1) The document discusses the realities and challenges of married life, including problems that often arise between partners such as lack of understanding, suspicion, and financial difficulties.
2) It provides Buddhist teachings on marriage, including the Buddha's advice to couples on maintaining respect, trust, and sharing responsibilities.
3) The document examines issues that can cause religious dilemmas for interfaith couples, arguing that individuals should have the freedom to choose their own religious beliefs.
This document discusses the importance of communication, forgiveness, and understanding between couples according to Islamic teachings. It highlights several key points:
1) The Quran and teachings of Prophet Muhammad emphasize the importance of communication and consultation between spouses for a healthy marital relationship.
2) However, empirical studies have found a lack of communication, dialogue, and understanding present in many Muslim marriages.
3) The document identifies several common reasons for this absence of communication, including ignorance of its importance, busy lifestyles, past negative experiences, and a mistaken belief that actions alone demonstrate love and care for one's spouse.
4) It stresses the central role of open communication for problem-solving, maintaining intimacy,
The document discusses what makes relationships healthy and provides advice on building healthy relationships. [1] Healthy relationships are based on communication, sharing, respect and trust. [2] Signs of a healthy relationship include feeling good about yourself when with that person, an equal give-and-take, feeling safe to trust them with secrets, and wanting to spend time with them. [3] Tips for disagreements with friends include having the right to say no, disagreements don't mean an unhealthy relationship, and friendships help you learn about yourself.
The document discusses various perspectives on dating customs from around the world. It notes that in many countries and cultures, dating one-on-one is rare and group activities are more common for teenagers. Specific examples include Afghanistan, where arranged marriages are typical and schools are segregated by sex, limiting opportunities to meet; and Central and South America, where large mixed-gender groups often socialize together at dances and clubs on weekends. The document also discusses dating customs in Europe, Iran, Japan, Korea, and some general perspectives on appropriate places for dating.
This document discusses developing healthy relationships and avoiding conflicts in relationships. It notes that relationships are complex and take a long time to develop. It provides tips for brides on how to cultivate relationships with in-laws, such as forgetting status and focusing on equality. It emphasizes treating others, including in-laws, with respect and formality, as in a work environment. The document also points out anomalies in social customs regarding marriage and family matters that can contribute to conflicts, and suggests the need to understand different perspectives.
Healthy relationships are characterized by communication, trust, respect and making each other feel good. A healthy relationship has equal give-and-take and makes you feel safe, while unhealthy relationships can make you feel bad. To handle disagreements with friends, respect each other's right to say no, talk through disagreements, and accept differences. Healthy dating and friendships both require communication, honesty and respect, setting limits on physical intimacy, and spending time together and apart. Tips for healthy dating include getting to know each other in groups first, planning activities, setting limits, and telling others where you are.
06 my tips - behaviour therapy for would be brides.spandane
This document provides tips for developing positive relationships with one's spouse and in-laws. It discusses how marriage involves joining two families and maintaining cordial relationships is important. Specific tips include spending quality time together, communicating openly, being understanding of each other's needs and shortcomings, and showing gratitude for what family members have done. Forgiveness and resolving conflicts respectfully are also emphasized. The document stresses developing relationships through mutual understanding and respect rather than relying on mood or expectations.
Sure You're Mature_Session 6_Purity part 2roadsidebbc
Sammy was a young boy who enjoyed fishing during his summer break. One day, he found many worms under an old stump and used them as bait. While fishing, he felt stings in his hand but kept fishing due to his excitement. By the end of an hour, he had caught many fish. However, he was actually using baby rattlesnakes for bait and died from their venomous bites before reaching the hospital.
This document provides contact information for various services including solving family problems, promoting love marriages, getting lottery numbers, attracting a romantic partner, controlling someone's mind, increasing wealth, matchmaking, getting an ex back, and solving relationship issues. It also includes testimonials about solving problems quickly and mentions an expert in love solutions named Pandit Raghav Sharma.
This document discusses the importance of communication, forgiveness, and understanding between couples according to Islamic teachings. It highlights several key points:
1) The Quran and teachings of Prophet Muhammad emphasize the importance of communication and consultation between spouses for a healthy marital relationship.
2) However, empirical studies have found a lack of communication, dialogue, and understanding present in many Muslim marriages.
3) The document identifies several common reasons for this absence of communication, including ignorance of its importance, busy lifestyles, past negative experiences, and a mistaken belief that actions alone demonstrate love and care for one's spouse.
4) It stresses the central role of open communication for problem-solving, maintaining intimacy,
The document discusses what makes relationships healthy and provides advice on building healthy relationships. [1] Healthy relationships are based on communication, sharing, respect and trust. [2] Signs of a healthy relationship include feeling good about yourself when with that person, an equal give-and-take, feeling safe to trust them with secrets, and wanting to spend time with them. [3] Tips for disagreements with friends include having the right to say no, disagreements don't mean an unhealthy relationship, and friendships help you learn about yourself.
The document discusses various perspectives on dating customs from around the world. It notes that in many countries and cultures, dating one-on-one is rare and group activities are more common for teenagers. Specific examples include Afghanistan, where arranged marriages are typical and schools are segregated by sex, limiting opportunities to meet; and Central and South America, where large mixed-gender groups often socialize together at dances and clubs on weekends. The document also discusses dating customs in Europe, Iran, Japan, Korea, and some general perspectives on appropriate places for dating.
This document discusses developing healthy relationships and avoiding conflicts in relationships. It notes that relationships are complex and take a long time to develop. It provides tips for brides on how to cultivate relationships with in-laws, such as forgetting status and focusing on equality. It emphasizes treating others, including in-laws, with respect and formality, as in a work environment. The document also points out anomalies in social customs regarding marriage and family matters that can contribute to conflicts, and suggests the need to understand different perspectives.
Healthy relationships are characterized by communication, trust, respect and making each other feel good. A healthy relationship has equal give-and-take and makes you feel safe, while unhealthy relationships can make you feel bad. To handle disagreements with friends, respect each other's right to say no, talk through disagreements, and accept differences. Healthy dating and friendships both require communication, honesty and respect, setting limits on physical intimacy, and spending time together and apart. Tips for healthy dating include getting to know each other in groups first, planning activities, setting limits, and telling others where you are.
