • Six two-hoursessions • One-day and two-day facilitated workshops • Adult learning principles • Interactive and collaborative • Practical skill-building • Blended with post-class reinforcement tools • Blended with podcasts and online assessments ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 42
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    ©2012 Clay &Associates Inc. 43
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    Six, 90-minute webinars • Post-class reinforcement tools • May be licensed for internal delivery • Train-the-trainer model ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 44
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    Session 1: MistakesWe’ve Made Session 2: What We’ve Learned Session 3: Strategies for Transforming Relationships Classroom: 2 – 2.5 hours Webinar: 90 minutes ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 45
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    Session 4: Workingwith Attackers, Whiners, and Scene Stealers Session 5: Working with Drive-by Bosses, Manipulators, and Clueless Colleagues Session 3: Working with Faux-Smart Bosses, Slackers, and Bullies ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 46
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    Peer Power PublicWebinar Series • For leaders at all levels • Four, 90-minute webinars plus collaborative work at NetSpeed Fast Tracks™ • Blended with post-class reinforcement tools • Volume discounts ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 47
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    • “About You”Questionnaire • “About Them” Questionnaire • Personal Self-assessment • Post-class Reinforcement Tools • Podcasts and Knols ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 48
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    Electronic magazine • Four-pages • Downloaded • Quick reinforcement ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 51
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    • Role modelinterview • Short articles • Case study • Ask Cynthia & Ray ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 52
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    Application Improvement Confidence Behavior ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 57
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    • Participant mayinvite his/her manager to give feedback. • Questions mirror the Self-Evaluation. • Participant may invite direct reports to give feedback. • Evaluation data is compiled for comparison. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 58
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    Four Thursdays, beginning September 6 • 90-minute webinars led by Cynthia Clay • 1 – 2 participants: $399 each • 3+ participants: $349 each Register by July 15 and receive the “early bird” discount of $100 off the registration price. http://www.netspeedlearning.com/webinar/peerpowerwebinars/ ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 61
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    • Reduce managers’time spent resolving conflict. • Reduce costs of unresolved conflict in your organization. • Increase skills and confidence of your employees. • Gain ROI =10 times the cost of training. ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 62
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    “It‟s more importantthan ever to supply your workers with new tools, training, and techniques to help maintain a positive and engaging work environment that leads to higher productivity and strong business results.” Cynthia Clay and Ray Olitt ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 63
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    • 20% discounton all programs or services • Minimum of $15,000 (net) • Paid in full by July 31, 2012 ©2012 Clay & Associates Inc. 64
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