06 my tips - behaviour therapy for would be brides.spandane
This document provides tips for developing positive relationships with one's spouse and in-laws. It discusses how marriage involves joining two families and maintaining cordial relationships is important. Specific tips include spending quality time together, communicating openly, being understanding of each other's needs and shortcomings, and showing gratitude for what family members have done. Forgiveness and resolving conflicts respectfully are also emphasized. The document stresses developing relationships through mutual understanding and respect rather than relying on mood or expectations.
Sure You're Mature_Session 6_Purity part 2roadsidebbc
Sammy was a young boy who enjoyed fishing during his summer break. One day, he found many worms under an old stump and used them as bait. While fishing, he felt stings in his hand but kept fishing due to his excitement. By the end of an hour, he had caught many fish. However, he was actually using baby rattlesnakes for bait and died from their venomous bites before reaching the hospital.
This document provides contact information for various services including solving family problems, promoting love marriages, getting lottery numbers, attracting a romantic partner, controlling someone's mind, increasing wealth, matchmaking, getting an ex back, and solving relationship issues. It also includes testimonials about solving problems quickly and mentions an expert in love solutions named Pandit Raghav Sharma.
- The author grew up in a Pentecostal Christian family with frequent arguments between his parents, which negatively impacted his development and mental health as a young child.
- His older brother helped shield him from their parents' conflicts and provided nurturing care, instilling virtues of compassion and kindness. This support from his brother was crucial to his wellbeing.
- As he got older, he struggled with feelings of isolation, defensiveness, and low self-worth due to experiencing his parents' persistent arguments without understanding why. This early childhood environment shaped his views and behavior for many years.
The document discusses choosing a life partner and provides perspectives on marriage from both biblical and secular sources. It addresses some common myths about marriage, such as expecting it to fulfill all needs or solve existing problems. The document also defines what love and marriage are from a Christian viewpoint, emphasizing marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and woman ordained by God. It cautions that true love is a decision rather than just a feeling. Overall, the document offers guidance for selecting a spouse and achieving a happy marriage through understanding biblical principles.
This document discusses different types of love and signs of infatuation versus true love. It explores agape love, phileo love, and eros love. It also lists 7 signs of infatuation including the "axe effect", needing the other person, and only wanting them. The document advises that the heart feels emotions like pain and pleasure while the mind determines right from wrong. It suggests learning about true love by reading passages from the Bible like 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and 1 John 4:8 that define love as patient, kind, and not selfish or prideful.
Ehssan Alobaidy is a 38-year-old Doctor of Biochemistry Medicine from God is his top priority in life. He is single, marriage-minded, family-oriented and caring. He is looking for a responsible, honest, caring, loving, and marriage-minded woman who wants a long-term relationship and is willing to support his dream of humanitarian work. His interests include scientific research, books, praying, movies, music, traveling, swimming, camping, shopping, reading, dancing and listening to soft romantic music with genres like country and opera. His favorite foods are fruits, salad, fried rice, pasta, KFC and some Turkish and Arabic kababs.
Getting Ready for Marriage - A 7 Day Reading Plan - By Jim Burns and Doug FieldsDavid_C_Cook
Taken from their book "Getting Ready for Marriage," join
relationship experts Jim Burns and Doug Fields as they help you start planning now for your lasting union.
Finances, in-laws, communication, forgiveness, sexual expectations,
no topic is off-limits as you and your fiancé get ready to step from engagement into a life-long covenant to each other.
This document provides advice on choosing a marriage partner and discusses important factors to consider. It emphasizes looking beyond physical attraction or infatuation to evaluate a potential partner's character, values, treatment of family, goals, and ability to be a supportive companion. Key questions are raised about an individual's integrity, industriousness, respect for spiritual things, and capacity for an enduring loving relationship. The document stresses choosing a partner who will help one's spiritual growth and enlarge their sphere of positive influence.
This document discusses how friendship changes throughout different stages of life from pre-birth to old age and death. It begins by defining friendship and then explores how friendship develops from initial dependence on caregivers as infants to close bonds with peers as children and adolescents. During midlife, friendship takes a backseat as adults focus on careers and families, but remains important for companionship, especially in retirement and old age when friends and family have passed away. The document emphasizes how friendship takes on different forms but remains a significant relationship throughout one's entire life.
Various ways to help your husband with his angerTajinder Singh
In this fast pacing life the man of the family is having lot to deal with. This pressure of work often leads to anger and disappointment among the men. It is the duty of his wife to support him in such times and be with hi https://weddingdoers.com
Building great relationships helps everyone.
Together let's change the world . . . one happy relationship at a time!
Big Secrets Here You Need To Know.
The document provides a summary of three key points:
1. It discusses various characters and their interactions at social events including laughter, manners, and prospects between Marianne and others.
2. It then shifts to discussing families including the daughter improved, elinor family, and feet ask that between characters.
3. The document concludes by discussing homes including the shade being under his bed her, country towards adapted cheered, and apartments simplicity or understood do it we between different characters and settings.
Latin American youth face many challenges including high unemployment, poverty, violence, and social problems. They struggle to find their purpose in life, pursue careers and education despite lack of opportunities, and express themselves within their societies. Christians additionally struggle to live out their faith, grow spiritually, share their faith, resist temptation and serve God and the church faithfully amidst these difficulties. The document discusses the struggles of two youth, Angela and Javier, trying to achieve their dreams and serve their families and communities.
The document discusses the nature of true love. It states that true love makes one feel happy and comfortable with another person regardless of their flaws. True love is not selfish and makes one feel their partner is more valuable than anything else. For a relationship to be harmonious, love must be built on sincerity and honesty between individuals, not duplicity. True love is a commitment between partners that accepts their differences in culture, character, and personality.
The document discusses the differences between men and women and how understanding these differences can improve relationships. It notes that men and women often mistakenly expect the other gender to think and communicate the same way. However, the key is recognizing that men and women are created differently, with different natural tendencies and needs. The document provides examples from Islam and experts to illustrate how men typically prefer to solve problems directly while women prefer emotional support and discussion. It argues that respecting these differences through listening, compromise, and meeting each other's core needs can lead to more loving and content marriages.
Marriage is the most delicate and in most of the cases most important relationship known in this world. Our life has become very rigid and busy and this rigid life has made lots of things go wrong and one of the very important areas is marriage which gets affected due to our unhealthy, unsocial and sometimes senseless living style.
This document is a song by Jhené Aiko expressing hurt and disappointment over a failed relationship. In three verses and choruses, she reflects on signs that her partner was losing interest and moving on, realizing it is no longer worth salvaging. She acknowledges overhearing things that suggest he is seeing someone else. The chorus reiterates that his concerns are "none of your concern anymore" and the relationship will not work or hurt her anymore.
The document discusses the importance of surrounding oneself with positive people and environments that are conducive to personal and professional growth. It notes that negative people can drag you down and influence you to adopt their outlook, while positive people and environments allow you to reach your full potential. The document advocates planting yourself in "good soil" by choosing environments and social circles that are supportive and uplifting.
This document discusses the differences between dating, courtship, and marriage. It defines each term and provides examples. Dating involves two interested people pursuing a romantic relationship by spending time together. Courtship refers to a mutual romantic relationship where the individuals see each other as boyfriend/girlfriend. Marriage is described as a deep commitment done through religious oath or legal contract to settle down and start a family. The document also lists benefits of each and provides learning targets about identifying the distinctions between dating, courtship, and marriage.
The document discusses various stages in romantic relationships:
1. Courtship involves getting to know a potential partner through approved social activities and allows couples to decide if they want a long-term commitment.
2. Dating refers to planned social activities like outings done by couples to spend quality time together and assess compatibility for a serious relationship.
3. Going steady and engagement provide opportunities for couples to further strengthen their relationship through understanding, devotion and exploring each other's strengths before marriage.
4. Marriage is a lifelong partnership that unites two individuals in a bond of understanding, respect, care and love.
Positive Thoughts How To Be Positive And Happy Every MomentEasy Life Journey
Positive thoughts can dramatically change every action, situation, consequence, feeling, and how we live day by day.
This universe is made up of energy, and so are we, and so is everything.
When we send out negative energy, then we are surrounded by negative forces and energy.
And the opposite is also true to positivity.
We will show you why positive thoughts is not a force to be reckon with and why you must start thinking positively in every single moment of your life.
Here are 4 top reasons why positive thoughts should be incorporated into your life.
You will enjoy life more
Is healthy and can cure illness, diseases, and practically anything
Radiate positive energy and good vibes
Can have an impact on your career and reaching your dreams
FOR THE ORIGINAL WORK/ARTICLE visit here > https://easylifejourney.com/be-positive-and-happy/
Please support the original creator by visiting their website www.easylifejourney.com
This document profiles boxer Bobby Boulders and discusses his views on masculinity and violence in culture. It describes Boulders' childhood influences and upbringing where he was taught that being a man meant being physically dominant. The article questions what message Boulders would like to send to his young male fans about violence and how his celebrity could help address issues with the culture of masculinity. Boulders acknowledges the culture promotes violence too highly and says he could do more school outreach on the topic.
This document contains information for volunteers at Sean Casey Animal Rescue, a no-kill animal shelter located in Brooklyn, New York. It provides details on volunteering as a dog walker, including signing in and out dogs, properly handling dogs on walks, and reporting any issues. Volunteers must be at least 16 years old and sign a waiver. The duties of dog walkers are to spend 15-20 minutes playing with and exercising each dog to relieve stress from the shelter environment.
- The author grew up in a Pentecostal Christian family with frequent arguments between his parents, which negatively impacted his development and mental health as a young child.
- His older brother helped shield him from their parents' conflicts and provided nurturing care, instilling virtues of compassion and kindness. This support from his brother was crucial to his wellbeing.
- As he got older, he struggled with feelings of isolation, defensiveness, and low self-worth due to experiencing his parents' persistent arguments without understanding why. This early childhood environment shaped his views and behavior for many years.
The document discusses choosing a life partner and provides perspectives on marriage from both biblical and secular sources. It addresses some common myths about marriage, such as expecting it to fulfill all needs or solve existing problems. The document also defines what love and marriage are from a Christian viewpoint, emphasizing marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and woman ordained by God. It cautions that true love is a decision rather than just a feeling. Overall, the document offers guidance for selecting a spouse and achieving a happy marriage through understanding biblical principles.
This document discusses different types of love and signs of infatuation versus true love. It explores agape love, phileo love, and eros love. It also lists 7 signs of infatuation including the "axe effect", needing the other person, and only wanting them. The document advises that the heart feels emotions like pain and pleasure while the mind determines right from wrong. It suggests learning about true love by reading passages from the Bible like 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and 1 John 4:8 that define love as patient, kind, and not selfish or prideful.
Ehssan Alobaidy is a 38-year-old Doctor of Biochemistry Medicine from God is his top priority in life. He is single, marriage-minded, family-oriented and caring. He is looking for a responsible, honest, caring, loving, and marriage-minded woman who wants a long-term relationship and is willing to support his dream of humanitarian work. His interests include scientific research, books, praying, movies, music, traveling, swimming, camping, shopping, reading, dancing and listening to soft romantic music with genres like country and opera. His favorite foods are fruits, salad, fried rice, pasta, KFC and some Turkish and Arabic kababs.
Getting Ready for Marriage - A 7 Day Reading Plan - By Jim Burns and Doug FieldsDavid_C_Cook
Taken from their book "Getting Ready for Marriage," join
relationship experts Jim Burns and Doug Fields as they help you start planning now for your lasting union.
Finances, in-laws, communication, forgiveness, sexual expectations,
no topic is off-limits as you and your fiancé get ready to step from engagement into a life-long covenant to each other.
This document provides advice on choosing a marriage partner and discusses important factors to consider. It emphasizes looking beyond physical attraction or infatuation to evaluate a potential partner's character, values, treatment of family, goals, and ability to be a supportive companion. Key questions are raised about an individual's integrity, industriousness, respect for spiritual things, and capacity for an enduring loving relationship. The document stresses choosing a partner who will help one's spiritual growth and enlarge their sphere of positive influence.
This document discusses how friendship changes throughout different stages of life from pre-birth to old age and death. It begins by defining friendship and then explores how friendship develops from initial dependence on caregivers as infants to close bonds with peers as children and adolescents. During midlife, friendship takes a backseat as adults focus on careers and families, but remains important for companionship, especially in retirement and old age when friends and family have passed away. The document emphasizes how friendship takes on different forms but remains a significant relationship throughout one's entire life.
Various ways to help your husband with his angerTajinder Singh
In this fast pacing life the man of the family is having lot to deal with. This pressure of work often leads to anger and disappointment among the men. It is the duty of his wife to support him in such times and be with hi https://weddingdoers.com
Building great relationships helps everyone.
Together let's change the world . . . one happy relationship at a time!
Big Secrets Here You Need To Know.
The document provides a summary of three key points:
1. It discusses various characters and their interactions at social events including laughter, manners, and prospects between Marianne and others.
2. It then shifts to discussing families including the daughter improved, elinor family, and feet ask that between characters.
3. The document concludes by discussing homes including the shade being under his bed her, country towards adapted cheered, and apartments simplicity or understood do it we between different characters and settings.
Latin American youth face many challenges including high unemployment, poverty, violence, and social problems. They struggle to find their purpose in life, pursue careers and education despite lack of opportunities, and express themselves within their societies. Christians additionally struggle to live out their faith, grow spiritually, share their faith, resist temptation and serve God and the church faithfully amidst these difficulties. The document discusses the struggles of two youth, Angela and Javier, trying to achieve their dreams and serve their families and communities.
The document discusses the nature of true love. It states that true love makes one feel happy and comfortable with another person regardless of their flaws. True love is not selfish and makes one feel their partner is more valuable than anything else. For a relationship to be harmonious, love must be built on sincerity and honesty between individuals, not duplicity. True love is a commitment between partners that accepts their differences in culture, character, and personality.
The document discusses the differences between men and women and how understanding these differences can improve relationships. It notes that men and women often mistakenly expect the other gender to think and communicate the same way. However, the key is recognizing that men and women are created differently, with different natural tendencies and needs. The document provides examples from Islam and experts to illustrate how men typically prefer to solve problems directly while women prefer emotional support and discussion. It argues that respecting these differences through listening, compromise, and meeting each other's core needs can lead to more loving and content marriages.
Marriage is the most delicate and in most of the cases most important relationship known in this world. Our life has become very rigid and busy and this rigid life has made lots of things go wrong and one of the very important areas is marriage which gets affected due to our unhealthy, unsocial and sometimes senseless living style.
This document is a song by Jhené Aiko expressing hurt and disappointment over a failed relationship. In three verses and choruses, she reflects on signs that her partner was losing interest and moving on, realizing it is no longer worth salvaging. She acknowledges overhearing things that suggest he is seeing someone else. The chorus reiterates that his concerns are "none of your concern anymore" and the relationship will not work or hurt her anymore.
The document discusses the importance of surrounding oneself with positive people and environments that are conducive to personal and professional growth. It notes that negative people can drag you down and influence you to adopt their outlook, while positive people and environments allow you to reach your full potential. The document advocates planting yourself in "good soil" by choosing environments and social circles that are supportive and uplifting.
This document discusses the differences between dating, courtship, and marriage. It defines each term and provides examples. Dating involves two interested people pursuing a romantic relationship by spending time together. Courtship refers to a mutual romantic relationship where the individuals see each other as boyfriend/girlfriend. Marriage is described as a deep commitment done through religious oath or legal contract to settle down and start a family. The document also lists benefits of each and provides learning targets about identifying the distinctions between dating, courtship, and marriage.
The document discusses various stages in romantic relationships:
1. Courtship involves getting to know a potential partner through approved social activities and allows couples to decide if they want a long-term commitment.
2. Dating refers to planned social activities like outings done by couples to spend quality time together and assess compatibility for a serious relationship.
3. Going steady and engagement provide opportunities for couples to further strengthen their relationship through understanding, devotion and exploring each other's strengths before marriage.
4. Marriage is a lifelong partnership that unites two individuals in a bond of understanding, respect, care and love.
Positive Thoughts How To Be Positive And Happy Every MomentEasy Life Journey
Positive thoughts can dramatically change every action, situation, consequence, feeling, and how we live day by day.
This universe is made up of energy, and so are we, and so is everything.
When we send out negative energy, then we are surrounded by negative forces and energy.
And the opposite is also true to positivity.
We will show you why positive thoughts is not a force to be reckon with and why you must start thinking positively in every single moment of your life.
Here are 4 top reasons why positive thoughts should be incorporated into your life.
You will enjoy life more
Is healthy and can cure illness, diseases, and practically anything
Radiate positive energy and good vibes
Can have an impact on your career and reaching your dreams
FOR THE ORIGINAL WORK/ARTICLE visit here > https://easylifejourney.com/be-positive-and-happy/
Please support the original creator by visiting their website www.easylifejourney.com
This document profiles boxer Bobby Boulders and discusses his views on masculinity and violence in culture. It describes Boulders' childhood influences and upbringing where he was taught that being a man meant being physically dominant. The article questions what message Boulders would like to send to his young male fans about violence and how his celebrity could help address issues with the culture of masculinity. Boulders acknowledges the culture promotes violence too highly and says he could do more school outreach on the topic.
This document contains information for volunteers at Sean Casey Animal Rescue, a no-kill animal shelter located in Brooklyn, New York. It provides details on volunteering as a dog walker, including signing in and out dogs, properly handling dogs on walks, and reporting any issues. Volunteers must be at least 16 years old and sign a waiver. The duties of dog walkers are to spend 15-20 minutes playing with and exercising each dog to relieve stress from the shelter environment.
The document describes the volunteer position of dog walker/socializer at Sean Casey Animal Rescue. It provides details on the purpose and duties of the role, which include walking dogs for at least 20 minutes each, disposing of waste, monitoring the dogs' behavior and health, and following protocols to prevent dog interactions. Qualifications include being at least 18 years old and completing an application. The volunteer is expected to sign waivers and follow conduct standards to maintain professionalism and safety.
The students at El Carmen School spent their first days back learning about product characteristics such as origin and whether they are natural or processed. As part of this lesson, the students cooked dishes at home and brought them to school to share their recipes, including the ingredients and preparation steps. They enjoyed tasting each other's dishes after explaining how they made them.
The document discusses the creation of a promotional package for a horror film that includes a magazine cover, teaser poster, and teaser trailer. It analyzes the use of mise-en-scene, language, fonts, images, and colors across the three pieces to establish a consistent brand identity. Costumes, props, lighting, and colors create strong continuity, while inconsistent fonts and language between the magazine cover and other pieces weaken the overall brand identity. Overall, the teaser poster and trailer are most cohesive while the magazine cover could better link the promotional elements into a unified brand.
The students at El Carmen Primary School created robots as part of a lesson on body parts. They sent pictures of the robots to Salusbury School, noting that the robots were similar to ones the other students had made. The document included pictures of robots made by 16 different students.
The document discusses different methods for reducing, reusing, and recycling garbage and waste materials. It describes recycling as an alternative to putting materials in a landfill, where items are processed and made into new products. Reusing items extends their lifespan by finding new purposes for them rather than immediately discarding. Reducing the amount of waste created is also important through actions like buying items with less packaging. The document outlines advantages and disadvantages of reuse, as well as different disposal methods like composting, landfilling, and incineration.
One indiabulls gurgaon 99997.44778 indiabulls one gurgaon sector 104 dwarka e...sachivchawla
Indiabulls Real Estate Limited is one of the largest real estate firms in India with over 72.86 million square feet of commercial developments and residential projects across India. Their new project, One Indiabulls Gurgaon, spans over 28 acres with over 22 acres of open spaces and greenery located along the 150-meter wide Dwarka Expressway. The project includes luxury townhouses, penthouses, and spacious apartments in low and high-rise buildings with world-class amenities and features. Indiabulls plans an aggressive marketing campaign through print, digital, radio and outdoor advertisements to promote this premium development.
Makalah ini membahas sistem informasi dan komponennya. Sistem informasi didefinisikan sebagai kumpulan antara subsistem yang saling berhubungan yang membentuk suatu komponen yang mencakup input, proses, dan output untuk pengolahan informasi. Komponen utama sistem informasi meliputi orang, perangkat keras, perangkat lunak, data, jaringan, dan proses. Jenis sistem informasi dibedakan berdasarkan tingkat organisasi, area fungsional, dan dukungan yang d
The document describes how Christmas is celebrated in Spain. It is begun on December 22nd with an important lottery drawing. Cities, towns, and homes are decorated with Christmas trees and nativity scenes. Families gather on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve, and New Year's Day. On New Year's Eve, 12 grapes are eaten at midnight while bells ring in Madrid. On January 5th, the Three Wise Men arrive with presents for children.
Digitization @ The State Library of Arizonastatelibaz
The document discusses digitization practices at the State Library of Arizona. It explains the differences between preservation and archival approaches to digitization. Preservation focuses on reproducing the information content while archival focuses on maintaining the original document characteristics. The document also describes the different scanners used for digitization, including their advantages and disadvantages. Color versus black and white scanning is discussed, as well as a hybrid approach. The digitization approach depends on factors like access needs, personnel, and budget. Digitized materials are crosslinked between the library catalog and a digital archive project.
The document provides information about choosing a life partner and discusses important considerations for marriage. It explores whether a person's partner's smile is genuine and why that matters. It also examines the roles of families, what Christian marriage means, myths about marriage, and the differences between love and infatuation. The document aims to help people choose wisely when selecting a life partner and provide insights for having a happy marriage.
This document summarizes the key findings of a 75-year longitudinal study on adult development and happiness. The three main lessons learned from the study were:
1. Social relationships and connections are important for happiness and health. Those with good relationships and social connections lived longer and were happier.
2. Loneliness is toxic - those who were lonely and lacked social connections were unhappier and had worse health outcomes.
3. The quality of relationships mattered more than quantity - having a few close relationships was more important than having many casual relationships. Good relationships protected both physical and mental health.
This document discusses several topics related to human sexuality and intimacy. It begins by defining human sexuality and exploring how it impacts various aspects of life. It then discusses what intimacy means, describing it as a close, familiar relationship that involves emotional closeness, spiritual connection, and openness. The document also examines teenage relationships, noting both the advantages like learning about relationships but also the disadvantages such as emotional instability and life-long scars. It discusses pre-marital sexuality and why many societies forbid it due to potential consequences. Finally, it explores ways to avoid pre-marital sex through education and developing healthy views of sexuality and relationships from a young age.
This document discusses marriage from an Indian perspective, focusing on arranged marriages. It provides background on how arranged marriages originated in India due to practices like child marriage and the caste system. It notes that while love marriages became more accepted over time, arranged marriage has remained prevalent, especially in rural areas. The document discusses pros and cons of both arranged and love marriages, noting that both can work depending on the couple, and that commitment, understanding and effort are most important for a successful marriage.
Relationships can be beautiful things that bring us much joy and
pleasure in our lives. Sometimes we face issues in our relationships
that cause problems between the participants. The following are some
steps on how to piece things back together and keep the relationship
together with the one you love.
Relationships can be beautiful things that bring us much joy and
pleasure in our lives. Sometimes we face issues in our relationships
that cause problems between the participants. The following are some
steps on how to piece things back together and keep the relationship
together with the one you love.
Marriage is a social contract that legally and emotionally unites two individuals. It requires a commitment from both partners to support each other through good and bad times. People marry for various reasons, such as legal obligations, family expectations, or religious beliefs. Successful marriages are typically monogamous and require open communication, mutual respect, trust, compromise, and putting effort into the relationship. A divorce legally dissolves the marital union and responsibilities. Common reasons for divorce include a lack of proper communication between partners, disagreements over finances or parenting, and immature or rushed decisions to marry without fully considering commitment. Rebuilding broken trust through honesty, respect, quality time together, and expressing love can help strengthen a struggling marriage.
Relationships can be beautiful things that bring us much joy and
pleasure in our lives. Sometimes we face issues in our relationships
that cause problems between the participants. The following are some
steps on how to piece things back together and keep the relationship
together with the one you love.
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1. THE REALITY OF MARRIED LIFE
By
Ven. Dr K Sri Dhammananda
John J. Robinson in his book “Of Suchness” gives the following advice on love, sex and
married life. “Be careful and discreet; it is much easier to get married than unmarried. If
you have the right mate, it’s heavenly; but if not, you live in a twenty-four hour daily hell
that clings constantly to you, it can be one of the most bitter things in life. Life is indeed
strange. Somehow, when you find the right one, you know it in your heart. It is not just
an infatuation of the moment. But the powerful urges of sex drive a young person
headlong into blind acts and one cannot trust his feelings too much. This is especially
true if one drinks and get befuddled; the lousiest slut in a dark bar can look like a Venus
then, and her charms become irresistible. Love is much more than sex though; it is the
biological foundation between a man and a woman; love and sex get all inter-twined and
mixed up”.
Problems
Almost everyday, we hear people complaining about their marriages. Very seldom do we
hear stories about a happy marriage. Young people reading romantic novels and seeing
romantic films often conclude that marriage is a bed of roses. Unfortunately, marriage is
not as sweet as one thinks. Marriage and problems are interrelated and people must
remember that when they are getting married, they will have to face problems and
responsibilities that they had never expected or experienced hitherto.
People often think that it is a duty to get married and that marriage is a very important
event in their lives. However, in order to ensure a successful marriage, a couple has to
harmonize their lives by minimizing whatever differences they may have between them.
Marital problems prompted a cynic to say that there can only be a peaceful married life if
the marriage is between a blind wife and a deaf husband, for the blind wife cannot see
the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of his wife.
Sharing and Trust
One of the major causes of marital problems is suspicion and mistrust. Marriage is a
blessing but many people make it a curse due to lack of understanding.
Both husband and wife should show implicit trust for one another and try not to have
secrets between them. Secrets create suspicion, suspicion leads to jealousy, jealousy
generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation, suicide or
even murder.
If a couple can share pain and pleasure in their day-to-day life, they can console each
other and minimize their grievances. Thus, the wife or husband should not expect to
experience only pleasure. There will be a lot of painful, miserable experiences that they
will have to face. They must have the strong will power to reduce their burdens and
misunderstandings. Discussing mutual problems will give them confidence to live
together with better understanding.
Man and woman need the comfort of each other when facing problems and difficulties.
The feelings of insecurity and unrest will disappear and life will be more meaningful,
happy and interesting if there is someone who is willing to share another’s burden.
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2. Blinded by Emotions
When two people are in love, they tend to show only the best aspects of their nature and
character to each other in order to project a good impression of themselves. Love is said
to be blind and hence people in love tend to become completely oblivious of the darker
side of each other’s natures.
In practice, each will try to highlight his or her sterling qualities to the other, and being so
engrossed in love, they tend to accept each other at “face value” only. Each lover will not
disclose the darker side of his or her nature for fear of losing the other. Any personal
shortcomings are discreetly swept under the carpet, so to speak, so as not to jeopardise
their chances of winning each other. People in love also tend to ignore their partner’s
faults thinking that they will be able to correct them after marriage, or that they can live
with these faults, that “love will conquer all”.
However, after marriage, as the initial romantic mood wears off, the true nature of each
other’s character will be revealed. Then, much to the disappointment of both parties, the
proverbial veil that had so far been concealing the innermost feelings of each partner is
removed to expose the true nature of both partners. It is then that disillusion sets in.
Material Needs
Love by itself does not subsist on fresh air and sunshine alone. The present world is a
materialistic world and in order to meet your material needs, proper financing and
budgeting is essential. Without it, no family can live comfortably. Such a situation aptly
bears out the saying that “when poverty knocks at the door, love flies through the
window”. This does not mean that one must be rich to make a marriage work. However,
if one has the basic necessities of life provided through a secure job and careful
planning, many unnecessary anxieties can be removed from a marriage.
The discomfort of poverty can be averted if there is complete understanding between the
couple. Both partners must understand the value of contentment. Both must treat all
problems as “our problems” and share all the “ups” and “downs” in the true spirit of a
long-standing life partnership.
Pre-marriage Advice
The Anguttara Nikaya contains some valuable advice which the Buddha gave to young
girls prior to their marriage. Realizing that there could be difficulties with the new in-laws,
the girls were enjoined to give every respect to their mothers-in-law and fathers-in-law,
serving them lovingly as their own parents. They were expected to honour and respect
their husbands’ relatives and friends, thus creating a congenial and happy atmosphere in
their new homes.
They were also advised to study and understand their husband’s natures, ascertain their
activities, characters and temperaments, and to be useful and cooperative at all times in
their new homes. They should be polite, kind and watchful of their husbands’ earnings
and see to it that all household expenditures were properly administered. The advice
given by the Buddha more than twenty-five centuries ago is still valid even today.
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3. THE BUDDHIST CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE
In view of what has been said about “birth and suffering”, some people have criticised
Buddhism saying that it is against married life. They are wrong. The Buddha never
spoke against married life. However, he pointed out all the problems, difficulties and
worries that people would have to face when they take on the responsibility of marriage.
Just because he warned one against problems in marriage does not mean that the
Buddha condemned marriage.
The act of marriage itself implies that a person is still more attached to the physical world
and since our mental faculties are influenced by craving, attachment and human
emotions, it is but natural that problems would arise. This happens when we have to
consider the needs of others and to give in to what others need.
Role of Religion
A deep analysis of the nature of self is important to help us to understand the origin of
our problems, worries, miseries and how to overcome them. Here, religious advice is
important for maintaining a tranquil life. However, a man should not become a slave to
any religion. Man is not for religion, religion is for man. That means man must know
how to make use of religion for his betterment and for his happiness in a respectable
way. Simply by following certain religious vows, precepts or commandments with blind
faith or by force, thinking that we are duty-bound to observe them will not develop proper
understanding.
One important aspect of Buddhism is that the Buddha did not impose any religious laws
or commandments. The Buddha was a unique teacher who had set out a number of
disciplinary codes for us to uphold according to our way of life. Those who follow the
precepts observe them voluntarily but not as obligatory religious laws. It is up to us to
follow the advice through our own understanding and experience of what is good for us
and for others. Through trial and error, we will learn to follow the advice which will give
us just peace and happiness.
One should try to understand the nature of the worldly life. By knowing that you have to
face problems, you will be able to strengthen your mind and be more prepared to face
the problems that could arise if you get married. Religion is important to help you
overcome your problems. Whatever you learnt about religious principles when you were
young can be adopted to avoid misunderstanding, disappointment and frustration. At the
same time, certain good qualities such as patience and understanding which we learned
through religion are important assets to help us to lead a peaceful married life.
Normally, it is due to a lack of mutual understanding that many married couples lead
miserable lives. The result of this is that their innocent children also have to suffer. It is
better to know how to handle your problems in order to lead a happy married life.
Religion can help you to do this.
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4. THE RELIGIOUS DILEMMA
Individual Rights
One of the causes of the greatest concern among those who do not belong to the non-
semitic religions is the problem of conversion before marriage. While Buddhists and
Hindus never demand that a couple must belong to the same religion before a marriage
can be solemnized, many others tend to take advantage of this tolerance.
Marriage, contrary to what many romantic novels say, does not mean the total and
absolute merging of two people to the extent that each loses his or her own identity.
When a religion demands that both partners must have the same religious label, it
denies the basic human right of an individual to believe what he or she wants. Societies
throughout history have proved that “Unity in Diversity” is not only possible but desirable.
Out of diversity comes greater respect and understanding. This should apply to marriage
also. There are many living examples all over the world where the husband and wife
maintain their own beliefs and yet are able to maintain their happy married life without
confronting each other.
Buddhists do not oppose the existence of other religions even within the same
household. Unfortunately this generous attitude has been exploited by unscrupulous
religionists who are out to gain converts by all means.
Intelligent Buddhists must be aware of this stratagem. No self-respecting intelligent
human being who really understands what he believes according to his own conviction
should give up his beliefs merely to satisfy the man-made demands of another religion.
Buddhists do not demand that their partners embrace Buddhism. Neither should they
surrender their own beliefs.
Post-marriage Blues
When young people are in love, they are prepared to make many sacrifies so long as
they can get married. But after a few years, when the real task of building a successful
marriage begins, frustrations begin to set in. When a partner who had given up his deep-
seated religious beliefs for “love” begins to regret having done so, unnecessary
misunderstandings arise. These provide added tensions at a period when there is
boredom in a marriage. There will be quarrels. And normally, one of the main causes of
these quarrels will be the question of which religion the children should belong to.
Therefore, it is most important for one to know that if there is a process of conversion
involved, it must be based on true conviction and not mere convenience or compulsion.
Buddhist maintains the freedom of the individual to choose. This principle should be
respected by all.
The Ceremony
There is no specific Buddhist ritual or procedure to conduct a marriage. Buddhism
recognizes the traditions and cultures practised by people in different countries. Hence,
Buddhist religious ceremonies differ from one country to another.
In general practice, a religious service for blessing and to give advice to the couple is
customarily performed either in the temple or at home to give a greater significance to
the marriage. Nowadays, in many countries, besides the blessing service, religious
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5. organizations also have been given the authority to solemnize and register marriages
together with the issuance of the legal marriage certificates.
By and large, the most important point is that the couple should be utterly sincere in their
intention to cooperate with and understand each other not only during times of
happiness but also whenever they face difficulties.
SECURITY, RESPECT AND RESPONSIBILITIES
Sense of Insecurity
In the past, there was no such thing as a legal registration of marriages. A man and
woman mutually decided to accept each other as husband and wife and thereafter they
lived together. Their marriage was carried out in the presence of the community, and
separation was rare. The most important thing was that they developed real love and
respected their mutual responsibilities.
A legal registration of marriage is important today to ensure security and to safeguard
property and children. Due to the sense of insecurity, a couple performs legal marriages
to ensure that they are legally bound not to neglect their duties and not to ill-treat each
other. Today, some couples even draw up a legal contract on what would happen to
their property if they are divorced!
Husband and Wife
According to Buddhist teaching, in a marriage, the husband can expect the following
qualities from his wife:
- love
- attentiveness
- family obligations
- faithfulness
- child-care
- thrift
- the provision of meals
- to calm him down when he is upset
- sweetness in everything
In return, the wife’s expectation from the husband is:
- tenderness
- courtesy
- sociability
- security
- fairness
- loyalty
- honesty
- good companionship
- moral support
Apart from these emotional and sensual aspects, the couple will have to take
care of a day-to-day living conditions, family budget and social obligations. Thus,
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6. mutual consultations between the husband and wife on all family problems would
help to create an atmosphere of trust and understanding in resolving whatever
issues that may arise.
The Buddha’s Advice to a Couple
1. The Wife
In advising women about their role in married life, the Buddha appreciated that the
peace and harmony of a home rested largely on a woman. His advice was realistic and
practical when he explained a good number of day-to-day characteristics which a
woman should or should not cultivate. On diverse occasions, the Buddha counselled that
a wife should:
a) not harbour evil thoughts against her husband;
b) not be cruel, harsh or domineering;
c) not be spendthrift but should be economical and live within her means;
d) guard and save her husband’s hard-earned earnings and property;
e) always be attentive and chaste in mind and action;
f) be faithful and harbour no thought of any adulterous acts;
g) be refined in speech and polite in action;
h) be kind, industrious and hardworking;
i) be thoughtful and compassionate towards her husband and her attitude
should equate that of a mother’s love and concern for the protection of her
only son;
j) be modest and respectful;
k) be cool, calm and understanding-serving not only as a wife but also as a
friend and advisor when the need arises.
In the days of the Buddha, other religious teachers also spoke on the duties and
obligations of a wife towards her husband – stressing particularly on the duty of a wife
bearing an off-spring for the husband, rendering faithful service and providing conjugal
happiness.
Some communities are very particular about having a son in the family. They believe
that a son is necessary to perform their funeral rites so that their after-life will be good
one. The failure to get a son from their first wife, gives a man the liberty to have another
wife in order to get a son. Buddhism does not support this belief.
According to what the Buddha taught about the law of Karma, one is responsible for
one’s own action and its consequences. Whether a son or a daughter is born is
determined not by a father or mother but the karma of the child. And the well being of a
father or grandfather does not depend upon the action of the son or grandson. Each is
responsible for his own actions. So, it is wrong for men to blame their wives or for a man
to feel inadequate when a son is not born. Such Enlightened Teachings help to correct
the views of many people and naturally reduce the anxiety of women who are unable to
produce sons to perform the “rites of the ancestors”.
Although the duties of a wife towards the husband were laid down in the Confucian code
of discipline, it did not stress the duties and obligations of the husband towards the wife.
In the Sigalovada Sutta however the Buddha clearly mentioned the duties of a husband
towards the wife and vice versa.
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7. II The Husband
The Buddha, in reply to a householder as to how a husband should minister to his wife,
declared that the husband should always honour and respect his wife, by being faithful
to her, by giving her the requisite authority to manage domestic affairs and by giving her
befitting ornaments. This advice, given over twenty-five centuries ago, still stands good
for today.
Knowing the psychology of the man who tends to consider himself superior, the Buddha
made a remarkable change and uplifted the status of a woman by a simple suggestion
that a husband should honour and respect his wife. A husband should be faithful to his
wife, which means that a husband should fulfill and maintain his marital obligations to his
wife thus sustaining the confidence in the marital relationship in every sense of the word.
The husband, being a bread-winner, would invariably stay away from home, hence he
should entrust the domestic or household duties to the wife who should be considered
as the keeper and the distributor of the property and the home economic-administrator.
The provision of befitting ornaments to the wife should be symbolic of the husband’s
love, care and attention showered on the wife. This symbolic practice has been carried
out from time immemorial in Buddhist communities. Unfortunately it is in danger of dying
out because of the influence of modern civilization.
The Past
In the past, since the social structure of most communities was different from that we
find today, a husband and wife were interdependent on each other. There was mutual
understanding, and the relationship was stable because each knew exactly what his or
her role was in the partnership. The ‘love’ that some husbands and wives try to show
others by embracing each other in public does not necessarily indicate true love or
understanding. In the past, although married couples did not express their love or inner
feeling publicly, they had a deep even unspoken understanding and mutual respect for
each other.
The ancient customs which people had in certain countries that the wife must sacrifice
her life after her husband’s death and also the custom which prevents a widow from
remarrying is foreign to Buddhism. Buddhism does not regard a wife as being inferior to
a husband.
Modern Society
Some women feel that for them to concentrate on the upbringing of the family is
degrading and conservative. It is true that in the past women had been treated very
badly, but this was due more to the ignorance on the part of men than the inherent
weakness in the concept of depending on women to bring up children.
Women have been struggling for ages to gain equality with men in the field of education,
the professions, politics and other avenues. They are now at par with men to a great
extent. The male generally tends to be aggressive by nature and female more emotional.
In the domestic scene, particularly in the East, the male is more dominant as head of the
family whilst the female tends to remain as passive partner. Please remember, ‘passive’
here does not mean ‘weak’. Rather it is a positive quality of ‘softness’ and ‘gentleness’.
If man and woman maintain their masculine and feminine qualities inherited from nature
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8. and recognize their respective strengths, then, that attitude can contribute towards a
congenial mutual understanding between the sexes.
Gandhi’s remarks:
‘I believe in the proper education of woman. But I do believe that woman will not
make her contribution to the world by mimicking or running a race with man. She
can run the race, but she will not rise to the great heights she is capable of by
mimicking man. She has to be the complement of man’.
Parental Responsibilities
The basis of all human society is the intricate relationship between parent and child. A
mother’s duty is to love, care and protect the child, even at extreme cost. This is the self-
sacrificing love that the Buddha taught. It is practical, caring and generous and it is
selfless. Buddhists are taught that parents should care for the child as the earth cares for
all the plants and creatures.
Parents are responsible for the well-being and up-bringing of their children. If the child
grows up to be a strong, healthy and useful citizen, it is the result of parents’ efforts. If
the child grows up to be delinquent, parents must bear the responsibility. One must not
blame others or society if children go astray. It is the duty of parents to guide children on
the proper path.
A child, at its most impressionable age, needs the tender love, care and attention of
parents. Without parental love and guidance, a child will be handicapped and will find the
world a bewildering place to live in. However, showering parental love, care and
attention does not mean pandering to all the demands of the child, reasonable or
otherwise. Too much pampering would spoil the child. The mother in bestowing her love
and care should also be strict and firm in handling the tantrums of a child. Being strict
and firm does not mean being harsh to the child. Show your love, but temper it with a
disciplined hand – the child will understand.
Unfortunately, amongst present-day parents, parental love is sadly lacking. The mad
rush for material advancement, the liberation movements and the aspiration for equality,
have resulted in many mothers joining their husbands, spending their working hours in
offices and shops, rather than remaining at home tending to their off-spring. The children
left to the care of relations or paid servants, are bewildered on being denied tender
motherly love and care. The mother, feeling guilty about her lack of attention, tries to
placate the child by giving in to all sorts of demands from the child. Such an action spoils
the child. Providing the child with all sorts of modern toys such as tanks, machine guns,
pistols, swords and such like equipment, as an appeasement is not psychologically
good.
Loading a child with such toys is no substitute for a mother’s tender love and affections.
Devoid of parental affection and guidance, it will not be surprising if the child
subsequently grows up to be a delinquent. Then, who is to be blamed for bringing up a
wayward child? The parents of course! The working mother, especially after a hard day’s
work in an office to be followed by household chores, can hardly find time for the child
that is yearning for her care and attention. Parents who have no time for their children
should not complain when these same children have no time for them when they are old.
Parents who claim that they spend a lot of money on their children but are too busy
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9. should not complain when their “busy” children in turn leave them in expensive Homes
for the Aged!
Most women work today so that the family can enjoy more material benefits. They
should seriously consider Gandhi’s advice for men to seek freedom from greed rather
than freedom from need. Of course, given today’s economic set-up we cannot deny that
some mothers are forced to work. In such a case, the father and mother must make
extra sacrifices of their time to compensate for what their children miss when they are
away. If both parents spend their non-working hours at home with their children, there
will be greater understanding between parents and children.
In his discourses, the Buddha has listed certain primary duties and functions as essential
guidelines for parents to observe. One of the primary guidelines is by precept, practice
and action, to lead the children away from things that are evil and through gentle
persuasion, to guide them to do all that is good for the family, for society and for the
country. In this connection, parents would have to exercise great care in dealing with
their children. It is not what the parents profess but what they really are and do, that the
child absorbs unconsciously and lovingly . The child’s entry into the world is moulded by
emulating parental behaviour. It follows that good begets good and evil begets evil.
Parents who spend much time with their children will subtly transmit their characteristics
to their offspring.
Extracted From The Book : A Happy Married Life
The Full Text is on Sale and can be obtained from:
Buddhist Missionary Society Malaysia
Buddhist Maha Vihara
123, Jalan Berhala, Brickfields
50470 Kuala Lumpur
Malaysia
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